Ganja's Sims

Wassup, ya'll! It's ya girl, Bree aka GanjaSims and I'm back from hiatus and ready to share! Currently playing The Sims 4 and check out my Youtube channel! If you like LP's and Makeovers, I'm your girl ;) Feel free to message me and give me feedback on my content! Love you guys

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Makeovers I've done lately!

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- Townie Makeovers, Yuki Behr and Jesminder Bheeda

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Hey, your sims are still beautiful! Are you putting any up for download? Crazy thing-I don't come on Tumblr a lot, it's been a few years. I'll pop up every once in awhile-not a lot. But, one of your sims from Sims 3 popped up in my head, Juno, and I was thinking that I couldn't remember who made her. That's what made me log in-and your page was the very first post that popped up once I logged in. Ain't that somethin?

Hey! Thank you for thinking of me! I miss my girl Juno and playing sims 3 sometimes. Are you referring to my sims 4 sims or the sims 3? I haven’t uploaded any for sims 4 yet

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Do you guys think I should start recording Unwanted Pregnancy🤱🏾? I want to get back to YouTube (after 7 years and a horrible cpu) and I’m just wondering if you would tune in? I’d like to make it a part of my original Price of Fame series because the pregnancy is over and we’ve moved on from that. I’m thinking of making it a rotational series 🤗

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Voting ended onJan 28

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Hey wassup lovies! This ya girl Bree aka Ganjasims showcasing my gameplay and the lives of my sims. On this channel you will find makeovers,

Check out my channel and let me know how you feel! Any feedback is greatly appreciated 💜

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After changing and getting into the hot tub, Blair got a text from her publicist about her being nominated at the Llama Choice Awards for her role in the hit tv show, Growing Up Crumplebottom. She was ecstatic! She did the show while she was pregnant with Rae and through all those emotions and stress, she had actually reaped a reward besides money. Nobody even knew she was pregnant for a while during the show, because with Rae, she didn't even really show until her last trimester. Blair: Girl, I got nominated for an award! I'm going to the Llama Choice Awards! Naima: Ahhh! I'm soo happy for you, Cuz! You deserve this! You've been working soo hard. Blair: Yeah...it's gonna be my first real appearance since everything happened... Naima: Well I know you ain't takin his ass and you addressed everything on your YouTube! I hope they can at least respect you enough to make it about the awards and your nomination only! Blair: Me too, girl! I usually don't have a problem with respect in this industry. But yea, you never told me who the guy was...the married man... Naima: Cameron Fletcher... Blair: That old guy?! How you even know Cam? Rowan is cool with him. I've met him like once or twice. Naima: I met him years ago at a party his tech company was having. I never knew he was that old until I started seeing the grey in his hair. Cuz when I met him, he had a blonde cut, and he still dressed pretty young. Didn't know this man was turning 55 at the time! But baby that body...is still very much in tact! Blair: He is a good looking guy, I haven't seen him in a while. I'll have to ask Rowan about his wife dying... Naima: What??? You gonna hold real conversation with him? Blair: That's our goal for the week from the therapist [*rolls eyes*]. The last thing I wanna hear is his mouth about something I'm not doing or that I'm not trying...even tho I should have put his ass out! Girl, I was soo close to just filing for divorce. But my kids... Naima: AND, you love the man! You ain't gotta fake the funk with me, girl! You crazy about that n*gga. Blair: I just don't want to be played with, Nai! Like I don't want him to think he can just do whatever and I'm just gonna stick around because I love him! I'm a strong, prideful woman....I'm not weak! Naima: I know that and I'm sure he knows that as well, Blair. I'm gonna be real honest with you. You two...ya'll were MADE for each other. I have NEVER seen you soo in tune and in sync with someone! That man is in love with you and literally worships the ground you walk on. I'm not makin excuses for him but these chicks out here are desperate and don't give af who they hurt! Don't ever let no b*tch think she got your man! Blair: You know...for a while I felt like he was no longer mine, forreal. Like just the thought of him havin sex with someone else...the way we make love? How could he give that to her?! [*choking up*] Naima: I doubt he was f*ckin that b*tch like he makes love to you, Blair. Don't even think about it too deeply. You are one-of-one and he knows what he has and what he would be losing. He's not finna let a hoe ruin his marriage. Especially, when the b*tch done got to keep her own man. Like what?! Blair: I swear I wanna meet up with her husband soo bad... Naima: That would be an absolute waste of time. Focus on your marriage and what your next move is. Knowing Rowan...he's got some shit up his sleeve and you need to be strong! No folding! Blair: Oh girl, please! Ain't nobody foldin no time soon.

