Things I didn't do but I definitely should have done
So, since my last post was about stupid things I did, I'd like to take some time to talk about things I really should have done:
Make more friends. When I lived in Rio Preto, I knew a lot of people from my classes...but that was about it. I knew very few people from outside the Letras course day classes, let alone from outside the university. This, unfortunately, stayed true when I moved to Sao Paulo. I knew and spent time with a few people, but I never really tried to make friends outside of that. If I could turn back now, I would definitely try to lose that timidness I had before and meet new people outside my already-established group.
Travel more. During my first six months in Brazil, I traveled a lot. However, I was still left with a list of places I wanted to go to when I left at the end of the year because I stopped traveling once I moved to Sao Paulo. That was my fault, of course; my supervisor was extremely flexible and always encouraged me to travel a little bit more. She and the rest of the people in my office even helped me plan potential trips. I just never really took advantage of that flexibility.
Live closer to school. While living in the city center during my first semester kept me in a better location and gave me a taste of what Rio Preto was like outside the university (something most of my friends never experienced because they weren't from there either), it did make everything a lot more difficult. Not only did my long commute keep me farther the school, it also made it harder for me to meet with others and go to events. On top of that, it was about twice as expensive as living near the school would have been.
Spend more time with my friends. While before I said that I needed to make more friends, I also feel like I should have spent more time with the ones I already had. Part of this was, of course, due to the fact that it took me about a half hour to get to where everyone else lived. But even on days that I would have been able to do things with my friends, I often chose to stay in instead. Because of that, I missed out on a lot of group dinners, inside jokes, new friends, and tons of apparently hilarious stories that I never fully understood afterwards.
Take more pictures. I took tons of pictures on my vacation trips, but you know how it is--you can always take more. But this point is especially true for the places I lived. For whatever reason, I never whipped out my camera in Rio Preto or Sao Paulo, causing me to have to Google the city in order to show anyone pictures of the places I considered home throughout the 10 months I was there.
These are just some of the very major things I regret not doing while I was in Brazil. Had I done them all, I'd have even more great memories than I already do.













