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Kira | 18 | I don't use this blog anymore New Blog

[glittrslime-blog]

Moved

A’ight it’s done... This blogs just gonna stay up to be an archive because I can’t just throw out 7 years of my life. This blog is literally a timeline of me growing up which is why I’ve been so hesitant about starting a new one. I’ve actually been thinking about remaking for 2 years now. I’m keeping it also because I feel like it’ll be really nostalgic and fun to look through years from now..... Can you believe I used to post MCU stuff on here?, shitty memes, homestuck, nightvale, anime, I went through a lot of phases. I mean idk if any of you have been following me for a long time and have seen me go through those phases but if you have I appreciate you and you can send me a message anytime I’d love to talk. Anyways TL;DR new blog is right here: X 

[glittrslime-blog]

By the way any suggestions for a new URL cause lemme tell u, I am shit at coming up with them glittrslime took me like a month. My previous url was glitter-prince so you’d think it would’ve been easy to come up with glittrslime from that but no. I’m real bad at it.

[glittrslime-blog]

Alright so update: definitely remaking my blog but I haven't actually set it up yet so will let yall know what the url is when it’s ready but just so you know I will no longer be posting other content on here just updates on the remake situation.

[glittrslime-blog]

Hey pals I’m thinking it’s finally time after 7 years to remake my blog. Mostly because I kind of want to have my art blog be my main blog or at least have all my blogs be a little more cohesive plus glittrslime is full to the brim with inactive followers so... Nothings set up yet for it to happen so if you actually wanna stay following me then stay tuned cause I’ll update you guys on whether I’m doing it or not idk what I’m actually going to do yet. Plus I want my blog to actually be more personal and I want to be able to share my art on it like I don’t think my art would fit with the aesthetic of my blog right now so yeah tbh it’s very likely I’m gonna remake and just keep this blog as an archive we’ll see.

[cschoonover]

Patcha Poonpiriya by Chris Schoonover

[jaspertilley]

[soundsof71]

David Bowie, 1973: no eyebrows, classic eyeliner game, gold lipstick on point, by Mick Rock

[pvnkcouture]

cushnie et ochs fall 2014

[fashionfeude]

Shoe Porn at Roberto Cavalli Fall Winter 2015 | MFW

[thunderstruck9]

Wayne Thiebaud (American, b. 1920), Eyebrow Pencil, 1964. Pastel on paper, 15.9 x 18.7 cm.

[sunbathe]

[thother]

she really outdid herself

[yua]

[lalenamakeup]

by kaynadianbeauty.

[oldpaintings]

Two Butterflies by Giovanna Garzoni (Italian, 1600–1670)

[softroseangel]

[homojabi]

Straight girls love to pretend like they can be intimate with other girls without things being weird as if their behavior doesn’t literally rely on the assumption that the other girls they’re being intimate with are straight too. As if as soon as they find out a girl is attracted to other girls they don’t completely change their behavior and refuse to be anywhere near them. As if their refusal to invite sapphic girls to sleepovers or to get dressed in the locker room near them isn’t an even bigger “no homo” than actually saying it would be.

[taavot-deactivated20170404]

once straight girls learn of ur sexuality, platonic physical affection that was status quo from both parties before (arm linking, hair braiding, hugging or sleeping in the same bed on a sleepover) becomes taboo to them. they think it’s ok for them to sexualize every one of their lesbian/bi friends’ actions without consent. in my experience, physically affectionate friendship is fine and normal between me and my straight friends - until they find out I like girls. then every time I come anywhere near them I get sexualized jokes like “omg I didn’t know you were into me that way”, “do you secretly want to have sex with me, Avi?”, or critical attacks like “can you stop acting like I’m gonna go lesbian for you? it’s creepy” - all this over friendly gestures that were no big deal before my sexuality was made public. it’s made me feel disgusting from a young age to go near any girl even with no romantic context.

some straight ppl who wanna act like they’re good and not homophobic in this regard will say that touching between gay/bi women and their straight friends is alright, but only “as long as you’re 200% sure you’re not attracted to them” even though that logic is also super harsh?? tons of straight girls have friendships with their unrequited guy crushes and are still close enough to hug or jokingly touch or be affectionate and they aren’t deemed predatory for it. I remember having a crush on a straight friend in middle school and I knew it was unrequited so I never tried to act on it, I just continued to interact with her in normal friendship ways (which for us included things like linking arms and hair braiding, but since I knew she didn’t know about or return my feelings I never sexualized it in my head at all), and when I confided in my other (also straight) friend about my feelings for this person she yelled at me and said that if I knew she was straight I should never touch her again because that’s creepy and invasive. the next time the girl I liked asked me to braid her hair or wanted to link arms with me I teared up and pushed her away. 

there’s just no forgiveness for young lesbians and bi women for normal things. having platonic female friends apparently unacceptable because that’s “not possible”, but when we do end up with unrequited feelings for a close friend, which is completely normal, it’s framed as though we did it on purpose and were intentionally sexualizing that friend, and we’re then expected to atone for that attraction by making ourselves completely physically inaccessible and separate from that friend so there’s no question that we aren’t “being creepy”. put up a wall and be paranoid to ever touch them again in any way. unrequited crush on a straight friend = you’re never supposed to come in any physical contact with that straight friend again or else you’re a predator and sexualizing her and you’re gonna be talked about that way behind your back or to your face. and to add insult to injury straight women speak on this as though friendships between young lesbian/bi girls and straight ones primarily harm the straight girls involved, when in reality it’s the mental health of the lesbian/bi girls involved that is ultimately damaged.