Everything sucks and the world is beautiful. I find joy in the quiet moments of moonlit darkness.
Introduction below
Hello friends. I'm GothGenderBreach, formerly Thejoysofdessert, or TJoD. You can also call me Aries. I'm a 30-something disabled nb lesbian woman and feedist. I live with almost two dozen physical and mental disabilities that make my daily life very challenging and painful.
Much of what I write here are vents and rants. Often personal stories or the little joys I find in life, too. I try to exercise my noticing-warmth-and-cozy-feelings muscles and share them here.
Please feel free to send messages or asks. I've been around the block. Happy to share and talk about anything I'm qualified to talk about.
Please do not send me fundraisers or GoFundMes. I do not have the bandwidth for them.
My interests:
Magic: the gathering
Mtg commander/EDH
Ttrpgs, especially OSR
Tabletop game system design
Architecture
Forests and the natural world
Cemeteries
Any other places I can commune with nature
Mobility aids
Feedism and it's many aspects and intersectional communities
Off-grid living
Cats :3
Mental health and well-being
Mindfulness















