Things to make your sub feel owned.
Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.
When she has broken a rule, talk to her as you punish and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.
If your submissive does not respond to a command ask her first “Are you fighting me?” Check she has understood what is being asked, re-explain and the give her the full command again.
Make her take her take her clothes off every day as soon as she enters your house, apart from a collar: If she is not wearing make her kneel for you to fasten it .
Dress her when it suits you, or leave her instructions on what she is to wear.
A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.
Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.
Whenever possible, have her kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.
Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to your specifications.
Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever you come into the room — legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, she is to be sure your view is unobstructed
When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for you besides Master, such as “my love” etc.
Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever she was doing.
Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.
Hand feed her from time to time
Have her crawl to bed each night.
Forbid her to touch herself when you are out of town
Choose her clothing each day.
Have her get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before.
After punishment, have her kiss your boots and thank you for loving her enough to correct her.
Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.
Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).
Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).
Respect, but push her limits.
Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.
Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.
Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.
Supervise her workout routine.
Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.
.Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.
Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.
Pin the contract on you wall where she can see it
Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”
Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission
Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.
Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do….even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.
Forbid her to speak or look at you for several days and simply have her obey.
When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.
Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.
On occasion, share her, even if it is not sexually and in the form of servitude.
When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.
Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times or else send her for waxing to suit your preferences.
Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.
Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.
Have her keep a butt plug in at occasions, during sleep, or when you punish or use her.
Train her to sleep with her legs spread
Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.
Give her reading assignments.
Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.
Have her write a Diary to reflect on lessons she has learned.
Have her write a blog on her submissive journey
Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed
Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.
Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.
Call her your slut, your pet, toy etc
Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.
work with her, having her do the things on the list, so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.
Sometimes, pamper her — wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as you turn her and move her about.
Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.
Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.
For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime.
Praise her dedication when she has pleased you well.
Instruct her that she is never to touch your body without permission.
Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in you, to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.
For transgressions: deny her play.
For transgressions ignore her aide from using her, do not pet her, or talk to her, and forbid her to speak, move or touch you.
For Transgressions forbid her privileges i.e. food she likes, eating at the table, sitting on furniture, listening to music, watching television, use of phone/internet.
In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm. Give her sex, but she can’t cum.
. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week.She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure you give as silently as possible.
Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, sit etc.
Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Obedience – 1000 words”
Have her wear nipple clamps all day.
Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.
Have her wear a butt plug under her clothing out to dinner.
On your birthday, let her receive your spankings.
Spend time training her how to move to please You.
For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.
Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.
Speak about her as if she were not present.
For serious transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week, letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve you in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please you when it is over and she is in her place again.
Defend her honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.
Ban her from using the word “no” in ordinary conversation and have her say “I would prefer not”, or “I do not think so”.
Fondle, pinch, grope, slap your submissive at random times when you are preoccupied, out somewhere or passing on a staircase, simply because she is yours and you can.
Modify her body – have her pump her lips daily (both sets!) to keep them plump, keep her corseted under clothes in public.
Make her be webmaster for your site
Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.
Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to your liking.
Teach her things, expand her knowledge, in a patient daddy way.
When you are apart, call her and have her masturbate for you.. If you choose to play with others, make sure your slave knows who is first in your heart and that some things are just for her.
Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.
Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day and make sure it is done by day’s end.
Have her clean keep the house sparkling with her body naked, her legs spread, or on her hands and knees where possible.
Videotape your play sessions and watch them together.
Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside. Inspect them periodically.
Have her kiss the hand/crop/whip that spanks her.
Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while thinking you are not noticing. Then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.
Have her be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her extreme pleasure. When she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.
Keep her locked in her collar when you are home. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.
When possible, have her cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but a collar.
Buy her a digital camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for you in certain outfits or positions, etc.
Don’t be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are yours as well.
Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.
Have her fall asleep between your legs, licking your cock and balls, and tell her you expect her to be there when you awake.
Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.
Keep her nails so long that she cannot touch herself
Master’s word is the last word.
Take the time to talk to her, learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.
Specify exactly how she will address you in private and in public.
If you are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as “this slave”
Sometimes do not command her simply force her. Use force to hold her down or put her in the pose you want.
Give her a slave mantra … and ask her the same question with same answers every day to reinforce her understanding of her role and your expectation.
Repeat to her the facts/conditions of your contract and have her repeat them back to you. I.e. “You are my submissive, and I am your Master… I own…I am.., you are…. you will
Fuck her anywhere,This will show her you take what you want. You love her hole and what she’s offering . It doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom or on the couch. If she’s bent over in the laundry room, why not?
Make her asshole a fuck hole,Take her anally. It shows you want her body to be of your use, any hole and every hole. You’re physically telling her that body is yours, for your pleasure, and that what she has to offer is to be your fuck toy.
Cum on her face,Show her where you want to place your cum. she’s there to take your offering and she will love it. Many females will find this humiliating–her face is what she shows the world, and to have it in front of you serving as little more than a deposit will make her feel used. she will also have mixed feelings when she realizes how wet it makes her.
Objectify her,Measure her body parts, treat her like furniture and move her around like she’s a doll. she is your object.
Masturbate into her holes,Either with your hand and the tip into the hole or just mentally keeping in mind that you are using this hole to get yourself off. Again, she will feel used for your purpose, and she will love this treatment.
Ok i don’t know where any of this is originally from, if you do please let me know and i will credit. This may be two separate documents the last 5 or 6 points were in a diff font in my email.
