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some things i didn’t realize i needed to hear…

you have permission to make mistakes. you have permission to fail. you have permission to be sad. you have permission to not be over it. you have permission to struggle with difficult things or even “easy” things.

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Permission to make mistakes and not be hurt, denied, or neglected for it.

I feel that if I make a mistake, everyone will see how worthless I am and take EVERYTHING away from me. As if all the good I am and have done matters not, because I made one tiny mistake, all my skills, all my growth, all my worth, everting it all just disappears because I made a mistake.

That’s utter shit ladies and gentlemen.

So here’s your pass to make mistakes and be caught, loved, and held.

Make that mistake. I got you. I still love you. You’re amazing and valuable and this does not define your worth. Nothing has disappeared because you made that mistake. You’re still a wonderful, badass human who is learning.

I love you. You got this. Keep going.

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for anyone that’s having a bad day, here are pictures of animals sniffing flowers

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it is possible to live happy life and have a happy future when you have medium/high support needs. it's possible for us to be accommodated. it's possible to get needs met. it's possible to find a satisfying way of existence.

i want to bring some hope for us. yes, we are often trapped in unsatisfying situations. from abusive homes/bad caretakers/unsupportive environments/etc. to dictatorships that we have additional barriers to escape from.

but. we aren't doomed to stay like this forever. we aren't doomed to live unsatisfying life.

it's possible to get more needs met. it's possible to get supportive and accessible environment. it's possible to flee abusive/toxic/dangerous situations. it's possible to get more joy. it's possible to find community. it's possible to find things that bring you joy, make you feel like you do something meaningful. it's possible to be happy.

i can't promise everything will be good. but i can hope. and i want to share this hope with you. i wish we all get some hope on better future.

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Morning-glory plume moth, 9/1/2024

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Seasonal affective disorder havers how are we all coping

[ID: Two versions of the cat screaming at food bowl meme. The first has a clock showing 4pm and is captioned "WHY IS IT NIGHTTIME". The second has a November calendar and is captioned "WHY IS IT TEMPERATURES".]

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I love how perfectly like clockwork this returns every November. Good morning northern hemisphere take your vitamin D