hi! so the mods here at qla have decided that since not all our readers are native english speakers, it would be in everyoneâs best interests to start a collection of gender-neutral pronouns across all languages. if you donât see your language or pronouns on the list (within reason, for accessibility purposes we canât include every english variant of a pronoun), please let us know and include conjugations if possible! thank you!
for further expansions on grammar you can check the posts in the pronoun project tag:)
arabic ( Űč۱ۚÙ )
ÙÙ Ű§ (they, originally dual, can work as a neutral singular third person)
ۧÙŰȘÙ Ű§  (second person dual)
bulgarian (бŃлгаŃŃĐșĐž ДзОĐș)
ŃĐ”/ŃŃŃ /ŃĐ”Ń Đ”Đœ/ĐžĐŒ (generally used for a group of people, could be used as singular as in âtheyâ)
ŃĐŸ/ĐœĐ”ĐłĐŸ/ĐœĐ”ĐłĐŸĐČĐŸ/ĐŒŃ (means âitâ, informal)
chinese (äžæ)
mandarin/æźéèŻ:Â Â ä» or ć„č (tÄ) - only the pronunciation is gender-neutral unfortunately, the characters are gendered
cantonese/ćčżć·èŻ:Â äœą (keoi5/keĂșih) - them/him/her/it
ćź - also tÄ, but means âitâ. ask before using as it could be derogatory
ç - ta1, used for non-human animals
add ć (men) to either for plural, add ç (de) to make it possessive
éŁäžȘäșș (simplified) éŁćäșș (traditional) (na4ge4ren2- that person) and èżäžȘäșș (simplified) éćäșș (traditional) (zhe4ge4ren2- this person)
czech/ÄeĆĄtina
onikĂĄnĂ, which was used in the past as gender-neutral pronoun when refering to someone of lesser status. itâs oni/je/jejich/se they/them/their/themself and the use is: Oni jsou moc milĂœm ÄlovÄkem. - They are a very nice person.
danish/dansk
de/dem/deres
hen/hen/hens
dutch/nederlands
zij/hen/hun
ze/hun/ze - (note: literal translation of they, but ze is often used as âsheâ)
english
they/them/theirs
ze/zem/zeirs
xe/xem/xeirs (xyr)
hir/hirs/hirself
spivak: e/em/eir
esperanto
ri
Ćli - combination of he/she, generally used like âtheyâ in english
estonian/eesti keel
tema/teda/tema (formal)
ta/teda/tema
farsi
ۧÙ
finnish/suomen kieli
se/sen (means it, informal)
hÀn/hÀnen (formal)
french/le français
ol/mo - ex: ol sâappelle Bidule et câest mo pote.
ille (referring to oneself), ceulle (referring to someone else)
eux (sometimes used as a subject-position instead of object-position)
georgian/kartuli/á„áá ááŁáá
áᥠ/ áááá / áááᥠ(is / iman / imis) = they / them / their
german/deutsch
xier/xieser/dier
xier/xies/xiem/xien
sie_er
er_sie
sier
es
sie_r
si_er
x
sie*
er*
greek/ΔλληΜÎčÎșÎŹ
Î±Ï Ïοί / ΔÎșÎ”ÎŻÎœÎżÎč ( are these the ones that mean it?? let me know so i can take them down)
Î±Ï Ï@, ΔÎșÎ”ÎŻÎœ@ (singular) Ïίλ@Ï (plural) - not pronounceable, good for writing though
hebrew/âlvrit/ŚąÖŽŚÖ°ŚšÖŽŚŚȘ
there arenât actually any gender neutral pronouns in hebrew sadly. the first set is all male pronouns and the second one is all female. like the word ze (ŚŚ) is male for âitâ and it has a female form which is âzoâ (ŚŚ). atzmam (ŚąŚŠŚŚ) is plural male (but it is used sometimes as neutral tbh). also the second set is only female pronouns for she, her, hers and herself
also about the plurals, you need to add either Ś or Ś to make these words plural either in a male or female form,  like the plural words arenât actual words it needs to be ŚąŚŠŚŚ\Ś©ŚŚŚ\ŚŚŚȘŚ\ŚŚ and itâs the male form you just need to replace it with Ś to make it female but people use these as gender neutral pretty often because thatâs the closest you would get
icelandic/islenska
hĂn/hĂn/hĂni/hĂns
hé/hé/hé/hés
ĂŸað - equivalent of âitâ, ask before using, could be derogatory
hĂĄn/hĂĄn/hĂĄni/hĂĄns - mix of binary pronouns
when referring to an individual of an unspecified gender, use viðkomandi instead of hann/hĂșn
ilokano/Ti Pagsasao nga Iloko
isuna (singular they), na (singular their), kaniana/kenkuana (singular theirs), isuda (plural they), da (plural their), kaniada/kadakuwada (plural theirs)
indonesian/bahasa indonesia
dia (third person singular), mereka (third person plural)
irish/gaeilge
sibh/siad
italian
????
