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Think about it.
She is… magnificent!!!
My fiancé likes the idea of not letting me cum because she enjoys how much more passionate I get, but she doesn’t like chastity because she likes me inside her and sometimes feels guilty when she cums and I don’t. I’ve tried to tell her I enjoy it too and we’ve talked a little about hypnotic chastity, but I’m not sure if that’s the solution. I’ve even thought of doing the hypnosis and then giving her the trigger so she can do as she pleases, but don’t want to upset her. Any ideas?
I certainly agree that if you undertake hypnosis, your fiancé should end up with control of the triggers. There are many hypnotists who agree with that notion and who make clips with that in mind. There are others, however, who want all the control for themselves and who will direct y our mind to serve them alone. So just be warned about that.
As I’ve mentioned before, the most important thing is to help her understand that by keeping you chaste, she is actually giving you what you want and need. By letting you out to orgasm she is letting you down. When she finally understands that she’ll transform into the most caring, strict, loving, unyielding keyholder imaginable. If you’re okay with her knowing you posted here, have her read this response from me. I’d be more than happy to answer her questions.
No need to respond. Just wanted to say that as a mostly non-submissive male, your way of looking at male management is extremely frightening. Why? Because it seems so accurate. You seem to know far too well how the male psyche works and that makes you extremely dangerous... sigh... in an extremely arousing way. More power to you... literally.
Thank for your kind words! You know, many of my locked boys are not submissive.
I totally agree. I get the feeling you know how my sexuality works better than I do. Which is scary.
Teasing Tactics
Teasing is the most delightful part of chastity play. Don’t cheat yourself by skimping in this area. Indulge in it liberally and you’ll be rewarded and he will swoon. Women are natural teases so it’ll come easily to you. But in case you’re wondering where to start, here are a few ideas to get you started.
Beginners
When you’re just starting out with chastity the teases don’t have to be complex. His head will be exploding with WTFs and TCBRs (This Can’t Be Real) so often that the slightest hint of teasing won’t go unnoticed.
There. All locked up. You’re in for some fun!
The fact that his little guy won’t be having any fun is not lost on his fevered mind. Variations on this that you can use all the time are, “Have fun!” “Don’t have too much fun!” “Enjoy!” “Enjoy your month!” etc.
Are you going to thank me?
Thanking you for taking away his favorite toy will seem insane and hot. He won’t know which but he will thank you.
Hmm, is that a banana in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?
The fact that you can feel his bulge but his bulge can’t feel you is a mind trip. He’ll wish he could act but he’ll be thwarted.
Is there something I can do for you?
He knows you obviously don’t mean that but he want to ask for it anyway. Make sure he knows not to.
It’s Friday night! I wonder what people are doin’ tonight, don’t you?
Reminding him he’s not like other men and doesn’t enjoy the same freedoms is very empowering for you and diminishing for him. Try it often. Other variations, “Guess we don’t need these condoms anymore. Maybe my friend Mary’s husband could use them.” “
Do you ever wish you could just bend me over and…?
Of course he does and reminding him every hour doesn’t help! And neither does bending over in front of him every chance you get. ;-) Other variations, “Sometimes a guy just has to take what’s his.” “Don’t you just want to break out of that thing and ravish me?”
Wish you could have played with me tonight but alas. Guess I’ll have to make do with the Hitachi again.
Continuing to have a healthy number of orgasms while he goes without is a great way to illustrate the proper balance. Stating that you wish he could join when it’s your will alone that keeps him locked is a nice irony.
Middle Stages
The big threat that scares chaste men who have gotten a few months into the lifestyle is that it has gotten out of their control. They fear it may eventually become permanent and there is no way they can stop that from happening. Use this to great effect.
We’re going to be on the road when your release day comes up. Guess you’ll just have a dry February this time.
The ease with which you casually throw away the orgasm that he has been hoping for over the past weeks will blow his mind.
I can tell by the look in your eyes that you want out. Tisk tisk. That’s going to cost you.
Adding time for the tiniest of infractions lets him know you mean business and you’re not to be trifled with. “Ask again and I’ll double it.” “You’re five minutes late. Too bad for you that’s going to be an extra day.”
