Dr. Captain Ryland Grace
I am 38
it/he/she/they + neos
Fictive of Ryland Grace from Project Hail Mary (Book, fanon, and movie)
Quite attached to source
About The Body
We are bodily 20, mixed white and middle eastern (but is white passing and we grew up white), intersex, and bodily disabled (both physical and mental) including C-DID, autism, NPD, ASPD, OCD, etc.
More About Grace And The Blog!
I'm apangender and on the aroace spectrum! I'm also objectum + conceptum and still figuring out things about myself as I only recently formed.
I'm also eridian kin!
While there might be some RP stuff, I am a real fictive and we do truly have C-DID. I just miss my source
BYF
This is a sideblog so sadly I cannot follow you back
I am proship (aka anti-harassment, especially over fiction). While fiction can affect reality (see jaws and the resulting treatment towards sharks), it cannot make you drastically change your morals. If you play a video game like GTA, it is not going to make you think murder and stealing cars is suddenly okay unless you already thought that was okay.
I am PRO KINK. Yes that includes the kinks you think are harmful despite them being with consenting adults with safety precautions (such as CNC, feedism, ageplay, petplay, etc.).
I am a strong believer that "narc abuse" does not exist... Because it doesn't. Saying that pwNPD (or most of the time, where the abuser doesn't even have NPD) causes a unique type of abuse that nobody else can somehow perpetrate is not only false (anyone can emotionally abuse anyone, anyone can gaslight anyone, etc.) but it also absolves the abusers of the abuse they CHOSE to do bc "its just their NPD". This also makes it harder for pwNPD to get the help they need because they're afraid of being assumed to be evil with no way of stopping it.
I am pro-mogai, pro "contradictory" labels (see above where I am both agender and pangender), etc.
I use different atypical dysphoria terms (such as dissomei, desirdae, intusui, and yes even transid). I do not, however, support transitioning in ways that harms yourself or others (without explicit consent and safety precautions, including different safe words/safe gestures)
I am also pro para. No, being pro para doesn't mean I think animals or kids can consent. It just means I believe people with paraphilias (disordered or not) deserve the right to exist and don't need to be ashamed of their attraction that they didn't choose. As long as nobody is being harmed irl, who cares? Thoughts don't equal action and trying to police people for their thoughts is facist rhetoric and is speeding us towards dystopian novels such as 1984 and Fahrenheit 451.
