This post is only for those who are under the wrong impression that Doms and subs are not normal people. Itâs been brought to my notice and Iâve witnessed it myself that many people on here and elsewhere consider us, the ones living and finding pleasure and peace in the BDSM lifestyle as ânot normalâ. In fact, itâs increased to such an alarming rate that many have begun to reconsider if this really is a lifestyle or just a facade to a kinky game, and the ones who wish to explore it, well, they get scared even before they touch the surface, and thatâs exactly why I thought a post like this is needed, to tell the ones that we are just as human and normal as you are, and the only reason you are seeing us in the wrong way is because of the fakes out there. The fake ones claiming to Doms and subs just put our community to the test over and over again but lemme tell you guys the reality here.
Doms -Â Thereâs this weird notion in peopleâs head that most Doms are just some kinda monsters who love to punish and desire to control everything they see. Are you really fucking serious???!!! Theyâre thought to derive pleasure from hurting others, are said to be cold hearted men, some who donât really care about anyone else but themselves. Well, lemme give you guys a small advice. Find a Dom, and just observe the way he lives and treats his woman/sub. Do you think Doms really enjoy punishing their subs??? To an extent, they do, but keep in mind that they know thatâs itâs a 'punishmentâ and that means that they only administer it when their subs have made mistakes or crossed a line. And do you think they do it without the subâs consent? Thatâs the weirdest thing you can think cause a sub has already given herself to her Dom, and whatever he administers or dishes out, she takes it willingly, whatâs more, she revels in it, and even a sadistic Dom only dishes out as much as he thinks his sub can take, cause he knows that going overboard could cause some serious trouble, and might even end her life on certain circumstances, and that is not something he can afford at all, because believe it or not, to him, his sub or slave is precious and one of a kind, unless heâs some sorta maniac just looking to torture and kill people. Trust me, he doesnât really realize it himself, but even he has certain limits to what he does.
A Dom is just as caring as any other human male, if not, then more so. He tends to his sub when sheâs unwell or hurt, holds her till she calms down and he never, keep in mind, he never hurts her emotionally. Everything he does is within certain limits, and keep in mind, the use of a safeword is always available to his sub if she feels that heâs going overboard. He loves his sub, and makes sure that sheâs always in sound health and mind. His first and foremost duty is to care for and protect his sub, and he doesnât do it just cause itâs expected of him. He does it because he wants to and loves to do it. He makes sure she isnât afraid of him, that she can be herself with him, and only then can he hope to truly own her, and the greatest acheivement of a Dom is to own his sub, all of her, body, mind, and soul.
Subs - I find the things said about submissives even more hilarious and infuriating than what is said about the dominants. Tell me, why do you say that these women are sluts huh? Just cause they like to be kinky and give themselves over to someone? Thatâs your basis for calling then sluts and whores? If thatâs what you think, then Iâm sorry to tell you that your mind is really underdeveloped and you might wanna do something about that. Many are under the impression that if a woman is submissive, she should submit to any man who wants her, and you consider yourself to be one of the men she should submit to. Well, if thatâs your mentality, why not admit that youâre too much of a wuss to know how to treat a woman and earn her submission, and have no clue as to how to get into their pants cause thatâs all you want. Well, hate to break it to you but that kinda attitude ainât gonna get you anywhere. Submissive women donât give themselves to just anyone. They give themselves to the man whoâs earned their submission, whoâs made her feel like a woman, has earned her trust, and knows has what it takes to deal with any given situation. Masochists too only give themselves over to the men who they know can give them what they desire, nothing less, but more if they wish so.
Subs revel in the feeling of being controlled, and happily hand over the reigns to the man they deem fit to lead them. They love to know that theyâre not the ones in charge, and just have to obey, but keep in mind, they donât obey blindly, and can always retaliate if something demanded by their Dom is either pushing their limits without her given consent, or is threatening to harm her in a particular way. In a Dom/sub relationship, itâs the sub who is truly the one with the power in her hand, and she willingly gives it to her Dom. A Dom has to always respect the limits she sets, and can under no circumstances try to push them unless she has consented to it, and she can end the entire thing any time she wishes to do so. That kinda woman, she ainât a slut, sheâs just someone whoâs really sure of what she wants and isnât afraid to act upon it. The greatest pleasure for a sub is to be able to completely satisfy her Dom, because that in turn makes her feel wonderful, knowing that itâs her whoâs made him happy.
General - Whatâs all this bullshit about a Dom and his sub canât love each other??? A Dom and his sub can be and do what they want, and nobody else has a say in it. They can be as much in love with each other as anyone else. Sure, their love might be a little different at times, but itâs love nonetheless, and they can act upon their feelings in any way they wish to. No matter what they do behind closed doors, they can always act or be a normal couple outside. A Dom and his sub draw strength and emotional support from each other like an unending reservoir, and thatâs what makes their relationship wonderful, one thatâs filled with love, beauty, and respect. They are two sides of the same coin and complete each other in a way that most vanilla relationships lack these days, no offense to anyone in a vanilla relationship cause Iâm just talking about the ones not doing too well. The strong ones that are filled with love and care, congrats to you guys. Some say that if Dom and his sub break up, they arenât supposed to feel sad and broken. Are you serious?! Theyâre humans too and have all the rights to feel anything and everything they want to. A Dom can feel betrayed and broken if his sub deserts him without a proper reason and in the same way, a sub can feel betrayed and broken if her Dom steps over the limits or breaks a certain promise, so, before you comment, try to get to know us better.
Just keep in mind that we are normal humans as well and can feel and experience emotions just like everyone else. So, before you make any stupid comments, make sure youâve studied who we are and what we do thoroughly.
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