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Naima: Girl I'm sorry I'm running behind. I had to drop Gabriel at his fathers and you know I can't be around him but so long. Blair: He still actin a fool? Naima: Girl, he put his hands on me! Like I got a case against him and everything! I'm not even really supposed to be dropping him off but my mediator wasn't answering the phone on such short notice. Blair: What?! Wait, did he give you that scar by your eye? Naima: Yeah girl! Permanent damage to my beautiful face. I can't stand that motherf*cker. He has a daughter! I don't understand how you could even think to put your hands on a woman. Blair: Paolo is soo far gone...I just don't understand. He used to be such a nice guy when Aspen used to date him a long time ago... Naima: I don't know how we went from being engaged and having our son to domestic violence but here we are. He's lucky I even let him see his son. He really has anger issues. But anyway, how have YOU been?! I've been wanting to link and check on you but I had everything goin on with him...I couldn't Blair: It's fine, Nai. Life doesn't revolve around me and my marital issues but things are okay. We went to our first session of couple's therapy today and I thought it was gonna be some shit but it was actually therapeutic. It was nice to talk to someone who's qualified to deal with these issues, ya know? My friends haven't really given me advice...just support. Naima: Well it's good to know you guys are taking the steps towards communication and some type of healing. I know you and I know you a silent treatment kinda girl until you blow tf up. Blair: That I am! Girl, he called himself putting his foot down today. He asked me about going to therapy and had it scheduled for the next hour. Like he just knew I'd agree. Naima: You know your husband, girl. He don't play and he's crafty af. Probably why Aunt Beanie didn't like him. But Erin though? That bitch is as basic as they come and she's married too! Like I wonder what her husband thinks? Blair: Girl, apparently he put her out for a while.. but they worked on it and she's back home, I hear. Treated it like a vacation up in Cuidad. You know I dragged that bitch, right? Naima: Shut up! No you didn't!?! Blair: Girl, yes! In a Starbucks at that! It was the day I found out. This was before the pictures of them even came out. Naima: Girl...I know she was embarrassed! I've dealt with a married man and I am so glad his wife ain't catch on to us, God rest her soul... Blair: Bitch, what? She died?! And who tf was the married guy? I can't believe you would do somethin like that! Naima: B*tch, I ain't know his ass was married! He called himself being supportive after I broke things off with Paolo and of course, we end up sleeping together. So you know, he's comin around, helpin me with Gabriel, helped me move into my new house, everything, right?! I'm thinkin I got me a new man cuz he's introducing me to his son and shit. So his birthday comes around...it's crickets. I'm tryna figure out what we doin, he's like, he chillin...he don't feel good but Orange calls me and tells me about a party this n*gga havin! So I'm pissed and I invite my damn self. It's at his house (which I hadn't been to) and there she was...his wife! Some Spanish chick! Long story short, she got sick after their new baby was born (that's a whole nother story) and passed away! Blair: Stop playin! Naima: Yup! Girl, come on let's get in the hot tub! I'll tell you more about it.

