Ladies I have another question for you....
What’s one thing you wish guy did while he was going down ?
Actually suck on the clitoris instead of flicking it with his tongue like how a cat drinks water.
I have so much to learn thelifeofbunches
Go slow. Not everything has to be fast paced and crazy all the time
Hold my thighs. Like grip them, just firm enough…
Yasss that clit flicking shit is not the wave.
What about sucking on the clit ? thetennesseehoneyy
Fingering at the same time is always nice, but not in and out, find that gspot and massage it why you lick and suck the clit. I will die.
Touch/grab my thighs, my ass, slowly touch down my spine, everywhere, somewhere. Tease me good before you go down & while you’re down there.
Deadass with the thigh thing Kiss those inner thighs too Pretend you’re passionately kissing the kitty Not a cat drinking water Also don’t even do it if you a)don’t like doing it b)you’re going to do it for 2 seconds
I couldn’t hit reblog fast enough.
Don’t be to shy to open it up and really get the clit. Like if dudes really spread the lips and focused on the clit I would lose my mind
slow down on the flickering thing, that rapid shit isnt pleasurable, slowly running your tongue back n forth tho? Yes.
thigh kissing is nice, ass grabbing, thigh gripping, a little passionate teasing takes you far and honestly gets her wetter by the minute
slow down, take your time at first, dont just dive in, enjoy your meal
that rapid flicking thing doesnt do much for me (i cant speak for every girl) but slow runs across the clit are lovely, just focus on the clit, let your fingers do some work if you get tired or something
I dont know about every girl but that mimic-my-dick-with-my-tongue technique doesnt do shit
Notice how they’ve all basically said the same thing? I hope you men pay attention. Every woman is different but here are the basics to pleasing us.
1. Stop the fucking flicking shit.
2. Focus on the CLIT. Suck it, circle it. Engulf it. If she moans, keep doing that.
3. But pls, do visit thighland. Inner thigh licking and kissing will set us on fire.
4. What is this fingering shit? Massage the gspot or get out. We feel nothing with that little stabbing motion. Also, stop sticking your 2 inches of tongue in there. Come back up to the clit.
5. LONG stokes with the tongue.
6. Stop humming. Most of us use vibrators so that little humming trick you learned from GQ will pale in comparison.
7. Speaking of vibes, the reason you’re in our bed is because you can do 1 thing our wands and rabbits can’t do. And that’s grab us. Grab us, squeeze us, we want to feel your hands on our body.
8. If you can reach, grab a titty.
9. Some women are self conscious about how they look/taste/smell down there. Or worry about taking too long to orgasm, so let her know you’re enjoying it. Moan, groan, sound like you’re eating a plate of ribs
10. Do it til we cum or GTFO!
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Yall better grab a damn notepad and pen!
I actually like the flicking part But I rather have someone suck and swirl at the same time No teeth Get sloppy with it, let me know you’re enjoying it Massage my nipples and play w my titties Don’t let me run And the other things I like are purely kinks so Ima just leave it there
im tryna eat pussy now..i didnt get on tumblr for this.
Lol what did you get on for ?
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Amen for this entire post tho!!! Ladies good job! Men please take notes. That thigh and ass grabbing, inner thigh kissing, massaging will go a loooooong way!
T minus 5 hours…as soon as she makes it home from her flight, I’m going to be sure to to slow it down and use these low cut fingernails to press against her g spot while I roll my tongue up and down on her clit.
The thigh game has been strong for quite a while. Finger game coming into play!
Reblogging to save a relationship
😂tf kinda head yal been getting?
I’ve found that the most important thing to do before going down on a woman is to talk to her first about what she may or may not like. Let her know that you have other ideas that you’d like to try, if that’s the case. Let her know that you’re not an expert and you’d like her help to please her (even if you consider yourself to be an expert). Encourage her to communicate how she’s feeling. Watch, listen, and feel her. If she sounds and moves like she’s enjoying what you’re doing, stay with that. If her moans diminish, try something else. Rotate your techniques in a particular order (this takes concentration) because that’s the easiest way for you and her to identify what technique works best for her and for you to repeat it. If she starts to grind her hips against you, don’t pull back. Hold your head firm! If she starts to squirt, don’t pull away. Keep doing what you’re doing! Swallow her juices if you have to! After she orgasms, let her unwind. Start going easy on the sucking or licking of the clit. Start kissing other body parts like her inner thighs, run your fingers over her body and legs, suck her toes. When things calm down, talk to her. Let her know that you enjoyed it too. Find out what she really liked (don’t trust what you see or hear alone, she needs to clearly say what she likes). Reassure her that you were not in any discomfort and by all means tell her that you are willing and ready to repeat it. This is particularly necessary if she’s overly conscious about how she looks or smells down there. I’ve been using this approach for years and it works. No two women are alike and only she can tell you what works for her. A humble approach to eating pussy is always best. Oh…and in case anybody is wondering , I’m a 38 year old guy.
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LISTENNNNNNN!!!!! Yea the flickering has got to go. I prefer a big wide & flat tongue licking my pussy. Same way u like ice cream on a cone LICK MY PUSSY LIKE THAT! And slob on it lol yo mouth shouldnt be dry it shud be getting wetter. Let all that run out onto me. Also i like when a guy takes his tongue and traces the rim (for lack of better word) of the pussyhole. Dont go in tho bc “tongue fucking” doesnt do shit and as a girl who eats pussy too i know it strains that tongue muscle underneath. Just stay right there outside doing circles on the rim/edge. While u doing this use your thumb to rub the clit in the same motion and pace. ALSO fellas we can feel how confident u are when u eating us out. We get turned off when your tongue game doesnt feel like u committed to it. Its ok not to be an expert but i need to feel like u wanna make me cum. And fyi if u wanna make her squirt put 2 fingers on her gspot and move them up and down like u signaling the “come here” motion. Remember tho, the finger shud not be bending at that middle knuckle (u know where the skin is all wrinkly at). Ur finger shud be beding at the knuckle at base of the finger. OR like they said find it and massage it. We like hearing yall moan too and gripping us and actually OPENING UP THE PUSSY. Lol again we need to know yall invested. Lastly, STOP USING THAT POINTY TONGE SHIT! IT WILL NEVER BE GOOD FOR ANYTHING IN LIFE lol
I check all of these boxes on the regular ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I guess that's why my tongue game is outta this world
