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[ftmwarewolves]

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This blog is probably just gonna be me venting about transandrophobia.

[ftmwarewolves]

hello movies and media people you know you can let trans men play male roles right? You dont have to make every trans man you hire play a nonbinary role I promise it wont hurt you.

[ftmwarewolves]

Love your local trans man tonight

[snailsthoughts]

Idk where that post is that said “anybody who tells you other trans people are the enemy is a Fed” but yeah, can we bring back that energy please?

Trans woman are not trans men’s oppressors, trans men are not trans women’s oppressors, nonbinary people are not responsible for transphobes not taking trans people seriously.

Talking about transmysogyny is not oppressive to trans men. Using the word transandrophobia is not inherently transmysogynistic. Talking about exorsexism is not erasing binary trans peoples struggles.

Like comon guys this is really basic stuff can we all agree on these things before moving on?

[lycandrophile]

local cis man makes a “joke” tiktok that excludes trans men from the phrase “trans people” and mocks the music we make based on a stereotype that’s already been mocked to death, then makes a follow up video directed at the trans men who told him it wasn’t a funny joke or just made them feel shitty where he just doubles down and says the joke was fine because it “wasn’t serious” and that the trans men who didn’t like it are “directing their energy in the wrong place”.

maybe one day cis people will learn that 1) most trans jokes simply are not for them to make, regardless of how funny they think the joke would be, and 2) it’s not for them to decide if the trans people they chose to joke about are allowed to be upset that the joke was made. i honestly wouldn’t have even bothered making a post about this if it was just the original video because a lot of trans people also make jokes like this (which i still don’t think are funny or fair) so he could be forgiven for thinking no one would be upset, but the doubling down really rubs me the wrong way.

like, if we can’t even trust cis people to listen to our feelings on something as silly as a joke tiktok about music, how can we trust them to listen to us when it really counts? you can say it’s not that serious all you want, but when it’s already been demonstrated that you don’t always know how something will actually affect trans men, can you really expect us to trust that you’ll know when it is that serious?

because the message that response sends is this: “i find you fun to laugh at, but i don’t think you’re worth the trouble of caring about your feelings. i would rather enjoy myself and entertain others at your expense.” and is that the kind of message you want to send to anyone, especially a group of people you seemingly interact with enough to be familiar with the jokes made about them in their community? even if it wasn’t anti-transmasculine, it would still just be mean, and it’s certainly not a message that will make us see you as trustworthy when shit gets bad.

[ftmwarewolves]

This is exactly what I was talking about on my original post.

I hate that joke so much. I'm so tired of it.

I wish people could look at trans man musicians (which btw there are tons of) and see something other than cavetown.

[ftmwarewolves]

Ugh. Tiktok is just harboring transandrophobia.

Video started with "trans people need to make music!" And ended with "only enbies and trans women" before excluding trans men. Again.

[knightress]

Yo i saw this and it hurt my heart

[knightress]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8KSTtnf/ Spencer reminding us of the greats

[ftmwarewolves]

The original video is exactly what I was talking about

[whitehairedanimeboyfriend]

In light of the new list being made, I thought I'd celebrate with this new graphic! Use it for whatever non-commercial use you like. No need to credit me unless you want to :)

[bluwubewwy]

Trans men truly are the men of trans people..

[whitehairedanimeboyfriend]

[eliyahu613]

I sure hope they are

[ftmwarewolves]

Trans men when we want rights and to be treated equally with respect 🤯

[ftmwarewolves]

So uhhh... This is unrelated to the shit you've been going through relating to the Disc Horse but um. Since your name is relating to ftm werewolves... Starting T feels like you were a werewolf the whole time and now you've accepted that part and get fuzzy as a result. 7/10 would be 10/10 if I got a cool tail.

(sorry this is awkward but I figured this wouldn't hurt to send, bc I'm not trying to be mean lol)

100% lycanthropy is the best metaphor for transgenderism

X10 points if you just so happen to be a transgender werewolf

[ftmwarewolves]

Trans women are not our allies

Yes they are dumbass. Just bc some ppl are transandrophobic doesnt mean they all are, just like any other community there are assholes and allies. Trans Women are our sisters, I dont know how stupid you gotta be to get that from me venting about transandrophobia.

[ftmwarewolves]

yes yes ys this a 100%

[ftmwarewolves]

hey, idk if this seems weird but i just stumbled across your blog and whenever i see to much hatemail i try to send a friendly message so that people don't get overwhelmed with negativity, especially when they are talking about sensitive things close to their heart. so thank you for bringing awareness to transandrophobia, i never heard the word before but i totally see what you mean. sucks that even on the trans-positivity-website there is such an exclusion. hope you have a nice day and wish you all the best

thank you, I really appreciate it <3 have a good night/day!

[manstrans]

people on this website will see a trans guy say the word "men" and immediately get their hackles raised and call him an mra without even comprehending in the slightest what he was saying

[manstrans]

please god unpack your "gender traitor" bullshit I am on my hands and knees

[jikkybytt]

People on this website will unironically use "men dni" too

Like i get the point but that's not really an ideology or something you can willingly be.

[manstrans]

and some people are men and women or something else at the same time, it just creates a new gender binary

[trans-androphobe]

things that have never been said about any other kind of oppression by any other kind of bigots

[trans-androphobe]

@d3viantvanguard that is the point i'm making - this has been said, near verbatim, about aphobia, panphobia, biphobia. every target this site has deemed acceptable. trust me, I know. i was in the aphobia discourse during its heyday. i was there for the panphobia discourse. i was there for the biphobia discourse. that's the point. this isn't new. this will pass. this is a new group being targetted with the same information. in five years, everyone will shake hands and agree that while this was bad, barely anyone did it and it barely did anything, so we can all be friends now. and if you say it was bad you're exaggerating. we cannot let them forget what happened then, and we cannot let them forget whats happening now.

[ftmwarewolves]

no more anon asks since yall cant behave

[ftmwarewolves]

Trans women are not our allies

Yes they are dumbass. Just bc some ppl are transandrophobic doesnt mean they all are, just like any other community there are assholes and allies. Trans Women are our sisters, I dont know how stupid you gotta be to get that from me venting about transandrophobia.

[ftmwarewolves]

Shalom & welcome to the club of people who get incessantly harassed by anons on Tumblr. I hope you're having a good day aside from the shitty people.

Thank you for the welcome my friend!

I am having a wonderful day! Thank you, and well wishes to you too!

[ftmwarewolves]

Anyway

Trans men are cool

Trans men are sexy

Trans men are amazing

Trans masculinity is not a bad thing

Being a man is not a bad thing

Straight trans men are awesome

Gay trans men are awesome

Mspec trans men are awesome

Trans men are awesome

[ftmwarewolves]

If you hate trans women so much make your own spaces.

Still don't hate trans women. This us literally a blog called ftmwarewolves

Guess who the space is made for