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Rowan seems to be having a positive experience with therapy. Any time he's getting what he wants, he feels like he's winning. He knows Blair and he knows just how to handle her. Blair was naturally submissive, so him being dominant was a piece of cake, and part of the strategy of getting her back. He knew just when to assert himself and just when to fall back so she could feel in control. Playin the long game turned him on...but he'd have to wait for the right moment. For now, he'd have to handle his urges on his own when he either had the bedroom to himself or the shower. He was craving her. She was irresistible and his taste for her...was insatiable. He missed her more than ever but would respect her boundaries and play the role he needed to play until he could get her right where he wanted her. During therapy, Blair mentioned "exploring" her options and the boundaries of their relationship; he had to chuckle inside. That was her way of making him think she was interested in other people or testing the waters out there. He wasn't havin that though. He'd have to reel her back in and remind her he was all she needed. He was far from insecure and he had no worries about where their relationship was headed. Getting her to therapy and to talk was already a start so he knew exactly how to navigate from there on. The therapist made their weekly goal to try to be kinder to one another and open up the lines of communication, no matter how uncomfortable it was. They would get nowhere without doing so. So they both agreed and finished the session feeling somewhat heard, relieved, and understood.

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Rowan: I'm back from class, babe. How's everything? Blair: Everything is cool. Rae's fed and laying down with her sister and brother. How was class? Rowan: [*shocked*] Wow, you actually wanna know how my class went? I'm surprised to get more than a few words outta you. Blair: Don't push it. Rowan: Aight, aight...well class was good...productive. I turned in that presentation I was working on and I aced it so I'm happy about that. But I wanted to talk to you about somethin if you don't mind. Blair: What is it? Rowan: I think we should go to couple's therapy. Walkin around here on egg shells and not talkin ain't really workin for me and I'd like to start workin on some resolve. No matter what ends up happenin between us, we need to at least talk about this Blair. I mean I feel like you still wanna be with me cuz if not, you would've cut me off by now. Blair: Excuse me? You're still here because of the kids. Not because I want you here. Rowan: So we makin everything about them and not us? What you don't love me no more, Blair? Cuz I ain't never stop and will never stop lovin you. Blair: You weren't lovin me when you were messin around on me! I thought we were end game! That no one could come between us and we were dedicated to one another. I gave up a lot to be with you. Rowan: I NEVER asked you to cut your mom off, Blair. Don't even go there with me forreal. Parents gonna feel whatever they feel and I know I was just a cop and I'm not famous or rich but I've always been all about you! I didn't care what you had or did, I just knew I wanted you and you was gon be my wife. I don't even do all that celebrity shit. I like my regular life. Don't try to act like you did me some favor by fuckin with me or somethin. I pay the rent, utilities, and I even get you a nice bag every now and then. You ain't never had to pay for shit or nothin no matter how much more you make than me. I been a man and I stand on business bout mine! There he was...getting in his ego.... Blair: Don't go there with me, Ro! I don't care nothin about you being man or thinkin you been standin on business! You was a fuck n*gga when you slept with that bitch! No REAL man is gonna cheat on his wife and then talk about what he pays for around the house! Ain't no excuse for the shit you did! You wanna go to therapy? Fine. But you better be truthful up in there and if I feel like it's a waste of time, I'm done! Rowan: Get up, we got a session in an hour. Blair: What? How you gonna ask about therapy and have it scheduled for the same day you ask? Rowan: I'm not playin with you, Blair. I'm tired of you walkin around here actin like you don't wanna deal with shit. I've been sparing you cuz I'm tryin this whole relinquishing of power thing but that shit don't work with you. Nothin will get done if I don't make it happen. She couldn't believe him! He had some nerve! She hated when he acted like that....thinkin he ran shit. But at the same time, it turned her on...shamefully. It almost reminded her of the fact that he didn't play about her. She quickly shook that off though and went to wash her face and brush her teeth. She wasn't changing out of what she had on. She slipped on her Christian Dior slides, grabbed her key, and met him at the door. It was no point of going back and forth with him when he was like this. She'd save anything else she had to say for therapy.

