Transsexual pride. Rise of the transsexual community. Gender is a social construct. fuck ur "gender identity" The tranny flag is childish , and so is the gender fandom too. Dni pedophiles. Kys actually. Lol cant put me in ur dni too bad
This is a trans and gender discourse blog. As well as an transsexual pride and informational blog.
Im fed up with todays "trans community ". I cant take this shit anymore.
I want to see a community for transsexual people. Have sex dysphoria talked about and understood. Or if not its own, hopefully make others understand or consider transsexuals in the transgender community.
I want good change so people like me can feel better and have a safe and caring place to talk about issues and get support. Not be censored or treated like enimies.
Have a civil conversation/discorse when interacting with me.
The only information you need to know about me is that im an adult, transsexual and not fluent in English. (Will not be perfect english or most advanced)
Im fine with dms and questions/anons. Getting friends would be nice
Also i keep being called a transmed: i dont think u need dysphoria to id as transgender or even transsexual. If you transition (social/medical) you can thecnically be considered transgender/transexual. I just think its not healthy and think its affects those who do have dysphoria and need help , negatively. I think at least those Whitout dysphoria should get mental help first , and if not, pay for their own transition themself.
Some of my views bellow.
Gender: gender is a social construct. I belive gender should be abolished and removed from society. We have personalities and are all unique. Having a gender identity or brain gender is made up. Sex or gender says nothing about who you are as a person or your personality.
Transgender: Gender dysphoria is a real thing, and a mental illness. It is painfull to live with, but It can be lessened or cured. But transitioning medically is not the best choice if you only have gender realted issues and dont experience sex dysphoria
Transsexual: individual who transition medically to be/resemble the other sex. This has nothing to do with gender. It has to do with sex. I use this label because i feel like transgender is not right due to me not caring about gender or having gender dysphoria.
Gender dysphoria: mental illness tied to discomfort or disconnect to societies gender roles. Usally the one tied to your born sex. At times for both male and female gender roles. This is curable for some with therpay. Highly suggesting you stop giving a fuck about gender roles and stop trying to live by or care about gender or pronouns.
Sex dysphoria: mental illness as well, but completely diffrent drom gender dysphoria. Sex dysphoria is the discomfort with your biological sex. This can be greatly helped or cured by medical transitioning. This has nothing to do with gender roles or gender, femininity or masculinity. Only biological reality. (Note: some things like ptsd or gender dysphoria can be mistaken for sex dysphoria, so transitioning is not always the right choice. Getting mental help first is good. But sex dysphoria has no know cause itself. )
Extra: this also means i think someone wearing fully pink and feminine clothes, or very masculine clothes, has absolutely nothing to do with if youre "valid" as a trans person. Wear whatever the fuck you want.
LGB: wont talk much about this, but just saying, queer is a slur. Not an identity or a community. Trans issues should be its own community outside LGB. Since sexuality is a hole other issue. I think asexuallity is real but not an actuall sexuality/sexual attraction that should be a part of lgb.
Trans healthcare: often bad, especially on the mental part. Overtaken by the idea gender identity is all that matters . There are many issues with the medical side as well. I belive sex dysphoria should be its own diagnosis required for undergoing transition. Gender discomfort should not be required to transition.
Sex: biological sex is real, and important to not ignore or downplay. Those with sex dysphoria are struggling soley due to their sex. If you earase sex you also erase our struggles.
The "trans" community : horrible in its own way. I belive transgender individuals and transsexuals should have separate communities. Despite the similar medical treatment, our issues are not the same. Transgender people usally are not considerate for those with sex dysphoria, only hurt them due to making everything in the trans community to be about gender and identity , and denying biological sex, or pressuring for media inclusiveness. I belive transsexuals should have our own community for our own specific issues and struggles unrelated to gender.
Trans community p2: an important thing the trans community needs to do is take accountability for the "bad" people in the community (criminals, pedos, ect). Instead of saying "that never happens" and pretending every trans person is good, the community needs to call these people out. The community should not be a safe space for rapists , pedophiles and abusers.
Can you explain how gender dysphoria is a mental illness?
Yeah, sure thing!
So gender dysphoria, as defined by the Mayo Clinic, is "a diagnosis listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), a manual published by the American Psychiatric Association to diagnose mental conditions. This term is intended to be more descriptive than the one that was previously used, gender identity disorder. The term gender dysphoria focuses on one's discomfort as the problem, rather than identity."
