Queer af

Hi, you can call me Alex. I'm 17, DFAB and this is my life. This blog will be anything related to my struggles with my gender. If you want to know anything feel free to ask. I ask that you be respectful but if you truly don't know something or say something incorrect I will very lovingly correct you as we all make mistakes. I hope that this blog can help you as much as it helps me. My ask box is open and I accept submissions.

[gender-fluid-life]

Is it weird that the more I learn about gender and gender identities and expressions, the less I feel like I can explain what gender actually is? Is that normal?

I can totally relate to this. Gender is extremely vast and confusing. And the more you explore it the less you know how to describe it.

[gender-fluid-life]

I saw your post about the struggle with being non-binary/ gender fluid (sorry, I don't remember the exact wording) and how hard it is, and I just want you to know: I recognize your struggle and love you no matter how you're feeling today. I can't begin to understand your struggle, but I admire you anyway. You are an amazing and powerful individual. I respect you and what you're going through. You are valid, and I accept you.

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[gender-fluid-life]

Erika, genderfluid, he/she/they, demibisexual or biromantic demi/ace, I feel like I present rather masculine despite being afab and chilling in the closet probably forever. gender/sexuality blog is genderfluidleprechaun.tumblr.com you can message me there or at my main blog :)

[gender-fluid-life]

Hey! I need a little bit of advice, my name is Tehya and I'm bigender. The problem is, I don't know whether or not to change my name, it's very feminine to me. I might change it to Jacy, which means "moon," or Nova, which means "chasing butterfly." So what do ya think 😂

If you feel like your name is too feminine and you want to change it then I totally think you should ☺ Either of those names would be great!

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bask in the nihilistic shit post

[gender-fluid-life]

I have dysphoria esspeciallyjn dresses, I found a formal romper that makes me feel good about myself for homecoming, do you feel that it would be inappropriate to wear a romper to a formal homecoming dance???

Not at all! Someone I went to high school with actually wore one to our senior prom and looked great. Wear something that you feel good in ❤️

[gender-fluid-life]

I think I experience a lot of dysphoria whenever I identify as a female, and I think it would help if I could at least make my hair look a little more "girly". What I'm trying to ask is if you know any tips on how to make short hair more feminine.

My first thought was accessories! Headbands would be great. Or if you have bangs long enough you could twist them and pin them back. Bows and cute clips. Hope this helps ☺️

[gender-fluid-life]

Do you think that Jude is a good gender neutral name? (My name is Jude, I wanted ur opinion as a fellow member of the non binary community.)

I think Jude is a great gender neutral name! It's actually one of my favorites ☺️

[gender-fluid-life]

Sometimes I feel like I'm male or female but sometimes I feel like I'm both at the same time, and sometimes I feel like I have no gender at all? Is this gender fluid or something else I'm so confused

This is 100% gender fluidity!

[gender-fluid-life]

Heyo! I recently created a blog, @nonbinary-positivity so that nonbinary peeps have a safe place where they can come read about the awesome experiences of other nonbinary folk, and realize that there is so much to love about being on the nonbinary/genderqueer spectrum. Would you mind posting this to your blog as a signal boost? Thanks! :)

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[gender-fluid-life]

Idk if you'll get this but I've been having issues of late trying to figure myself out, and I don't want people thinking am doing it for attention but how does one know that they are gender fluid.

To be quite honest it's something you just have to figure out for yourself. It takes a different amount of time for everyone and everyone figures out their identity in different ways. You'll know when you know ☺️

[gender-fluid-life]

Hey, is 14 too young to identify as genderfluid?

Nah of course not ☺️

[gender-fluid-life]

I saw in another response you mentioned you live in the Bible Belt. I live in Alabama, so I feel your pain. You? Imma guess Tennessee or Texas.

Oklahoma 😅

[gender-fluid-life]

Two of my best friends both ftm looking for support please help their link go viral so they can finally feel comfortable for who they are

[gender-fluid-life]

If anyone wants to talk or if you are stuggling with gender or sexual orientaion or really anything u can message me Rainbowunicornawesomenessswag Yeah... I know😂 but ill answer really fast because i have no life... Heh... So yeah... Imma go baiiiii

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[gender-fluid-life]

Could you promo @forthebigenders? It's a new blog for bigender people. Thanks!

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[gender-fluid-life]

Hey Alex !!! My is Zander! I'm a Demiboy and I want to know if Oakley is A good neutral name?

I think Oakley is a wonderful neutral name and super cute too ☺️