am lactose intolerant lol

[miamlsunshine]

[grouchydairy]

Stress can look like a lot of things, but for me, it manifests in the form of anything and everything related to digesting. I get nauseous but also hungry (???); my mouth becomes dry.

#stress

[grouchydairy]

soft pretzels, sprinkled with specks of garlic powder, reminds me of malls.

#malls

[grouchydairy]

I'm a feminist. And, the way I wrote about my partner's journey being declined a vascetomy twice because we chose to be child free (while men who have become parents were able to get them at the same age), and the way all of the responses were like "fuck men" "this isn't real" "boohoo let's not pretend that men have it hard" It really hit me, because if I, aligned with feminist values and fully understanding where the pain comes from but also bewildered that we can't talk about men's health issues at all without it being assumed to be an opposition to women's health issues... other people probably react by cementing their values in the other direction. I didn't tone police because I understand the pain, but I still wanted to note this because I make 99% of almost every post about feminism and women's issues, and this is just a post that I made to highlight the one instance where it's not UNIQUE to gender, but rather to this imposition of "family values", and it was responded to as if it could not exist, because for it to exist, it would dismantle some kind of structure we already have. It doesn't. I think about this a lot as I move forward my own activism.

time capsule: 20245

[grouchydairy]

This tackles whether the barrier right now is emotional fatigue or physical fatigue.

#productivity

[grouchydairy]

[ To My Inner Child ] To my inner child, may we find rest, may we find time to create and explore and learn -- to never stop satisfying that curiosity.

#Lucy Dan (Tiny Poem from the Pandemic)

[grouchydairy]

I feel really full.

TIME CAPSULE: mundane life updates

[grouchydairy]

Questions: When something happens to you, do you feel pressured to forgive? What is your usual process of forgiveness? Do you feel like it works effectively to help support you in managing and processing your emotions? In what ways have you pushed someone else into forgiveness by default?

#reflection

[grouchydairy]

Either way, the relational aspect of this allowed writers to genuinely connect, providing value for everyone who hopped in, either to share pieces about themselves or to read about others.

#WritingCommunity

[grouchydairy]

Reminding myself that there is an end point to this all, and that I will finish this, and that I will move on from this altogether.

Lucy Dan in the shittiest part of writing her dissertation

[grouchydairy]

If you want to keep a secret, you must also hide it from yourself.

#1984

[grouchydairy]

Rows of sweetened carbs bring joy to my eyes and nose, taste buds rejoicing.

#poetry

[grouchydairy]

I started a discord just for myself so that I can keep lists (e.g., grocery lists, chore lists, ideas) on the go, while I'm on the SAME APP as talking to other people and can just switch back to them if I forget.

lucy dan // drop a fave but creative tip in the time capsule to help others?

[grouchydairy]

In Pandora’s box, she unleashed the world’s worst pains but also the coping mechanism: Hope.

#pandora's box

[grouchydairy]

Sticking with this default led me to feel overwhelmed and burnt out, feeling like I had to cling on to all this work by default. I didn’t. There was a way out.

#essentialism

[grouchydairy]

What really touched my heart was what happened after all of this chaos, the resolution. Jane sharing that her wedding vows, her feelings, her relationship with Michael comes down to feeling safe when she is around him. She shares that typically, she’s the one imposing structure and making sure that others around her are doing well; that she can’t relax when she’s with others.

#JaneTheVirgin

[grouchydairy]

All of these details happened in the background because the focal point of the story was how Ponyo used her magic to enlarge the kid’s toy boat and how they were sailing on the boat to find everyone. The fish were just in the background.

#quotes