Yearning for the unnecessary wisdom of my elders, because my grandma raised me and the only.way I know how to understand something is from the mind and mouth of those with patience and wisdom far bigger and beyond me.
You can’t cheat time, you can’t go back but you certainly can’t move forward and that’s why I shout to God
"Maybe one day we will get married... and we will have children, if they look like me then they will be poets, or if they look like you then they will be poems.”
In front of my mother and my sisters, I pretend love is cheap and vulgar. I act like it's a sin–I pretend that love is for women on a dark path. But at night I dream of a love so heavy it makes my spine throb. I dream up a lover who makes love like he is separating salt from water.
Umm it's kinda stupid really. I thought it was great when i was choosing but now i look back at it and yeah..... it was about this one post ki there will be more dead people on the internet, like even after we die these posts, photos, tweets are gonna remain here a long time until alogrithms catch up and remove them so yeah....ghost and tap because typping
I am my father’s investment and my mother’s failed blueprint - one she keeps trying to fix. So when you told me that I'm human, that it's okay to be flawed and make mistakes, I didn't believe you.
Amazing facts we were never told growing up that will absolutely blow your mind and hopefully empower you a bit too.
Menopause Is Rare
We all know that every species is main purpose, speaking in evolutionary terms, is to reproduce. So, if we really think about it, then why does menopause exist?
Humein bachpan se directly or indirectly yahi sikhaya jaata hai ki we women are only good for breeding. Our main purpose is baccha paida krna. Especially in our society, we are still expected to not continue our jobs, not continue studying, basically drop everything and be a housewife and push out babies.
But guess what? Only 5 species in total experience menopause. And the theory for that is that menopause is the nature's way to slow you down. To limit reproduction. So that women can pass down knowledge and caregiving. This is linked to evolution of intelligence, culture and complex society.
So, the next time someone says ki ladkiya toh baccha paida krne ke liye hoti hai, hit them with this.
Sperm Quality Affects Pregnancy Outcomes
Sperm isn’t just about fertilization. It affects placenta formation, embryo development, and the immune response of the pregnant person’s body.
Poor sperm quality has been linked to higher miscarriage risks, preeclampsia, and even developmental disorders later in life.
AND! Men’s age affects all this—just like egg quality declines, sperm does too. We just don’t talk about it.
We were always told that the whole child-rearing process is solely ours. Bss 2 minute ka kaam hai ladko ka and that's it. The child grows in our belly and the whole process is something only we have to go through.
WRONG!
This just takes out responsibility from the men. In reality, just like we have to go threw the whole 9 month period of growing a baby in our womb, men have to take care of themselves before pregnancy. The whole pregnancy depends on the quality of sperm. Jitna dhyan humein rkhna padhta hai during pregnancy, men should do the same before pregnancy. Cause their sperm health determines how smoothly the pregnancy would go and also the baby's health.
Male and Female Bodies React Differently to Diseases and Medication
I guess most of us know this one. But medical research has mostly been done for male bodies, even for conditions that affect women more. This is why, till date, we have no proper birth control pills or better solutions for PCOD/PCOS and other female related issues.
If you search the net right now, it will still say that all these diseases are incurable which is untrue. No one has bothered to actually do proper medical research on women.
The pills that they give us for such issues does more harm than good in the long run but we are just never warned about it.
Male Birth Control Exists—But Was Stopped Due to Side Effects Women Face Daily
This one just blew my mind man. There has been a lot of tries with male birth control pills. And one was so damn successful also. 320 man were taken for this study. The sperm count went down significantly when they used that pill but it was stopped because some men reported they faced acne, mood swings and fatigue.
Meanwhile, these are side effects women have endured for decades on the pill.
The Uterus Can Contract in Response to Emotional Stress
That pain during anxiety or heartbreak? Real.
Emotions trigger physical responses in the uterus—like tension, cramping, and bloating. That’s why stress can delay or worsen periods.