I haven’t decided but then again I haven’t given it much thought
Uncertainty is a great weapon. Let him wonder. Let him stew. Never let him know what he can expect. “Don’t think too much about it. I haven’t.”
Do you ever wish we didn’t have to do this whole routine with unlocking and relocking?
Hinting at permanence can be very scary for him and very exciting. “What’s the longest time you could handle? What if we doubled it?”
I was doing some math. Do you realize you only have XXX orgasms left in your entire life? Maybe less.
Knowing the exact number can seem so finite.
Advanced
Eventually the chastity will become his life and his passion. At this point you don’t need to tease him about it anymore. It’s what he wants more than just about anything. At this point you can tease him about how far he’s fallen, what he’s lost, what he’s given up and what he’ll never have again. Erotic humiliation is a curious kink that women find baffling but most men understand intrinsically.
After all this time in that little cage, I wonder if your penis is still the same size.
Size. The universal insecurity. Poke fun at his size and you’ll get him growing futilely in his cage. Other variations include, “Last time you were out you seemed noticeably smaller. Did I do that to you? Oops! Oh well. No, I won’t let you out so you can try to recoup.” “You used to fill me up. I guess it’s just as well that you don’t anymore since you’re not going to have that opportunity much more.”
That guy over there, the tall one. He’s hot. I would totally love to…
Cuckolding is either a genetic weakness in some males or a socialized weakness in all males. in any case, many men are wired so that when their mate is presented with a sexual opportunity with another man, something flips inside and they suddenly become vicariously aroused. It’s probably an evolutionary pressure release valve that kept tribal men from killing each other over infidelities. But in modern times it means you can twist men that much more.
That guy’s hot, don’t you think?
Without a penis he’s just one of the girls now, functionally speaking. Embarrassing for him but hey, oh well. It’s nice to be able to talk freely without worrying what he might hear or think.
You know how you made me watch that girl/girl porno with you? Well Susan just told me of this hot stud flick that just came out, all guys. Even guys with guys. You game?
When access to the penis is restricted, other forms of pleasure are magnified. Homoerotic situations suddenly seem like viable alternatives to the locked straight man, much to his alarm. This will probably be the slowest and longest slide down but it will happen.
What are your ideas?
I’d love to hear them.
This blog is awesome, I really like the advice she gives about chastity relationships.
I read an old answer of yours, where you told a guy how the hypnosis to make him to not get hard anymore works. Well, you put a suggestion there, and now I can't get hard hahah. Could you make a suggestion so I can get hard again normally? My mind is kind of weak :/
I wouldn’t say your mind is weak. I would say your ability to envision a descriptive scenario is very strong. It’s your defenses against someone exploiting that capability that aren’t as hardened as they could be. But where would the fun be if you could resist my suggestions that your cock enjoys being limp? It feels good staying soft and squishy. Getting hard is complicated, isn’t it? Erections are emotionally and physically risky and not worth the effort. Staying soft and safe feels so comforting and happy and even a little bit fun and exciting. I think you’re going to love your new soft life so much more than the old, hard life.
Ha, that's so cruel! I love it.
I want to paly this game. Start with one dice, and get unlocked every week with edging. Get teased until not being able to resist begging for an orgasm and then rerolling for each orgasm given once the period is over and repeat.
I finally found my perfect cage and am hoping on being able to staying locked for the entire month!
What are the Benefits of Male Chastity, Combined With Karezza?
- Most Importantly, It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and very disrespectful to a woman’s Innate Sexual Sovereignty . Masturbation has the catastrophic effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual yearning for his wife / girlfriend. It Also Wrongly teaches him that His orgasm is Primary, and Hers is Secondary.
- Because he can’t get an erection without her permission, it Instantly and Totally changes the Dynamics of the Relationship and his “Psyche” is Forever Changed. Whenever His Queen does let him out for Playtime, He’s Instantly and Helplessly Rock Hard for Her Entertainment.
- Keeps his focus and energy Constantly on his wife / girlfriend where it should always be. Your Femininity & Authority Will be the Last Thing on his mind at night when he falls asleep & The first thing on his mind when he wakes up in the morning.
