I mean this with all the love in the world thinking of yourself as merely predator or prey is not a healthy mindset and I think many of you would do good to sit and consider your personal power and capacity for violence. In that same vein, you're not protecting yourself by refusing to learn the signs and tactics of abusers in favor of generalizing. You are vulnerable to abuse and you will be stabbed by the person you never saw coming because you don't drive with your head on a swivel. I am very worried for you.
















