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some of you didn’t grow up hearing queer used as a slur and it shows
“just move to twitter”
hey pinknews! fuck you
what even is this
Wow….this is woke
Hey this is kinda misleading to post by itself? Its from an article titled 11 crazy studies about being gay?
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[handwritten in yellow and purple: “I don’t get what the lgbt community can do for you”]
This is an example of hate.
okay, but how though? you can’t just declare something to be hateful and not explain how, nothing on this blog explians how any of this is hate? if you don’t explain how it’s hate/harmful to the ace community how do you expect us to stop doing it?
ALSO - please provide reciepts? who said the stuff on this blog? or did you just make it up?
[handwritten in yellow and purple: “I don’t get what the lgbt community can do for you”]
This is an example of hate.
okay, but how though? you can’t just declare something to be hateful and not explain how, nothing on this blog explians how any of this is hate? if you don’t explain how it’s hate/harmful to the ace community how do you expect us to stop doing it?
calling exclusionists te/rfs bc we agree with them that cishet aces arent lgbt is such a false equivalency??? like I agree with ter/fs on the fact that women are opressed by men does that make me a Te/rf?
no it doesn’t, as I’m not agreeing with them on the key issues that make them t/er/fs in the first place (ie I believe that transwomen are women and do face misogyny)
yall…..we’re gonna be okay. we’re gonna get a new family–a found family–who loves and respects us. we’re gonna become the people we want to be, and present the way we want to. we will find happiness, even if we have to fight tooth and nail for it. we always have and we always will, because we are resilient beyond belief. i love yall, stay strong
the comments in this are fucking disgusting. honestly op go fuck yourself, you’re a piece of shit. “if you don’t realize pansexuality and bisexuality are the same thing then i don’t want you touching my posts”
obviously you were too stupid to look up the definitions of them because they’re COMPLETELY. DIFFERENT.
“aroaces reblogging my posts i get it you’re homophobic just call me a faggot already” you absolute bile cesspool. don’t fucking pretend to be supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community when you say shit like this. maybe if you took your head out of the deep dark depths of your tight asshole, you’d realize the A in LGBTQIA+ stands for ASEXUAL/AROMANTIC. it’s in the fucking acronym, you moron.
P an·sex·u·al
panˈsekSH(əw)əl/Submit
adjective
1.
not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.
bi·sex·u·al
ˌbīˈsekSH(o͞o)əl/Submit
adjective
1.
sexually attracted to both men and women.
so nice try at trying to be all “ohh we’re gonna be okay i love you all blah blah” because fuck you, you’re a two faced ignorant jerk. you don’t have a right to be talking about any form of respect when you can’t even be a decent enough fucking human being to not shit on other people identity’s. you’re a hypocritical, laughable, pathetic dickwad.
i hope an aromantic pansexual punches you in the teeth.
you sound a little tilted buddy
You're a former inclusionist? What made you change your mind?
ive done a loooooooong ass post on this before (i think it should be tagged as ask) but basically my reasons for being an inclusionist were flimsy at best and once i questioned them i changed
unpopular opinion- the argument “not all bi ppl are sga” is only valid when used by nb people
hi as pride month draws near for june reminder that cishet aces/aros are not LGBT and don’t belong in our spaces
And like, just a reminder that people like op are the people I don’t want to share my spaces with.
Every time I see an exclusionist on here and I click their profile they’re like 17 or 19 or maybe 21 at best.
And that’s fair- it’s not like people that age can’t have opinions or be right, they’re people.
But when I think about how long it took me to work out my own damn sexuality, gender, and all that crap, and how gently I stepped once I realised I was queer, and how much listening to people I did to see who the hell was out there…how much I am STILL learning about people who have different experiences…
…it feels really odd to see people this young being so secure in their belief of who should be excluded from the community.
Not how to support and include, to help and support, but how to exclude.
Like…being confident in your own sexuality at 19? Fuck yeah, good for you, I’m happy you had a better chance and an earlier start than I did.
But… telling other people they’re not queer enough to be in ‘your’ space?
Your space? Not mine anymore? Huh.
I’m over here at 35 still listening and learning and trying to understand everyone’s perspectives, discovering that sexuality is even more complex and nuanced than I know…and all these people barely out of their teens are talking like they know everything there is to know about being LGBT, ever. Like it’s all been written down, stamped, sealed, confirmed by some Authority.
Mmmm. No. Just… have an ounce of humility. Try gaining some perspective, please.
You haven’t lived long enough to even really listen to real life aces, to really think about what LGBT means. I don’t mean this as an ageist insult, I just really think that this kind of shit deserves TIME- hell I know it deserves time and thought because I am STILL unlearning bad assumptions and behaviours, and STILL meeting people who define themselves outside of the frame that I was once taught meant ‘LGBT’. And you, a teen raised in a world that’s still pretty fucking homophobic and doesn’t recognise half of what the LGBT community itself has taken years to acknowledge, you think you know it all?
Because you’re online? While you’re here, read some posts where ace people talk about how they’re treated. Forget semantics for a while: read the experiences. I’m online too, I have been for some time. Doesn’t make me right, but experience is of some value. Experience in listening to queer people who aren’t quite like me, that is, in trying to understand how I am similar, instead of trying to figure out how they do not belong. In how people rework things, figure out how they can be less harmful, more inclusive, more representative of all those who are marginalised. See, Q is queer but also often Questioning. It’s still important to let people be Questioning, there is an astounding amount of queerphobia in the world and we are NOT done working out the labels. We may never be. Not so long ago, the T in lgbt was under question. Bisexuals are still being excluded. So I’m being told I don’t matter by people who weren’t even born yet when I realised I wasn’t straight. They’re skipping right over all the reflection and going straight to self-affirmation by exclusion.
Which, again- if you are born into a world where you never have to question your identity, oh good grief I hope that’s real for everyone some day. But we’re not there yet, yanno? And I resent being told that after all these years of soul-searching and careful, very careful questioning of whether I belong and how I can be a good member of the community, people arrive so 100% certain of their claim to being LGBT that the first thing they do is try to kick others out.
tl;dr I was here first and I’m not amused.
My general feeling when These Kids start yelling about who does or doesn’t Belong in the collection of the broken, hurt and strange that is the queer community:
ANYWAYS cishet ace/aro’s aren’t lgbt and these fools can go outside
How stupid and insensitive do you have to be in the year of our lord 2018 to STILL refer to the LGBT community as “strange”
also if you’re that old get off tumblr
so??? is he straight?? or bi??? or??
London pride is quite good, I recommend go to tralfger square because they have a big stage with loads of acts on and a bar and it's free entry.
:( im on holiday june 7th this year but a load of my friends are going
why
just why
Anyway i just checked their site and they have two different terms for “gentiltalia repulsed ace” and use the labryss/black triangle for the main lesbian identity
why
just why
No lesbian flag lmao
im π-sexual
Omg I just noticed the bisexual flag is also missing
Y’all this is literally meant for lesser known sexualities so ofc the bi and lesbian flags aren’t gonna be there
(and the “pi sexual” flag stands for polyamory) so ,,
“lesser known identities” yet the rainbow and trans flags (arguably the most recognisable symbols of our community) are present??
Jsjsjsjsj I go to reading pride every year and see that stall and yeah :/ but tbh most of reading pride is bad so not surprising
frghjkjjikkk I was gonna go last year with a friend and i feel like i dodged a bullet
stil wanna go to a pride though
why just why