Screenshot below from the Mayo Clinics site of characteristics of gender dysphoria;
So we understand gender dysphoria to be a system of criteria, a diagnosis separate from a gender identity. There are butch lesbians with gender dysphoria, there are autistic straight women with gender dysphoria, there are gender non conforming people with no desire to transition with gender dysphoria.
Gender dysphoria is that profound discomfort with ones given gender - which are the roles, expectations, cultural rites, careers, and stereotypes applied to each of the sexes - and the desire to escape those things.
Now, people can treat this discomfort in a variety of ways.
1. Some choose to transition, to be perceived as another gender. This can ease the discomfort. Radical feminism sees this as treating a symptom (desire to be different) vs treating the issue (discomfort with ones secondary sex characteristics or coerced gender role).
2. Some choose therapy to treat the source (that societal pressure that your sex characteristics means you must behave and act and be one way), and work on healing the dysphoria. That often means recognizing that ones sex is not the issue, but the expectations placed on one's sex. You see this realization in a lot of detrans persons and GNC individuals.
Mental illness just refers to health conditions involving changes in emotion, thinking or behavior (or a combination of these) that exhibit mental distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities.
This is certainly a simplification of a much more detailed issue, but I hope this helps!
Misogynists have infiltrated and perverted a noble movement
Saturday, June 26 saw the third London Trans Pride march for ‘BIPOC trans people, trans women, trans sex workers and trans kids’ (sorry transmen, they forgot you again!), and here’s some of the #bekind signage from it.
There is speculation on social media that these calls for murder were made by 51-year-old Sarah Jane Baker, as someone who looks like Baker is holding one of the signs, they’re in Baker’s style and they even use Baker’s slogans.
Baker, who wants to become Britain’s first transgender MP, was once jailed for armed robbery, and kidnapping and torturing a family member. While in jail, he tried to murder a fellow prisoner and began identifying as a woman. He ended up serving 30 years until his recent release.
Baker has since written a book which is essentially a guide for gaining privileges as a man in jail, by saying you’re a woman.
As with Aimee Challenor and Morgan Page, Baker is no outlier. Here he is with Monroe Bergdorf.
Also: Baker was an actual speaker at the march, giving an inspiring message to young women that even if they lose the ability to orgasm by taking testosterone, it doesn’t matter because “you spend hours on foreplay and that shit is good too”. Nice piece of advice there from a middle-aged ex-convict to young women.
As Rachel Rooney put it on Twitter: “I've been going to Pride on & off since the mid 80's & I don't recall any of the top speakers there having a history of kidnap, torture & attempted murder… Maybe I just didn't look hard enough.”
You might be asking yourself: if a person has a history of extreme violence, and he’s possibly issuing death threats against a woman amid calls for criminal activity, is that not a police matter? Why haven’t they intervened? Is it because they’re too busy arresting women for posting pictures of Suffragette ribbons?
Perhaps the answer can be found in this video by a Metropolitan Police officer at London Trans Pride who made a statement to attendees saying: "If you need anything, give us a call on 101 or 999", which the Met LGBT+ Network thought was an appropriate message to publish.
On the same day, at Paris Pride, men who identify as women physically attacked lesbians because they were defending their sex-based rights.
And in Spain, Feminist @LauraStrego was violently attacked by a trans activist while participating in a peaceful demonstration on women's rights.
So confident are these violent misogynistic men about their sacred status, one even went on Spanish television with a T-shirt saying ‘KILL THE TERF’.
This brings us back to where we began, with JK Rowling, who you may remember wrote the following words in her moving essay, which is so dangerous that trans rights activists spent a lot of man-hours telling people not to read it.
“We’re living through the most misogynistic period I’ve experienced. Back in the 80s, I imagined that my future daughters, should I have any, would have it far better than I ever did, but between the backlash against feminism and a porn-saturated online culture, I believe things have got significantly worse for girls. Never have I seen women denigrated and dehumanised to the extent they are now. From the leader of the free world’s long history of sexual assault accusations and his proud boast of ‘grabbing them by the pussy’, to the incel (‘involuntarily celibate’) movement that rages against women who won’t give them sex, to the trans activists who declare that TERFs need punching and re-educating, men across the political spectrum seem to agree: women are asking for trouble. Everywhere, women are being told to shut up and sit down, or else.”
