garrdenia

21 | personal vents and radical feminism | this is a sideblog

[pure]

“so you don’t listen to marginalized narratives?” one may ask. i absolutely do listen to “marginalized” “narratives.” Sometimes those narratives are gay and wrong, and i would only come to that conclusion through listening, of course. i am invalidating marginalized narratives constantly, daily even. i am a D1 athlete in the art of speaking over marginalized voices. too many “marginalized” “people” support nonsense and many oppressed people are often just self-interested social climbers who abuse standpoint theory to defend evil. i need a bit more substance than a mere identity-based claim to authority. i do not pretend to be unbiased, and anyone who does claim to be unbiased is lying to you, as there is no such thing. with that said i am always biased against amerikkkan depravity. Give all victims or potential targets of amerikkkan plundering a nuclear weapon NOW. Return maduro and his wife home safe NOW. i will continue to ignore any “marginalized” “voice” to the contrary. i will make it my mission to decenter and ignore a variety of voices and i hope to invalidate millions of marginalized voices in the future. Thank you for your time.

[rad-octopus]

"We shouldn't have sex segregated sports because I kicked this man's ass at this sport!"

1. Anecdotal evidence, we don't accept it for other shit, why would I accept it here

2. Genuinely good for you, keep kicking men's asses, we love to see it

3. Women who can't do that should still get to play sports

4. Men make women feel objectified, there's literally research that shows women perform worse when they feel objectified

5. Men will harass the shit out of women they deem to be in "men's" spaces. Guess what the vast majority of men think is men's space? That's right, sports

6. Men have been trying to bully women out of public spaces for millennia, can we have one fucking thing that is ours for the love of fuck

[anjomecanico]

Also, mixed sport competitions exist. If y'all wanna compete along with men so bad go on these instead of trying to take away women's to single-sex sport competitions

[radfemtextandart]

[anjomecanico]

The biological reality of bodies that humans call "biological sex" isn't a fucking social construct just because humans made up words to define it, it would exist with or without words to call it because it's not dependent on human judgement to be real. Irrational animals that reproduce sexually know really well how to identify this reality without any definitions.

[jillsteinfuneralcity]

the right: i want a woman to cook and clean and fuck

the left: omg…..girls?????? girls are soooooo soft……and soo good at organizing??? god i love how they organize their closets it’s soo cute…i just…wow…ugh date a girl who’s cute and soft and cooks for you

[quinntheestallion]

The right: blue for boys, pink for girls- that’s the way God intended

The left: I dunno I just feel like…..to me, pink is for the girlies? Like if you really like pink you might be a girl? Like it’s worth exploring your girlhood and feminity if that resonates with your authentic self. And blue?? It gives off a masculine vibe. Like if pink is not your vibe and blue feels right to you, you’re probably just a dude. Go forth my guy.

[lovelycranium]

the right: bitch bitch faggot faggot queer queer

the left: like…. bitch bitch faggot faggot queer queer 🫶

[kkoffin]

“Trans people have always existed!”

so long as there’s been gender roles, there’s been people assigned one gender role who wished they could be assigned another.

so long as there’s been patriarchy, there’s been women who wished they were born men so they could not be oppressed.

so long as there’s been homophobia, there’s been homosexuals who wish they were the opposite sex, so they were free to love.

feminists want to abolish gender roles, patriarchy and homophobia. we don’t want to “kill/eliminate all trans people”, but with no gender roles it’s hard to believe your ideology and identity based on them will somehow remain.

what they mean when they say “‘TERF’s want to kill all trans people” is “feminists want to abolish patriarchy, homophobia and oppression of women. our ideology will be abolished alongside it, (because belief in oppressive gender roles are fundamental to it’s existence)”.

‘TERF’s have no issue with people wearing whatever they want and expressing themselves how they want, but how you define “woman” - if a male can “become” a woman by complying with patriarchal standards - is build on top of oppressive tools we aim to destroy. maybe don’t build ur ideology on misogyny next time and it wouldn’t be collateral

[11thfempachi]

Demiromantic has to be the most bullshit identity, even like dumber than mogai nonsense

[11thfempachi]

"i only fall for people after i get to know them" congratulations you're normal. They will not be putting you into concentration camps, thank you for your bravery

[starsandscars81]

“Love is love” okay but can we talk about people whose identities don’t focus on feelings for another person? Pretty please???

[11thfempachi]

Can you people form your own damn movement and fuck off? I don't have an "identity" i have a cunt that the government wants to control. Half of yall don't even have one and think others not pretending that you do is holocaust

[old-vietnam]

Two young Vietnamese women sitting on the edge of a cistern, ph. by Leon Busy, 1915

[g1rluninterruptedd]

conservatism is when gen z uncomfortable with you happily admitting to getting aroused by the idea of your partner acting like child!!! 😭 puhlease

[lethbian]

hi folks I’m scarfbeard manbun and this is my girlfriend septumpierce undercut and we’re queering heterosexuality by making a joint tinder account for threeways

[garrdenyia]

my greatest regret is making this acc a sideblog tumblr is so confusing sometimes

[colombinaa]

“bdsm is anti-purity” imagine thinking males traditionally never beat women in bed

like imagine thinking that’s a new thing

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

yuri puppyplay sisterbreaking cnc hardcore bondage terfbreaking fan: umm you're fetishizing genitals.... that's lowkey problematic

it's funny how queer gendies accept all weird ass kinks and fetishes under the sun, including sistercest, terfbreaking, cnc, rape, puppy play, and worse, but when a lesbian likes pussy and wants to have sex with women with pussies, they're like "woah that's really fucking weird and you need to examine why you're into that, you're literally fetishizing genitals you pussysexual genital fetishist". okay well you're fetishizing being a puppy and raping your sister, so can we call it even?

[rneowth]

fuck it why not

[misandristwoman]

Closeted AMAB non-binary = regular looking man.

No wonder they feel like a predator going to women’s spaces when they are a man. Women’s spaces aren’t for men.

Men never try to make male spaces safer, they just flock to women’s spaces and use us as human shields.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

feeling unwelcome in the space I’m supposed to be in, or making other people feel unsafe so I can feel comfortable in a space I’m not supposed to be in.

you know, I feel kind of unwelcome and unsafe at my pwi college so I think I’ll go take a space at an hbcu! I don't feel comfortable in the christian student group, so I'll just let myself into the jewish student group! I feel uncomfortable being an employee, so I decided I'm the manager now!

boo hoo, you're a man. if you feel uncomfortable in men's spaces, deal with, figure out a solution. you're an adult. women's spaces are for women, not for women and men who feel uncomfortable in men's spaces. we gather in women's spaces on the commonality of being female, not on the commonality of feeling uncomfortable in men's spaces. women's spaces are not co-ed mixed sex spaces. women's spaces are not a safe haven for men who feel uncomfortable with other men. figure your shit out, it isn't our problem.

[gummybearattacktheworldofdespair]