Love Is Gay

Candice. 25. MD-PA GAAAAY🏳️‍🌈 💍 Instagram: candicepaigenitsch Snapchat:candy1014 💘Elliott Daniel🐶

[b-r-o-w-n-b-a-b-y]

[borderlinereminders]

Learn to say “can you love me a bit harder today? It’s a rough day” and then explain how you want to be loved harder.

Learn to say “I could use some support. Are you able to provide some? This is how you can support me -“

Learn to say “I feel lonely. Are you able to keep me company?”

Learn to say “I’m feeling overwhelmed. Can I talk to you about it?”

Do this instead of dropping hints or expecting someone to be able to read you. What may be obvious to you isn’t necessarily obvious to someone else. You’re often hurting your own feelings by not communicating your needs and just hoping people meet them anyways.

I know this is easier said than done. We often drop hints because we feel ashamed or bad about asking for help. But the truth is, for most of our loved ones, us hinting at things is exhausting. It can also set them up for failure because they don’t know your expectations. Sometimes they miss hints but sometimes they ignore them because it’s more draining when they aren’t asked directly. It’s very likely your loved one would appreciate you being direct.

People often want to support and help you, but a lot of them like to be told how they can do that.

[tyjrose]

Fuck sex. I'm tryna be the reason your mental health is getting better

We still gonna have rough sex tho

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"No one can love you until you love yourself" is like the worst possible way of articulating "if you don't respect and value yourself, it's very easy to become attracted to people who don't treat you right and then justify their mistreatment, so be careful."

[remanence-of-love]

[makeuphall]

[saint-ambrosef]

you know how kids tend to subconsciously adopt the mannerisms of their parents? i wonder how far back that stretches.

do i laugh like my great grandfather, because that's the way my grandma laughed, and my mom copied her?

does the way my dad make comedic sounds when he's driving actually originate with a distant uncle two hundred year ago, who made funny noises in the horse-drawn cart because it made his niece laugh?

i wonder which of my little mannerisms came from ancestors long passed, and i wonder which of mine will echo in family descendants long after i'm gone.

[thoughtkick]

“She didn’t need to be saved. She needed to be found and appreciated for exactly who she was.”

— j. iron word

[hitrecord]

[dirty]

Crave her. Not just the sex, but like her scent, her vibe & her company.

[shadowtherat]

Another week, another rat paw painting photo dump! As always my favorite picture is a blooper - scroll to the end to see Donut pushing a painting down caught mid-motion! If you would like to commission your own rat paw painting, you can do so by going to our Etsy “RatPaintings” here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/RatPaintings

[sosuperawesome]

SewBeautifulx on Etsy

[connectionn-deactivated20230403]

i hope all the love you gave away, will come back to you.

[notbeingnoticed]

[anotherlesbianandwhat]

xxx

[bakedlilbae]

[groovymoonie]

I think kissing is so underrated. Sitting in someone’s lap and just making out for hours is a big mood.

[asapwalky]

I appreciate people who try