FYS

A spanking blog. I'm in the southeastern US. I'm married to penguinheart85. I'm polyamorous, sadistic, generally nice unless you don't want me to be, and I spank very hard. Here's a FAQ for you. Photos of sessions I've done, organized by spankee. Keep an eye out for little triangular arrows next to photos -- if you see one, click it, because that means you're looking at a photo set. Don't miss out on additional pics by skipping the arrows... Want to ask me something? Here's the link. Want to send me a photo of your own spanking? Use this one. My Books learning the ropes -- spanking-centered BDSM with actual plot and characterization breaking the rules -- the sequel, with more spanking and more plot other options -- princesses, magic, tropical locales, and tons of sex What Are Mittens? I'd like to stake a claim that I coined the term "mittens" to mean the mitten-shaped blobs of color that appear on a naughty bottom after a good hand-spanking. I've never seen anyone else use the term before. Here are some examples.

[gatyca-deactivated20180811]

Girl belted and spanked until she cry

[meoww-maid]

Slo-mo foam bat hits 🙀

With @nefariouskinks Video by @honey-beard-and-slut-fingers And cameo appearance by @cherryderriere’s monkey.

[littlebabymaso-deactivated20181]

Impact session with Daddy last night! 💕

[alexinspankingland]

First of all, Happy New Year to you and yours! A question, going back a while in my personal spanking experience. I had a Top who used to love hitting hard enough to bruise (I mean big, raised bruises that hurt like hell). I thought he was experienced, but looking back now, I think he was a bit of a menace. I never got enough confidence to discuss anything with him and he just gushed about my 'submission'. I guess my question is, is this kind of thing 'OK' because you've consented to play?

Consenting to play doesn’t mean you’re consenting to let your Top do whatever they want to you (unless you explicitly state that, which isn’t really a safe idea). If you were in a situation where you didn’t feel comfortable talking about what you did and didn’t feel good about in scenes then that’s not really good, and I’m sorry it happened to you.

Does it mean that the top is inherently dangerous? I don’t have enough information here to know that. Consent can be coerced, it can be given without a full understanding of what you’re consenting to. Just because you said yes to play doesn’t mean you lose your right to control what happens to your body.

And, even if you gave your enthusiastic consent and had the ability to revoke it throughout the scene, it’s still ok for you to feel bad about a scene or dynamic after the fact. In this case it’s important to acknowledge that the top didn’t actually do anything wrong, but you don’t have to feel good about everything you did just because you consented to it. Sometimes scenes leave you feeling bad and you can’t say why.

Feel free to ask me more if I didn’t quite answer the question here!

[fuckyeahspanking]

As someone who tends toward the "very hard" end of the spectrum - please, fellow humans, check in during spankings. Trust me, there are ways to do it that won't affect headspace. And, on that note... Don't learn how to spank just from watching videos. These are often professionals. It takes practice to get that good. I've been doing this for more than 20 years and I am still learning.

[littlebrownbabe-deactivated2018]

calm, sweet doms with sadistic streaks are the best 

[fuckyeahspanking]

Dis me.

[moaccyrk]

[missv2you]

~smiles~

[aidanandmummy-deactivated201709]

If we ever had kids😂

[domme-blu]

😂😂

[fuckyeahspanking]

This doesn't really fit the theme of this blog, but I didn't know where else to put it.

[kinkycomics]

… at least sometimes ;-D On weekend days with a lot of things on the do-to-list you can PLAN a late night session at the beginning of the day, but sometimes you and your playpartner end up sleeping ^^ Sorry for the long time of inactivity, but I’ve been working on something very cool and I think I can show you soon!! ;)

[cherrycheeksspankings]

This couldn’t be more true for my household. Down to the 3 cats!

[realspankingsnetworks]

[naughtybrattiness-deactivated20]

Spank me till I’m crying and my make up is running down my face

[dayzdreamz]

TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.

Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.

As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.

[sweetmidnightmoans]

“Midnight’s Debut"🌙👋 (a.k.a. Sitting down is hard right now) (a.k.a. I touched myself a lot after this happened)

[paddling72]

[mortallysecretturtle]

Good one. I would be crying.

[dominationsex]

xxx Perfect Girl image-slave-dominatio

[submissivefeminist]

Please destroy the myth that not safewording makes you a stronger person.

This myth is not only illogical but puts our community in danger.

Even strong submissives have limits.

Even strong Dominants have limits.

Strong people can still say no.

Needing to stop does not make you weak.

Stop making BDSM into a competition of endurance.

You don’t owe anyone anything.

xx SF

[fuckyeahspanking]

I just watched a scene tonight where an extremely popular spanking/impact top had a bottom call yellow multiple times. Each time he backed off, lightened up, and let her build back up to the harder stuff. His reward? She hit subspace. So... Safeword all you need. The good tops will know what to do, and you can kick the crap out of the bad ones.

[angeldutchess]

[michaelrmasterson]

A hairbrush always gets the job done.

[fuckyeahspanking]

My favorite realspankings bottom, Lori.

[misombra1976]