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Here’s some snap chats of my tux dress 😀 I designed it myself! 😛 as a genderfluid I was really worried about wearing a dress but wanting to be in a tux yet nothing about the tux excited me. It’s a button up with ruffles on the front bro?? And this was for Prom bro. So I combined the two! If anyone else wants to make a tux dress, I recommend getting a skirt that best compliments your body type (for me, that was a skirt that hit me at my tiny waist and a high low skirt is just really fun!) and getting a tux shirt with a cummerbund,then putting the cummerbund over where the skirt meets the tux shirt. For the jacket I used a small blazer instead of a suit jacket because I didn’t fit into any of the guy’s jackets at the men’s warehouse department 😢 but it looked better with something that fit me anyway. then for the look overall I went with a white black red color palette since that’s a common color palette for tuxes. Accessorize as you please! The outfit pieces: Jacket- forever 21 Tux shirt, cummerbund, bow tie, button covers- the men’s warehouse department Skirt-http://tinyurl.com/z727vjf Ameynra Fashion High Low Skirt, White Chiffon, with ruffle and underskirt (I got the medium and requested the front to be 14 inches and the back is 37 inches) Thigh highs- hot topic Shoes- Mina’s shoes (some cheapy shoe store I found next to DD’s discounts)

elishaalexzander

I feel like much of the world is in a social war over what gender is and is not.

I don’t feel that its my place to tell someone else what gender is. I believe that gender identity is something that an individual has to figure out for themselves. That being said, based on my personal experience with understanding my own gender identity, I can tell you what gender is not.

Gender is not the same as your sexuality. Gender does not have to define your sexuality. Gender and sexuality are two different subjects.

Gender has nothing to do with your genitalia. Gender is not defined by a doctor, despite what’s on your birth certificate. Gender identity is more of spectrum of variable options, instead of a binary with only two options.

Gender Identity & Gender Expression are not the same thing. Gender identity is part of the mental and emotional understanding of yourself. Gender expression is your style, how you’re most comfortable presenting to the outside world.

It is my belief that somewhere through out history, things like gender identity, gender expression, genitalia & sexuality somehow got all wrapped up into one single category called gender. However, it is also my belief that the people in this world are changing. Growing into a much more colorful way of thinking and understanding.

I hope the day will come when the majority will know gender to be a personal understanding of ones self, instead of an outward understanding of everyone else.

Xoxo -Elliott Alexzander

midoriyasbones

Reblog if you 100% okay with a transgender person correcting you if you accidentally misgender them or use their dead name.

languorheart

Hi I’m Jas and I completely spaced this meet up

lesbian-through-life

Every hour

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Me too!

specificallyaroace

Poms

For those of you who don’t know, I’m on the Poms team at my high school. And while I love the dancing and the performing and the friends that I’ve made on the team, I don’t love the (I don’t even know how to explain it). I don’t love the fact that my coaches assume everyone on our team is straight. For example, this year my team is doing a big sister/little sister thing and when my coach explained what she wanted this to look like she said, “I want you guys to be best friends and they are the person you go to if you have boy problems.” Not relationship problems, not any wording that could make the statement gender neutral. No, it was specifically boy problems. First off, that assumes everyone on our team is straight (I’m only out to one person on my team) and what if someone else on the team isn’t straight? That statement may make someone be afraid to come out. Furthermore, everyone on my team is always talking about guys. Whether it be before practice, at a bonding thing, or literally at any other time. Seriously, there are so many other things we could be talking about but it somehow always ends up back at boys. Even with my coaches, the subject is always the same. One night at Nationals the coaches came into the room I was sharing with three of my teammates and, literally, out of any topic we could have talked about, it was boys. Because, apparently, who you like or who you are dating is the only thing that matters in your life. Luckily, when they tried to ask me about my romantic life my friend, who I’m out to, saved me and steered the conversation toward someone else.

Apparently, according to my friend, this isn’t a phenomenon specific to Poms. She said this also occurs in swim and soccer. So, maybe it’s just society or just our high school’s society.

specificallyaroace

Hey, it’s Violetta! I think I’m going to start writing posts about what it is like to be Aromantic Asexual in today’s society. That sounds very pretentious but really the posts will be about my everyday life and how it is affected by my sexual/romantic orientation. So, this first post is just going to be like a get to know me thing.

