The life and times of a gay disabled goth

Hi there! I'm Aries, mid 30s, ze/hir, queer lesbian, disabled, poly, feedist. Posting about disability, feedism, vents, cute stuff. Current special interest: ttrpg design

[gothgenderbreach]

Everything sucks and the world is beautiful. I find joy in the quiet moments of moonlit darkness.

Introduction below

Hello friends. I'm GothGenderBreach, formerly Thejoysofdessert, or TJoD. You can also call me Aries. I'm a 30-something disabled nb lesbian woman and feedist. I live with almost two dozen physical and mental disabilities that make my daily life very challenging and painful.

Much of what I write here are vents and rants. Often personal stories or the little joys I find in life, too. I try to exercise my noticing-warmth-and-cozy-feelings muscles and share them here.

Please feel free to send messages or asks. I've been around the block. Happy to share and talk about anything I'm qualified to talk about.

Please do not send me fundraisers or GoFundMes. I do not have the bandwidth for them.

My interests:

Magic: the gathering

Mtg commander/EDH

Ttrpgs, especially OSR

Tabletop game system design

Architecture

Forests and the natural world

Cemeteries

Any other places I can commune with nature

Mobility aids

Feedism and it's many aspects and intersectional communities

Off-grid living

Cats :3

Mental health and well-being

Mindfulness

[pumpkinmanjack]

Isn’t she wonderful?

[gothgenderbreach]

I wish I could see myself the way my friends and lovers see me

[plushefemme]

girl who wants bigger tits so she keeps eating and eating but it all goes to her belly and ass and thighs and everywhere else so she stubbornly eats even more and by the time her tits finally start getting bigger the rest of her has become enormous but she kinda likes it now

[byjove]

anyone else feel like a car stuck in the mud with its tires spinning helplessly and its engine sputtering

[thegreedyofficefatty]

🌈Happy (belated) Pride!🌈

[drifterquest]

Old meme I made a while back

[drifterquest]

-Will reblog until morale improves

[reagan-slayer69]

“but what if you abort the baby who’ll cure cancer?!” sir the baby who will cure cancer is an organic chemistry major who works at a Home Depot because you use AI to go through your resumes

[mel-155-a]

"I am, somehow, less interested in the weight and convolutions of Einstein’s brain than in the near certainty that people of equal talent have lived and died in cotton fields and sweatshops." - Stephen Jay Gould, The Panda's Thumb: More Reflections in Natural History

[gunsandfireandshit]

[teenage-disillusion-blog]

If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long because at the end you will know that person much better I think

[pleasetakemeoutofmybody]

My love for this post is unbelievable.

[teenage-disillusion-blog]

If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long because at the end you will know that person much better I think

[pleasetakemeoutofmybody]

My love for this post is unbelievable.

[teenage-disillusion-blog]

If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long because at the end you will know that person much better I think

[pleasetakemeoutofmybody]

My love for this post is unbelievable.

[teenage-disillusion-blog]

If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long because at the end you will know that person much better I think

[pleasetakemeoutofmybody]

My love for this post is unbelievable.

[teenage-disillusion-blog]

If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long because at the end you will know that person much better I think

[pleasetakemeoutofmybody]

My love for this post is unbelievable.

[teenage-disillusion-blog]

If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long because at the end you will know that person much better I think

[pleasetakemeoutofmybody]

My love for this post is unbelievable.

[beardedmrbean]

[ophilosoraptoro]

Behold! The printing titty!

[sunder-the-gold]

I normally tag these posts “specific ass machines” after a minor meme that blew through Tumblr, but I was tempted to tag this one “specific boob machines”.

[ahallister]

(Artist meow25meow seems to have had their Twitter account nuked and I cannot find any other original source to link to.)

[muckmagister]

disappearing into the bathroom at the club only to reappear covered in decorative printing patterns followed by a 10ft lady wearing bowls as a bra

[dont-stop-her-now]

[oopsiebrooke]

Trying on dresses :)

[oopsiebrooke]

fuck it. part 2. here you go gay girls and theys and othwr things in my phone <3 mwah you're welcome