OK so I wasn't supposed to answer this because frankly your actions since October where pretty hurtful and each time I tried to address them you either turned everything into a joke or if a serious approach was taken - you suddenly disappeared but you are not so nice as you make yourself out to be so I'm just gonna provide a list of things you did without asking for consent beyond one vague for an rp line
Which resulted in you writing:
A thing you know *I* personally did not approve of as Val's demisexuality (that I told your about 4 separate times) was part of myself.
I am stressed and my hands are shaking and I am not a native speaker so this will be chaotic.
You showed predatory behaviour towards Erin's characters and once you scratched your itch, you basically got bored with the AUs, leaving us to pick up the metaphorical pieces. And a reminder - we are all neurodivergent and treated this things seriously and it was emotionally taxing.
This is a line you gave about another person' character (the one who's AU story line you dropped after fucking him).
When I tried to - in character - in the RP explain to you why your actions were wrong, you just fucked off EACH TIME.
Another example of questionable behaviour, which both Erin and I dropped on the sheer fact that it made us uncomfortable after the previous situation:
You wrote lactation kink and posted it (i give you that - privately) BEFORE asking for my consent, and when it was already noticeable I am awkward and don't deal with peer pressure
You constantly belittled my characters. You said yourself that "Miasma is motherly" but you never put down any other character on the server. Whenever I tried to address that - you stopped responding (and being offline, t was hard to say if you were gone or just not responding).
This is a list of things you did in RP only:
I have been crying and depressed since fucking October and almost deleted the whole server a few times because each time I tried to gently approach the subject you constantly either:
said "Levi is just a little shit"
said "Levi is in his healing era" - while never considering that maybe we (or I) need some healing too
And you know what's the worst thing I'd probably bite my teeth and tried to ignore how blatantly unpleasant you were (and I have screenshots but also this affects some other people I do not want to bring into this) but the last thing you did?
This is about Erin's character. Erin, who invited you back to RP on my wish and who did nothing to you. And you made them cry with this and you never not even once stopped or came back to think that hey, maybe this was uncalled for. And we gave you a few days to do that.
So yes, we did not talk with you about kicking you out because you were never online so there was no way of getting to you and the kick and ban now was simply because how fucking hurtful and despicable your actions were. And side note - Erin wanted to talk to you, but they also needed time because hey - there is a lot of stressful fucking things happening in the US so the priorities are somewhere else.
oh an another one when Levi was being sexually aggressive towards Val and she got angry (because I got uncomfortable) and then you had him call her a whore?
4 times talking how Val's demisexuality was part of me and her being at the age she is being significant to my own understanding to myself. And it was not a talk with your present, it was a conversation that you have participated in.