local bingus badoinger

hi sometimes i make posts about adhd (also i have recently come down with the Autisms) (i will be posting about asd now too). and i like frogs also. if you see a really cool frog post feel free to send it to me (spoiler: it makes me really happy)

[frogwithadhd]

hello :) im not a professional by any means, just a kid with adhd. but feel free to talk to me anytime if you need someone to listen to you. this is a safe space for all of you with adhd, asd or ocd etc., anyone questioning adhd/struggling, or literally anybody. all i ask is that you please if possible try to contact a professional if you think you have adhd, and dont be creepy on my blog. thanks!

[forgondor]

i have a friend who has kinda bad eczema on their right hand but their left hand is fine and thats because acidity makes eczema worse and that includes vaginal acidity and my friend is both a lesbian and a slut so they finger a lot of people and that fucks up the hand they use (their right hand). Anyways do you think BBC sherlock would deduce that by looking at my friend’s hands

[sanjidysphoria]

nothing couldve prepared me for the last sentence

[frogwithadhd]

i was prepared only because my eyes skipped down to your reblog in the middle of reading and then i saw the last sentence and suddenly i have knowledge of all things

[heavy-buddy]

the autistic urge to specify EXACTLY what you mean in 50 messages

[kleefkruid]

I've been tricked! This image has been haunting my brain ever since I got my ADHD diagnosis in September and I thought you guys might enjoy it too. Shout out to anyone whose diagnosis came with a buddy/buddies

[autistic-af]

There's just one major thing that I don't think is acknowledged enough about late diagnosed autistics/ADHD (and probably other neurodivergences):

The floor drops away from under you when you're diagnosed as an adult.

You've spent years perfecting coping mechanisms, setting masks perfectly in place, practicing socialising, forcing things that made you uncomfortable or confused (for reasons you couldn't comprehend).

Then you get the diagnosis and... That's it. No one tells you what to do. How to cope, how to survive.

All you know is that you've spent your life hurting yourself. Your mental health is shot, you're most likely depressed, anxious, burntout...

And you never had to do that. It didn't have to be that way.

I'm not saying I wished I was diagnosed as a child. I don't. That would have a whole other bag of problems.

I just wish there was more in place for us. I wish we weren't abandoned by the medical community at 18.

[nickfromguesswhohateclub]

what no one tells you about being autistic is people just don’t like you. maybe you make friends, but they get tired of you fast. even if you’re not actively bullied, your peers just…. don’t pay attention to you. something about you is offputting and weird to mostly everyone, and you literally cannot stop it no matter how hard you try.

[tesco-finest-aromantics]

no, not "all kids have adhd these days, mobile phones have destroyed attention spans"

yes, it is true that attention spans are shorter than they used to be. but not everyone experiences the specific pattern of poor working memory, time blindness, rsd, lack of object permanence, executive dysfunction, hyperfocus, hyperfixations, extreme boredom, emotional dysregulation, poor processing speed, and sensory issues that are present in adhd

[lestatslestits]

I’ve been thinking a lot about how as neurodivergent people we censor and edit ourselves so much for neurotypical people that we seem to forget how to communicate with other neurodivergent people who would love for us to communicate in the ways we’ve been taught to avoid.

We’ve been taught “don’t talk out of turn but don’t be too quiet, don’t share your own related experiences but communicate empathy, be a good listener but don’t expect others to care about your interests, don’t speak unless spoken too but come out of your shell or people will think you’re being rude, don’t be annoying, don’t be annoying, don’t be annoying.”

So even in our own spaces, among friends, among other neurodivergent people, we say “sorry I’m being annoying” or “sorry to bother you” or “sorry I don’t know how to start a conversation” or “sorry I’m so awkward,” at each other because we’ve censored our communication so much that it feels like we’ve forgotten our own first language, and we’re hoping someone else will see that and teach it to us again (but they’ve forgotten it too).

[czortofbaldmountain-deactivated]

Having sensory issues with taste is not a moral failure.

It doesn't make anyone ungrateful or uncivil, and also it doesn't make an adult person childlish. Stop being fucking ableists, me not eating what you eat or offer is not a personal offense.

[frogwithadhd]

talking about autism or adhd with other neurodivergent people or a professional who knows a lot about the subject:

trying to explain myself to literally anyone else:

[frogwithadhd]

does it ever feel like people teleport?? like in class i’ll just be minding my own business and then suddenly i realize that a person is gone but i never saw them leave. and then a few minutes later they’re Back but i never saw them come back into the room !! little time blips are so frustrating cause it’s like a puzzle, but the box the puzzle came in was already missing pieces. like you Literally did not experience what happened in between those moments and there’s no way to piece them together no matter how much time you waste thinking about it and trying to dredge up memories you literally didn’t process

[frogwithadhd]

me listening to something: im going to remember this and be able to recall what i heard

me a vague amount of time in the future: yowa zowa! it appears i have forgotten!

[frogwithadhd]

damn shawty you got adhd?🙁😨it aint seem like that!!😒🤨u aint no 3rd grade boy🤔❌well anyways i aint believe you girl....dont lie to me girl😡.....im going to ignore your needs and call you dumb when you cant pay attention ..shawty dont leave me..

[frogwithadhd]

damn shawty you autistic?🙁😨it aint seem like that!!😒🤨u aint no 3rd grade boy🤔❌well anyways i aint believe you girl…dont lie to me girl😡.....im going to ignore your needs and call you dumb when you get sensory overload ..shawty dont leave me..

[frogwithadhd]

sensory overload like why the fuikcn fkc is they breathign so loud i am going to pull my hair oit

[frogwithadhd]

the triple threat: autism, adhd, and mental illness (with rizz)

[frogwithadhd]

the autistic girlies have claimed me as one of their own .maybe this entails the revival of this blog because i am craving somewhere to let my tism flourish

[auntiie]

uh oh.. looks like the girls have been outbossed