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does anyone else think about how brave all their friends are and get really emotional about it
I'm glad everyone is alive rn
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idk man I'm thinking a lot about the discourse being reported in this post and my own post about crushes, which has garnered a lot of responses like this one
and I don't know exactly what to do with this yet but I'm fascinated, in a really upsetting way, by the way some of these people seem to conceptualize romantic and/or sexual attraction as an act of violation that no one should do to people they like and care about. if nothing else it raises some really compelling questions about what they think actually goes on between people who have sex and/or romantic bonds with each other if that's not supposed to be something that happens between friends.
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oh my god I'm doing patriarchy now
It's interesting, because the following are three very different things:
getting to know someone because you like them romantically and coming to really care about them as a friend instead
developing feelings for a friend over time
only associating with someone in the hopes that they'll want to eventually date you and seething at them for not initiating a romantic relationship with you
The first two are perfectly normal and fine, and not dehumanizing or entitled. The last one is the one that's an issue.
Similarly, these two things are very different:
being sex and/or romance repulsed in general
treating someone having a romantic interest in you as inherently predatory and a slight against you
The problem isn't that you feel weird to learn a friend has a crush on you. If you're uncomfortable with it, that's between you and said friend; however you ultimately resolve it is fine so long as you're mature about it.
The problem is acting like a friend developing feelings is some kind of intentional act of dehumanization, and insisting that your subjective opinions on love and sex are objective and universal.
Please stop using bugs to control reality
you are evil because you are weak
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i stg i’m still drawing regularly umm i’ve been watching akane banashi each week it’s so charming
i love him dearly. i want to explore him characteristically.
I'm going to tell this story again because I think it's hilarious.
When I was in grad school working on my fiction writing MFA, a friend of mine, John, came to class one day talking about this book that had just been published and someone he knew recommended, saying it had an interesting premise.
The rest of us went out and bought the book, read it over the weekend, and were discussing it the next week. I mentioned that I liked how brutal it was in satirizing nostalgia for consumption, and that it was refreshing to see someone lampoon that impulse in post-boomer generations. My classmates all had similar thoughts.
In the end, we all agreed that, while a bit heavy-handed, Ready Player One was a pretty good satire piece. We all moved on and didn't really think about it again.
Fast forward five or six years later, and a friend I'm talking to (might have been @miss-prince actually) says something to me about Ernest Cline being a cringey hack.
"Wait, the guy who wrote Ready Player One? But that was such a pointed piece of social criticism about nostalgia pandering?"
"...What?" my friend says. "RPO wasn't critical of the nostalgia porn. It was entirely sincere."
"That can't be true. What would the point even be if it was just about how cool the 80s were?"
"Exactly. The book doesn't have a point beyond being shallow masturabatory fantasy."
They then linked me to some interviews, where it became increasingly clear that Cline was, in fact, earnest.
This whole thing is just so funny to me. A whole class of writers, many of us really skilled, were convinced this dumb slop novel that was using "gunters" unironically was in fact satirizing everything it depicted, because otherwise, why would it exist? The possibility it might just be barfing up scenarios the author thought were cool didn't even occur to us, because we were all people who took writing seriously, and assumed if you bothered to write something, you had something to share or communicate beyond surface aesthetics.
Part of me believes that if you read the book through that lens, it's still a semi-competent warning about the coming deluge of Gen X/older millennial nostalgiabait that was on the horizon in the early 2010s.
It also makes me wonder if someone else out there in an MFA or game design program played YIIK and assumed it was doing All That for a greater narrative purpose.
Anyway, I don't know what the moral here is beyond "you will always be at the mercy of your biases" and "death of the author is very real and powerful."
this is the kind of greed they talk about in the bible
just because someone can articulate their point better doesn’t make them right, it makes them articulated.
and you aren’t stupid for having trouble articulating yourself.
At Toba aquarium in Japan, after closing time, some clever little otter pups help their grandpa tidy up their toys. As a reward, he gives them ice cubes
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