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Three months had passed and not much had changed for Blair except being back to work. Rae was growing beautifully and the life of struggle she envisioned during her pregnancy seemed non existent. Rowan had taken time off to get through his classes so he was home a lot more and that left more time for Blair to get her own career back on track, and shoot for long hours without having to worry too much about the kids. They recently had to fire the recurring maid they had when River's wabbit tablet went missing and they felt like asking Ms. Ruth was out of the question. She was soo attentive and helpful with the children. She was honestly like the grandmother they never had. Though Blair was considering contacting her mom soon, dealing with that plus her marital issues just seemed like an inconvenience at the time. Blair's cousin, Naima, finally called after being somewhat M.I.A for the past 3 months. She hadn't made it to River's party or even called or texted since everything with the affair. It was nice to finally see her name come across the screen. They planned to meet up later at the Stargazer Lounge to catch up. She was busy planning a charity event and wanted to extend an invitation to Blair for her support. She had a lot going on and would rather see Blair in person to catch up instead of a lengthy phone call. So Blair agreed and let Naima go as she noticed Rowan walking out toward the balcony. She rolled her eyes and prepared herself to talk to him. She couldn't avoid him or give him silent treatment forever despite her being perfectly fine with acting like he didn't exist.

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Only way to get River to go to bed is to read with him. He loves books and water! So keeping him out of the toilet and entertained is a task!

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Blair was thoroughly enjoying herself. All her friends were there to celebrate with them and River was having a great birthday. Everyone was loving the space man cake she baked, the drinks, and the oxtail lasagna she made too! It honestly didn't even seem like a kids party but the kids were running around and having fun. Aya's son, King, had got soo big and Zoe brought her daughter, Ziya along too. The struggle was handling her own 3 children while trying to entertain. Ms. Ruth could only stay the first hour or so, after that they were on their own. Everyone there was there to support them and celebrate. No hidden agendas or awkward conversations. She and Rowan were able to have their own time with their own friends. They would have to throw more parties at their place in the future...but as soon as that crossed Blair's mind, she became a bit saddened. She honestly didn't know what the future looked like for them. Would she and Rowan even be together? Could she completely heal from the betrayal and embarrassment? No matter if the public was on her side or not, she'd forever face judgement regarding the marriage. Either she'd be a single mother of three or she'd be reminded of his infidelity for the rest of their lives. She pushed the thought to the back of her mind and decided to continue with the good vibes that were around. Everything wouldn't be solved in the matter of a few weeks...it was gonna take time and real effort to heal and get through this ordeal.

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Rowan: Thanks for comin through man. I really appreciate ya'll showin up like this. Rasual: Oh fasho, you know I'm gonna come through for lil man. Rowan: I know I haven't really got back to you but it's just been so much goin on and through my head. I wasn't really ready to face you, dawg. Rasual: I figured that...I mean I was tryna see if the shit was even true but I could have just checked on you and we could've linked. Talked man to man. Rowan: Man, I ain't know what I was gon say to you anyway. Like yeah, I fucked up... Rasual: I mean that's a start...some remorse. But who is this chick anyway? I mean she look basic as fuck, bro. Rowan: This chick I used to work with...her husband is that guy, Dustin Broke...he's like some big marketing exec... Rasual: You know what...I do remember Erin...she always seemed bougie af. What you even see in her? Rowan: Idk man, she was funny...stroked my ego some...just lust and I knew I could get her type shit. I wasn't really thinkin forreal. It was just kinda nice for someone else to to be into me and actually flirt with me. Rasual: You gotta watch out for that Jezebel spirit man. These women be wantin to get in your mind and control you through your piece. You know better than that man. Rowan: Ain't nobody in control of me but me! I ain't ever lettin nothin come between me and Blair again. I'm prayin we make it through this, I can't lose her man. Rasaul: Well man, you ain't really in control right now. You gotta respect her and relinquish whatever power you think you have. Humble yourself, bro. If you don't, life and most of all God will.

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Break til tomorrow for Unwanted Pregnancy 🤱🏾 but meet Soren Hayes! He’s a Private Attorney for high-profile clientele. I’ve recently been going around updating all my sims (and townies 🙄) and he’s one of my faves!

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- happy birthday, river!

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- party time !

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- a jog w/ Mojo to clear the mind

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[*Rowan to Self*] Alright, time to lock in my boy! You got this presentation, class, and the party tonight. School is school but seeing the guys...we already know what it's gon be! Rasual gon be on your ass...specially since you ain't really entertain his texts or phone calls. Your wife...she ain't finna talk to you AT ALL but her friends will be there...just keep it respectful and stay out the way. It's about ya lil mans, River, and River only. No Ego! You got this!