latvian/latvieĆĄu valoda/lettish
viĆi/viĆu/viĆiem
lithuanian/lietuviĆł kalba
Jie/JĆł/Jiems/Juos/Jais/Juose
malay/bahasa melayu/bahasa malaysia
dia
michif
wiya
norwegian/norsk
dem/dem/deres
hen/hen(henom)/hens(henoms)
hin/hin/hins
sir/sir/sirs
portuguese/lingua portuguesa/portuguĂȘs
el@/del@
elx/delx
elĂŠ/delĂŠ
punjabi
all pronouns are neutral (he/she: âuha usaâ or àšàšč àšàšž; him/her: âusaâ or âusanĆ«â which is àšàšž or àšàšžàššà©à©°; his/hers: âusadÄâ or àšàšžàšŠàšŸ). also, the pronouns âheâ & âsheâ in english both translate to âvahâ (à€”à€č) in hindi. however, the rest of the pronouns are gendered. verbs are also generally gendered.
russian/ŃŃÌŃŃĐșĐžĐč ŃĐ·ŃÌĐș
Â ĐŸŃ /Đ”Ń /Đ”Ń /Đ”ĐŒ/ĐžŃ /ĐœĐžx
slovak/slovenskĂœ jazyk
oni/nich/im/ich/nimi
slovenian/slovenĆĄÄina
oni/z njimi/njim (they/with them/to them). Now if you want to say: I want to help them - you donât use ânjimâ but âjimâ. (Ćœelim jim pomagati; Pomagati jim ĆŸelim.)
spanish/español/castilano/castellano
Pronouns that can be written and pronounced:
Ella/la/-a (binary feminine): âElla es la niña lindaâ
Ăl/el/-o (binary masculine): âĂl es el niño lindoâ
Elle/le/-e (neutral): âElle es le niñe lindeâ
Ello/lo/-o (neutral, similarly to the english âitâ can be very offensive so please be careful and donât use it unless you are told to do so): âEllo es lo niño lindoâ
Elli/li/-i (neutral, cacophonic and uncommon): âElli es li niñi lindiâ
Ellu/lu/-u (neutral, cacophonic and uncommon): âEllu es lu niñu linduâ
Pronouns that can be written but not pronounced:
Ellx/lx/-x: âEllx es lx chicx lindxâ (I donât know who told you otherwise, but this can be used by both poc and white folks)
Ell*/l*/-*: âEll* es l* niñ* lind*â
Ell@/l@/-@: âEll@ es l@ niñ@ lind@â
Ell_/l_/-_: âEll_ es l_ niñ_ lind_â
EllĂŠ/lĂŠ/-ĂŠ: âEllĂŠ es lĂŠ niñÊ lindĂŠâ
swedish/svenska
hen/hen(henom)/hens(henoms) - variations are in parentheses, gender-neutral third person personal pronouns
den/den/dens (dess) (means âitâ)
de/dem (dom)/deras
tagalog
Singular/Plural siya/sila (they) niya/nila (them/their) (sa) kanya/(sa) kanila (theirs/preposition them)
turkish/tĂŒrkçe
o/onlar
welsh/cymraeg/y gymraeg
nhw/nhw/eu
THERE!!! ARE!!! GENDER!!! NEUTRAL!!! PRONOUNS!!! IN!!! SPANISH!!! i didnât know this omg
Something cool/weird about Chinese: second person is usually gender neutral in Simplified Chinese, but not in Traditional!
SimplifiedïŒ äœ - you (no gender distinction)
Traditional: äœ - you (male) 抳 - you (female)
Please note that 抳 can be used in Simplified and äœ (for both genders) can be used in Traditional. However, these are extremely rare cases. You rarely see 抳 in Simplified Chinese or äœ referring to a female in Traditional Chinese.
They are both pronounced the same so no distinction is made in spoken Chinese (at least not in Mandarin or Cantonese).











