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“People always clap for the wrong things.” — The Catcher in the Rye, Published on this day in 1951

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Dear Guy Friend

I thought maybe I could give you some advice? I'm probably the last person who should be trying to give advice right now because I can't even take my own. But I'll try. We tend to love people over time whether we want to or not. Sometimes its uncontrollable and it just happens. And usually we don't mind it, until it backfires. Which is one of the flaws of being human. But I've realized that sometimes loving someone just isn't enough. And it's not that that person wants to hurt you intentionally but maybe they're just not ready for what you have to give. And the nice thing to do is yes wait, but what if you wait? What if there's some other girl out there feeling the same way you are right now. A girl who has just as much love as you do to offer and she's wit someone who doesn't appreciate her either. Both of you should take step back. The longer you wait, the deeper the cut goes, the thinner the blood flows, the rustier the trail ways get. I've learned that waiting can sometimes be useful. But is it worth the trauma that you put yourself through? If this person doesn't want to love you, you should at least try to love yourself right? So instead of waiting with a time limit, maybe you should stop living on someone else's clock and buy a new one. A nice new shiny watch. An expensive one that's going to make you smile every time you look at it and one that you're going to spend the effort to keep up and maintain its quality for. I'm not saying it's going to just pop up in front of you, you do have to go check out a few different selections. But you won't get any closer to finding that watch if you're still trying to make your obsolete one work. But that's just my thought. I mean I can't even take my own advice for this but we both don't have to suffer and be naive. 

Love, 

A Female Friend

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