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cherrylaine

MINORS GET OFF MY BLOG

woolwildflower

Leafling Bandana

Find the pattern here

This designer is delightfully fairycore, and should definitely be checked out for whimsy

kropotkindersurprise

barbie-verse

Heated Rivalry Twitter AU Masterpost

Links to just the memes without the commentary! If you want the full thing plus behind the memes thoughts check out the tag

barbie-verse

heated rivalry twitter (32/?) lily: post boyfriends pre husbands

drawballa

Sleepy boys 💤

pjharvey

we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word

nancywheelesbian

hating on female characters who get in the way of our m/m ships is out. hating on male characters who get in the way of our f/f ships is in. Jonathan Byers square up

passerinearts

When it comes to chronic illnesses, mental illnesses, and disabilities, I've noticed that a lot of able-bodied people either don't take names seriously, or don't understand and ask you to explain what it is to them.

Now, if you have any kind of disability, you know it's fucking annoying go have people make you explain something over and over again, or have people go "oh, you have X? You mean, like the [awful stereotype] thing?"

So, I have realized recently that being Vague As Shit is great for making people leave you the hell alone.

I have autism and anxiety, and with that comes the symptom of selective mutism. If you don't know what that is, Firefox is free. But I had an episode where I couldn't speak today in one of my classes, and knew I would have to explain it to my partner and probably my professor.

This usually goes with me writing that I can't speak, them asking why, me saying selective mutism, and them asking me what that is. Then I have to painstakingly write out an explanation. And, obviously, I'm tired of this. So I tried something new. When he asked, I simply told him I couldn't speak, and when he asked if I physically couldn't or just didn't want to, I just opened my mouth and unleashed the terrifying, awful, broken stuttering that comes out when I try to speak while mute.

His response was "OKAY OKAY OKAY YOU CAN STOP NOW" and he did not question me for the rest of class, and even explained to the professor what was wrong when she tried to make me popcorn read.

This also works on doctors. When I tell doctors I have PCOS, POTS, or hEDS, they usually hear "oh the crazy women self diagnosis disabilities" and treat me accordingly. So, instead I drop unhinged symptoms until they leave me alone.

"Yes, my last menstrual cycle started on December 12th, 2025 and ended January 28th, 2026." "I have experienced several events where I have passed out randomly, yes." "My hip has subluxated six times in the past week."

It's like in the principles of writing horror. If you name and describe the problem, it's easier for people to minimize and ignore. Don't let them. You live with this fucking bullshit every day. Let your symptoms haunt people. They don't need to know everything about you. Besides, it makes them treat you better than when you give them names.

revvethasmythh

and i had to wonder.......was it even possible for fictional characters to be friends and coworkers with each other? or could we only exist in a world where all dynamics are processed through the lens of the nuclear family?

peachdoxie

poll time because I'm curious

when a vampire bites someone's neck, what side do you automatically imagine it being on?

left side (victim's pov)

right side (victim's pov)

it's random

i'm Nosferatu/show results

Voting ended onMay 17

the-stray-liger

"If you don't use AI you're gonna be left behind" I was so productive in my first 3 months at my job I had 2 separate meetings asking me to PLEASE slow down without using AI once, not even for grammar checking. YOU bettet start keeping up with ME bitch boy

kosmogrl

how it feels when one of your hyperfixations comes back and stronger than ever

ilynpilled

how it feels when one of your hyperfixations comes back and stronger than ever

pulim-v

how it feels when one of your hyperfixations comes back and stronger than ever

ok-notgood-probablybad

I want to tattoo this on my face

clownifornian

Corroded Coffin’s Rules For A Successful Tour:

Steve must be there 24/7 to keep Eddie from going off the rails in grief of not having his boyfriend around.

Refer to Rule #1.

nat-20s

You can replace [ACTIVITY YOU ENJOY] with [SCROLLING] but watch out. This sucks bad 👍

nat-20s

Some things about this post since getting quite a few notes:

1. If you see this post, highly recommend taking it as an opportunity to set a timer for 15 minutes and switch over to ACTIVITY YOU ENJOY. if after those 15 minutes, you want to go back to scrolling, that's okay!

2. Huge shout out to this popping up in my notifs often, bc I do go back to activity.

3. I think there are times where scrolling is fine. Right now, for example, I'm being connected to a machine for two hours to donate plasma and platelets. Yes this is a brag but it is also a time where scrolling is one of the few things I can do. (Though I will probably also read or watch something on phone lol)

wizard-council-bureaucrat

hmmm, this seems to be some kind of curse breaking spell… be free ye reader

cosycryptid

Eddie being alive and in hospital throughout the events of season 5 and everyone trying their best not to stress him out when shit starts going down again because he's still recovering. Everyone except Steve 'what are you talking about, he ate Mews?' Harrington, who's terrible at lying or just doesn't pick up the hints that the rest of them are doing that.

So Eddie's just there all concerned asking questions about what's going on like: "I heard they brought the Wheelers in last night. What happened? Is everything okay?"

And everyone else tries to come up with some lie about how they're fine, they just had a little accident while driving, but they're both alive and doing well. But Steve is looking at them like they've lost their minds.

"What are you talking about? They were attacked by a demogorgon."

Dustin and Robin look some sort of mixture of panicked and betrayed.

"STEVE!"

Steve just continues on. "Nancy's little sister Holly is missing somewhere in the Upside Down right this second."

Eddie appreciates that Steve is honest with him. He's pretty much the only one Eddie trusts to tell him the truth at this point since the rest of them tried to convince him at first that Max hadn't visited because she was on an extended vacation. This time though, part of him wishes he didn't know. He stares at Steve in horror.

Steve seems to realise that Eddie is freaking out and tries his best to comfort him.

"They didn't die though. And I'm sure we'll figure out something to get Holly back. We managed with Will and he seems fine. Don't worry about it."

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