Thoughts & stuff

this is my sideblog for everything not fitting my other blogs

[gedanken-explosionen]

istg I hate how when you block people on here you truly don't see anything of them EXCEPT for when the person you blocked sends a person you follow an ask. that makes NO FUCKING SENSE

[gedanken-explosionen]

the fact y'all cannot even tell apart an algorithm ai from generative ai says so much more about you than you think

[gedanken-explosionen]

I've cried at some of the most weird shit today. I can practically predict down to the hour when I'll get my period...

[pnglove]

© kitagar

[png-magician]

[aro-ace-chaos]

I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.

We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.

There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:

A single income isn't enough to get by anymore

Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system

Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly

Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.

So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.

[denizenhardwick]

sex-repulsed people are fully within our rights to be cranky and blunt about not liking sex and how it's fucking everywhere btw. we shouldn't have to tiptoe around and make sure our phrasing is perfectly squeaky clean because people interpret any criticism of sex and sexualization as puritanism. venting about compulsory sexuality is not purity culture. maybe you could stand to learn a thing or two from us.

[cislimewireuser]

Whenever you feel like a shit person, remember that antishippers on tiktok have admitted that they would neglect and harm their children over fiction if they had any.

[cassiansrebels]

❝she's a rebel.❞

💭 andor monologues:

maarva andor's funeral speech

[gedanken-explosionen]

it's funny when several WHITE people are like "this feels like covert racism" and two pick me's who happen to be POCs go "no, it's not, here is three excuses why it's not." WHEN IT LITERALLY IS COVERT RACISM. I cannot make this up.

[luna-azzurra]

Hurt / Comfort Prompts!!!

⋆˚✿˖° "You don't have to be okay right now. You don't have to be anything right now."

⋆˚✿˖° "When did you last eat. And water doesn't count and neither does coffee."

⋆˚✿˖° "I've got you. You're safe. I've got you."

⋆˚✿˖° "Stop apologizing for needing things. Stop it right now."

⋆˚✿˖° "You called me at 2am and I came. That's not something I did out of obligation. I want you to understand that."

⋆˚✿˖° "Lay down. I'm not asking."

⋆˚✿˖° "You've been holding this alone for how long. How long have you been holding this alone."

⋆˚✿˖° "I'm going to sit right here. You don't have to talk. I'm just going to be here."

⋆˚✿˖° "When did taking care of yourself become something you had to earn."

⋆˚✿˖° ⟢ "You're shaking." - "I'm fine." - "You're shaking and you've been crying and you're not fine and that's okay."

⋆˚✿˖° "I'm not leaving. You can ask me to leave and I still won't. You're stuck with me tonight."

⋆˚✿˖° "Has anyone ever just — taken care of you. Without needing something back." - "..." - "That's what I thought. Come here."

⋆˚✿˖° "You scared me. I need you to know you scared me and I need you to never do that again."

⋆˚✿˖° "I heated up the leftovers. You're going to eat them. We can fight about everything else tomorrow."

⋆˚✿˖° "Stop being brave for one second. Just one second. It's just me."

⋆˚✿˖° "I noticed you weren't okay three weeks ago. I've been trying to figure out how to say something."

⋆˚✿˖° "You don't have to explain it. You don't owe me an explanation. Just tell me what you need."

⋆˚✿˖° "Nobody should have to go through that. I know you did. I'm so sorry you did."

⋆˚✿˖° "Close your eyes. I'll stay until you fall asleep. I'll be here when you wake up."

⋆˚✿˖° "You keep saying you're fine and your hands keep shaking and I need you to pick one."

⋆˚✿˖° "I made your tea the way you like it." - "You remembered." - "I remember everything about you."

⋆˚✿˖° "You were there for me when I had nothing. Did you really think I wasn't going to show up for you."

⋆˚✿˖° "Rest. The world can wait. It's waited before. Rest."

[wearegoingfuckinganywhereman]

[thisfeebleheart]

patient needs neck kisses to survive

[gedanken-explosionen]

sometimes you just HAVE to laugh about the lack of self awareness in some people because it makes for great comedy. like everyone has duality and flaws, I sure do, but sometimes people really have never learned to question themselves at all and you just have to laugh.

[formulastuff]

landoscar (lando norris & oscar piastri) headers

like or reblog :) xx

[gedanken-explosionen]

if you think someone using the word "bruh" around you is misgendering, please re-enter reality. that's the most chronically online libshit I've ever seeeeen.

[ru1n3r]

i feel like im constantly taking damage