Name: Violetta

Age: 15

Sexual Orientation: Asexual

Romantic Orientation: Aromantic

Siblings: Yes, a sister

Pets: 3 horses and 2 dogs

Favorite Bands: Green Day, 5 Seconds of Summer, Panic! at the Disco, blink-182, All Time Low, and With Confidence

Hobbies: Dancer (I’m on the Poms team at my school), horseback riding, snowboarding, reading, listening to music, and scrolling through Tumblr for hours on end

Favorite Movies/Tv Shows: Mama Mia, Grease, Shameless, Doctor Who, Class, Friends, Downton Abbey, and Game of Thrones

Other Random Info: I am in absolute love with tattoos (and I want a billion of them), I also love dyed hair (I had purple then pink then blue dyed tips for a while), and I actually really like school and my favorite subject is math

freckled-female

To anyone who might be a fan of the series, Ghost Bird Series, I read them too! The boys in these books are too hot to handle and too hot not to make a set of. Okay love y'all

thegayslay

hey im KJ. i woke up this morning and thought “im a boy today. im gonna wear a skirt.”

Just a Number

A scale

A tangible object

Only a thing,

And yet

The power it has over our mind,

Our bodies,

Over our entire being

Is none that it deserves

The number you see on the ground

Between your feet

Below the belly button that, to you, sticks out

Just a little

To

Much

It has the power to turn your mouth

Right side up

Or upside down

A small number

From an inanimate object

Supposedly represents you,

Your worth

Your value

Your being in its entirety

One small number

A hated number

A number that must change

A number that defines who you are

What is wrong with this picture?

Is it the fact that a number

Is the make or break moment of a day

Is it the fact that the evidence of the 2 pounds

You lost

Is your sole source of confidence?

That number on the ground

Between our feet

Below the belly button that is fine where it is

Means nothing

It does not define your worth

Your value

Your being in its entirety

Why do you let that number rule your world?

Why do you let that number influence your happiness?

Why isn’t how you feel about yourself and what you,

Your body

And what your mind says

As important?

A simple answer:

Society.

We are taught to live by that number

That that number

Defines who you are,

Your worth,

Your value

You are you,

A number does not define you

You define who you are

An inanimate object

Has no voice,

No opinion,

No power unless you give it power

So why sacrifice your happiness,

Confidence

Worth

Value

For a stupid object?

-GhostUnicorn

#poetry fsociety writing confidence

5sos

SLFL🤘

god-tier-fangirl

#dontjudgechallenge

I have tattoos, and I’m not a thug I have piercings, and I’m not a drug dealer I am Asian, and I don’t like rice I am American, and I don’t like McDonalds I am black, and I’m not in a gang I play football, and I don’t do steroids I am a girl, and I do weightlifting I am a boy, and I don’t do sports I am a cheerleader, and I am not dumb I am a boy, and I love to wear makeup I am a girl, and I hate wearing makeup I am a lesbian, no I won’t convert your children to the “gay lifestyle” I dress the way I want, that doesn’t make me fake I share my story, that doesn’t make me immature I have large breasts, that doesn’t make me a whore I am not a size two, that doesn’t make me fat I am overweight, that does not make me lazy I have bags under my eyes, that doesn’t mean I’m on drugs I was a late bloomer, that doesn’t mean I’m gay I think I’m beautiful, that doesn’t mean I’m conceited I’m black, that doesn’t mean my hair is fake I smile a lot, that doesn’t mean I’m trying too hard I wear a lot of makeup, that doesn’t mean I’m uncomfortable with my appearance I don’t wear makeup, that doesn’t mean I don’t care about my appearance I’m Muslim, that doesn’t mean I’m a terrorist I’m Christian, that doesn’t mean I hate gay people I’m Jewish, that doesn’t mean I’m good with money or have a big nose I’m German, that doesn’t mean I’m a nazi I’m French, that doesn’t mean I drink wine I’m a model, that doesn’t mean I smoke I’m Austrian, that doesn’t mean I play piano

This is what the Don’t Judge Challenge should be about. Not making yourself “ugly” by shaming those with those features, and then showing off your makeup skills.

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We’ve been on a “love yourself” ROLL lately, Sparklebutts!! Last week we Expecto Patronum’d self-hate dementors and gave you some tips on keepin’ cozy with self-care, and today, we’ve got 10 gorgeous illustrations about recognizing your own worth and beauty, created by @thelatestkate, champion of believing in your own awesomeness. So just in case it wasn’t clear: WE THINK YOU’RE PRETTY GOURDDAMN GREAT, AND WE WANT YOU TO THINK SO TOO.