my stepmum died a few days ago.
even though her health had been deteriorating fairly rapidly, we weren't expecting her to pass this soon, so it was a bit of a shock. I'm relieved for her that she's at peace now, but I'm also devastated that she's gone.
she taught me most of what I know about grace and treating others with kindness and compassion. I am a better person for having had her in my life.
I have two new night dresses in my wardrobe that I bought for her last week, which I hadn't got around to dropping in to her yet.
she never really went in for physical affection, but the last couple of months she started reaching out for me to hold hands with her, especially when she was scared or upset. I'm really glad I hugged her the last time I saw her.
hug your loved ones when/if you can.