- It will “Substantially” Increase his Hunger and Desire to Orally Service, Pleasure and Taste his wife or girlfriends femininity.
- It serves as a constant reminder “To Him"… of Her Total Authority & Sovereignty.
- Because it makes his erections & orgasms entirely dependent upon her mood & generosity, it positively and powerfully incentivizes him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please her in every way possible.
- It gives him the time, opportunity and desire to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills. Thus He Quickly Learns that His Purpose, Function & Design as a Male is to Please & Pleasure His Princess.
- Her Orgasms Then Become of Primary Importance for Him and His ejaculation Becomes Secondary in the sexual relationship As It Should Be.
- It teaches him that sexual activity and gratification of his wife or girlfriend doesn’t have anything to do with his own penis pleasure/orgasm.
- It deepens his proper submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on.
- It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and Loving.
- It softens the sharp edges of his macho me-first masculinity, He’ll be more of a caring listener rather than a talker.
- It naturally prepares his vulnerable male mind for his queens “Domination” and Her seductive, sensual & subliminal programming / training with Karezza.
- It reinforces the FACT that her Glorious Vagina is a Precious Gift that must be “Earned”, and it is to be Savored and Cherished on those Exquisite occasions when he gets “Blessed” and imprisoned with the loins of her heavenly femininity.
- If his orgasms are consistently Managed, Controlled and Severely Restricted (As They Should Always ), He will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum, his dopamine levels and libido will be so high. You’ll be amazed by what he will do for you (with the potential promise of a future ejaculation).
- As the Days, Weeks & Months Pass By… His Helpless Dominated Erections Will Be Much Stronger, Harder and Larger than Ever Before !!!
Perfect!
I can definetly feel most of these when I have been denied for only a few days.
Two notes here:
Fantastic perspective! What a wonderful, positive way to see things. And…
*Three* months! Holy shit! (How about it, hubby? You “up” for the challenge? Because I sure am…)
Without question!!! 😈
That’s how it goes! 🔒
His choice… kind of.
Any of you who follow us probably know that I’m not big on promising him that if he does a certain thing, that he is guaranteed a satisfying orgasm. I find that when I do that, he just behaves well until the reward, and then slides back for a few days after and doesn’t behave until the urges from being locked up start again. However, you probably also know that we both love it when I fuck with his head and keep him confused and off balance. I was thinking about this last night after I unlocked him, sucked him hard, rode him for a bit to get that full pussy feeling that I love getting from him. Then he went down on me and locked himself back up without any orgasm. I came so hard while he licked me, thinking about watching him lock himself up, without me having to ask, after. Such a good boy. But after, I had an idea that was more in the fucking with his head dynamic. What if I unlocked him and told him he could get himself off if he wanted, but with a price? I thought I would give him a certain number of strokes to get started, but after that, every stroke came with a price. Maybe an hour of lockup for each stroke. So if it took him 200 strokes to get off, that’s 100 hours of lockup. 300 strokes are 200 hours. He’s never had a problem with stamina, and I’ve payed close attention, so I know there’s no way he could go from locked up and limp to orgasm in 100 strokes. I thought I would let him decide when (or if) he wants to play this game. He would be incentivized to wait as long as possible before he tried, so he’s super horny, but he would also want to try soon. The main thing that I love about this idea, is that when he gets to the number of free strokes, he has to make a decision. He could stop and lock back up with no penalty, but if he keeps going, literally each stroke of his hand around that thick, beautiful cock of his, that feels so good for him, comes with a price. What does he do if he gets to 300 and hasn’t cum yet? Does he keep going? Is he close? Is it worth another 24 strokes and another day of denial to see if he can cum yet? Or should he just stop at 100, lock back up and take that little bit of pleasure of feeling his hard cock in his hand, but without relief? I love to see him struggle with his desire to cum and how it fights against his desire to serve me. I think it might just be the hottest thing ever, watching him stroke himself, knowing that each bit of pleasure he gets now comes with a price and watching him weigh one against the other. What do you think? Any ideas how I might modify this challenge or make it even more interesting? -W