Rhetorical questions (because I already know the answer to them, and I know no trans activist will offer an actual rebuttal):
1. Why are trans people one of the very few groups (other than men) who encourage people with criminal records to speak for and lead them?
2. Why are trans people the only ones who talk about how much they want to kill other people at their marches and parades (as well as on their social media)?
3. Why are trans activists being recorded physically attacking feminists while screeching online that "terfs" are the violent ones?
4. Why are trans activists always posting about how much they hate the police when cops have arrested women and lesbians at their request, and offered their support at their parades?
5. Why is there a growing number of men in prison for violent crimes "coming out" as "transwomen" behind bars?
I ran out of testosterone patches today and I'm honestly considering detransitioning. Even if I ordered another batch now, I wouldn't get them for another 3−4 days at least, so part of me is like, this is my chance and it's most likely the only one I'll get where I won't be questioned why I stopped T. But another part of me feels like I'm too far gone. I have been on HRT for five years. Everything about me has been masculinized to the point that I pass as a man without even trying. (1/?)
(2/?) I have an extremely deep voice. I've lost some of my hair due to the testosterone and it's... pretty male-looking. When I look at myself in the mirror and try to imagine myself in a female-only space, I only envision myself as an imposter. I feel like I'd scare the women there, thinking I'm a trans woman or even just a man breaching on their privacy. I'm a lesbian and I can't envision another woman wanting to date someone who destroyed their body with hormone treatments.(3/3) I know that the general consensus on here is that detransitioned women are still women, but I had already decided to shed myself of that label as a stupid teenager and now I feel like no matter what I do, I am stuck. None of my friends know that I am/was transgender. My family spent so much money on me to ensure I could transition. No matter what, I'm letting someone down. I'm sorry for all of this, I just wanted to let it out somewhere anonymously. Thank you for listening.
It sounds like you are experiencing Sunk Cost Fallacy - the belief that too much has been invested to back down now, despite the fact that backing down makes much more sense than going deeper.
I'll tell you this - you get one life. And you can live it for other people, or you can live it for yourself. And living our lives for ourselves is often messy, and uncomfortable, but it is always worth it.
Your parents didn't waste that money. They made an investment in your happiness at the time, and it probably made you happy then! There wasn't a way for you to know what would make you happy long term, you were a kid. And they love you, and when/if you tell them you're detransitioning, they'll love you then, as well. And you can even phrase it as "thank you for always investing in my happiness, I cannot thank you enough".
So my advice is to not go deeper when you want to stop. There is an amazing community of detransitioners on here, Twitter, and even IRL who I know would welcome you with open arms.
Your friends, if they truly care for you, will accept you as a detransitioner as well. It might be a bit of a shock for some of them, but vulnerability is the root of connection.
Overall, you can only make the decision that's best for you. You don't have to rush anything. Maybe it starts with quitting Testosterone and seeing how you feel. Nothing says you have to update friends and family that same week. Take your time. Trust yourself.
Also, if anyone is detrans or has detrans blogs to recommend, or resources, please link them. I hope this helps!
anon i was in a similar situation to you. transitioned in all ways at 14. i decided to detransition at 18. i still pass as male most of the time because i dress comfortably. however, im not treated as an intruder because im not one. im a woman becaude i always have been, not because some people can see me as such.
when i was weighing whether to detransition, a big thing was in respect to how everyone knew me and my parents had done so much. i will not pretend its easy or that itll go smoothly. but your friends will likely be more understanding than youd think, and your parents like just want you to be happy. theyll be most worried that you were never happy at all, or that their decision to help you will inhibit your future happiness. at least if they really are good parents they will care more about you than the cost.
honestly, keep in mind the health issues. for me, a big reason not to just capitulate to staying transitioned was the potential health effects of testosterone as well as the hysterecomy youre expected to get to avoud cancer when on it for so long. if you have the chance to get of it and are willing to do so, id do that. you dont have to socially detransition yet if youre not ready, but you can always go back on testosterone if you really want to.
just keep in mind that coming off of it, you will get very tired, and possibly suicidal right before you start your period again (this was my experience, it went away after two). they and track your health. testosterone triggered my familial history of hypothyroidism so watch out for endocrine stuff.
we live in this weird culture where most people are so obsessed with airing every single trauma and mental health issue they have to the point that if you’re private about certain things people assume you have no issues or struggle lmao like ok
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