lanqueluv

harlen, any prns adult born in 2000 lanque's matesprit ♥️ icon ID: My sona, described in my pinned post. header ID: "Expanding" hearts that alternate between black and jade green, layered on top of each other to fill the header.

[gl00mycarnival]

prev url, changed july 3, 2026 : lanqueluv

heya (ゝω・´★) i'm harlen, i use any pronouns (and any terms), and i'm bodily an adult born in 2000. i'm auDHD, genderqueer, and a-spec. my main is @glooomycarnival. no dni, i just block; i'd prefer minors not follow my blogs. here's my tagging system if you have questions for tag blocking.

i selfship (redrom) with lanque bombyx. don't talk to me about your ship(s) involving him or gush/thirst about him on my posts/blog, please and thank you! i don't do fidelity lists. if you don't want people who interact with your selfship doubles to interact, please just block me as i'm not going to be keeping track of that, sorry. i'm also not a "yume shipper," and would prefer not to associate with any of the "yume ship" terms or those who use them.

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these are me/my sona(s..? they're the same but different), harlen ganass/leni gannass or gloomyCarnival (harlen as troll, leni as human)! harlen is my default! i made the icons using this cool as hell picrew, and drew the sign, jester hat symbol, and makeup myself because they didn't have it. also made the outfit reference myself. leni swaps between the jester hat and a harlequin mask symbol from time to time, it's a swappable charm that clips on!

this is lanque, if you aren't already aware!! i only started selfshipping with him on may 28th, 2026, but i love him very, very much despite the short time it's been! coincidentally, that day is also when i first started selfshipping at all

[in-the-mood-of-moonlight]

If you age regress, your f/o would never tell you to act more like an adult or expect you to do something beyond your current capacity. They wouldn’t push your limits, and they would make sure to discuss your boundaries with you ahead of time. If you want their company, they’ll make sure to take care of you as much as you need. If you’re embarrassed or just prefer to be alone, they’ll give you as much space as you need.

Your f/o loves you no matter what, and they will always respect you and your boundaries.

[fo-plushie]

Idk who needs to hear this (me. I do), but your f/o would absolutely support your hobbies and interests! Yes, even if they're "odd", "childish", or whatever else. They want to listen to you talk about it and will help however they can/you would like!

[dormantshipping]

Who was your first F/O? The one that made you realize you could get into selfshipping?

[enjinsprettydoll]

alright guys, go get ready and grab your blorbo's, we're all going strawberry picking and having lovely, romantic picnics in a vast flower field! 🥰😌🍓🧺🌿

[gl00mycarnival]

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[trianglebeing]

imagine your f/o carrying something that reminds them of you at all times. could be anything -- a photo, an item of jewelry, a letter, a lock of your hair -- all that matters is that having it on them fills your f/o with this immense feeling of joy and a reminder of how much they love you.

[gl00mycarnival]

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[imagineyourfo]

for those of you with an f/o that’s not on your public f/o list. take a moment and imagine, like, wacky sitcom hijinks. hiding your secret f/o in a closet or under a tablecloth and somehow nobody noticing there’s a whole ass person in there

[gl00mycarnival]

having an f/o will sometimes have you thinking "f/o wouldn't do this to me" at the most random things. like the power going out and it being hot

[gl00mycarnival]

i actually went ahead and properly designed an outfit for my sonas finally... i tried to do a full body minus a head, but could not for the life of me draw the shoes, so i just settled on putting pictures of them and cutting the body down to just this. believe it or not, this took me an hour sob sob

heavily referenced from this art that i found on pinterest. i believe the original artist is @/RabbitSeasonArt on twitter/X, but she has her account protected so I can't verify this :o(

[dormantshipping]

What kind of marine creature would your F/O be?

Shark / Ghost shark / Ratfish

Squid / Octopus / Cuttlefish

Crab / Lobster / Shrimp / Krill

Snail / Clam / Oyster

Stingray / Ray / Skate

Coelacanth / Lungfish

Betta / Rainbowfish / Pufferfish / Triggerfish / Boxfish

Darter / Tetra / Sardine / Minnow

Salmon / Trout / Walleye / Cod / Carp / Catfish / Haddock

Eel / Lamprey / Leech

Flatfish / Scorpionfish / Anglerfish / Stonefish

Seahorse

Voting ended onJul 11

(I don't have enough room to put every kind of sea creature here, so please choose the closest group! Feel free to put the specific creature your F/O would be in the reblogs, comments or tags :])

[recovery-is-brutal-deactivated2]

Imagine your F/O noticing your reddened, swollen eyes. Imagine them giving you the most gentle look they can muster, their eyes full of warmth.

"You look tired."

They don't mean it in a negative way at all. They don't mean you look ugly or sick. They genuinely think you look like you need rest.

Go ahead and rest. Crying makes you tired. It hurts your eyes, hurts your face, makes it hard to breathe and gives you headaches.

You deserve to rest now. Your F/O will keep you safe from any more pain.

[gl00mycarnival]

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[gl00mycarnival]

lanqueluv -> gl00mycarnival :o)

changed my url!! mostly to connect it better to my main blog, but also because i wanted my url to be a bit more general in the case that i start selfshipping with more characters aside from lanque >.<

[dark-selfship-imagines]

Imagine your f/o pressed flush against you, leaving you pinned to the cold wall. They’ve got your wrists seized and you’re completely at their command, one wrong move and who knows what they’d do. They press their lips against your neck, murmuring huskily as their teeth graze your tender flesh. You can feel them purposely pushing against a bite they left on you the other night. “Prey like you should know their place. Stay still.”

[dormantshipping]

What type of bug would your F/O be?

Spider / Arachnid

Scorpion

Bee / Ant

Wasp / Termite / Cockroach

Butterfly / Moth

Grasshopper / Cricket / Katydid

Fly / Mosquito / Drainfly / Silverfish / Flea / Mite / Tick

Dragonfly / Damselfly

Mantis / Praying Mantis

Cicada / Froghopper

Stickbug / Leaf Insects / Aphid

Beetle / Ladybug

Voting ended onJul 10

(I don't have enough room to put every bug here, so please choose the closest group! Feel free to put the specific bug your F/O would be in the reblogs, comments or tags :])

[a-damsel-in-love]

Do you ever listen to a love song and think about you and your romantic f/o together and just feel so

[gl00mycarnival]

[ID: A meme of a white cat. The cat is laying, its face towards the camera. There are 12 pink hearts around the top of its head and pink blush lines edited on its face. /End ID]

[carouselofselfships-deactivated]

Please remember that most selfshipper’s blogs are very personal, and even if they’re a source for many imagines and relatable posts you enjoy, they’re still a person voicing their own soul to the world. If you like a selfshipper’s blog and their content, acknowledge their personal posts too, their own ships.

Even if it’s just a ‘like’, let them know, “I see you”. Don’t treat your fellow selfshippers as more media to consume, support the human behind the screen, support their love and struggles.

[abigailsfictionalothers-archive]

Imagine your F/O thinking about you while you're separated.

They're gone away, for whatever reason, and they cannot stop thinking about you, wishing they could be with you. They think about your goodbye to them, and how it feels to be in your arms. Their favorite moments with you. What it's like to sleep next to you.

If they're meeting new people, be sure that they're telling them about you. About their AMAZING partner back home, and how they cannot wait to get back to you.

Everything they see, they think of what you'd think of it. If you love it or hate it. And oh, the souvenirs they'd collect for you.

Rest assured, they think of you every moment you're apart, until you can be together again.