the Pleasure is mine

18+. wlw. switch. happily taken/taking.

[mistressag0ny]

[reassurance]

[justineportraits]

Anna Tsubaki Tangled up

[femme-4-butches]

“Her Finger On My Pulse” by Michele Serchuck, On Our Backs, April-May 2000.

[miscling]

the whole 'kink is just sexy roleplay' defence is a good first step, but like, it's not always roleplay. people are doing kink for real, and are making things as true and real as they can in real life. 'it's just sexy roleplay' is what you teach the unitiated so that they don't think they're witnessing abuse or try to emulate it without realising the weight of it.

sometimes someone really actually owns their sub

sometimes someone is actually raped and coerced

sometimes someone has been brainwashed completely

sometimes someone is getting fully beaten up

sometimes the dynamic doesn't end at the end of a scene

the kink scene is full of people doing kink for real. it's not roleplay and it's all consensual and you can't stop them and the more you try the more you make what they're doing dangerous by cutting them off from education, safety materials, and community support.

and if you want you can join in. you don't have to treat kink as something you roleplay at for a couple of hours at the weekend, or that you can only do in chatboxes online. if you really want, you can make it everyday and normal for you.

[queeranarchism]

#i actually really dislike the roleplay framework#even and especially as an introductory mode of thought #it encourages a limited view of consent and divorces people from the consequences of their actions #and roleplay can be significant! roleplay can be edgeplay! roleplay can push your boundaries and leave you feeling empty and broken #how do you expect to care for yourself and others if you don't think what you're doing is real #i see the applications of the argument. but i hate seeing people actively involved in kink using it to inform their risk and consent

Yeah, this. I've also seen people use it to dismiss genuine experiences of violated consent.

"I thought I was engaging in some sexy rape roleplay until my partner actually raped me" type of situations

or "Every time my partner and me have an argument, the next scene we play is so much more cruel and painful, so now I no longer feel safe challenging my partner on things. "

If a whole community is invested in the idea that it's 'just roleplay', they're not going to be ready to recognize that real things can happen that someone doesn't want done to them and that there isn't always a clear 'this is the moment my consent was violated' moment when that happens but it still needs to be taken just as seriously as consent violations in a vanilla setting.

[lesbicarj]

[anotherlesbianandwhat]

xxx

[tgirl-thucydides]

@kenzie_flick

[greenfinchg-illustration]

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[chcrrybabyy]

"needy desperate sub" this and "whiny whimpering sub" that. I want my dom to whine and whimper and be desperate to fuck me. like I want them to need me so bad they'll hold me down and fuck me while they moan in my ear and tell me how good I am for taking it and how I'm being so perfect for letting them use my body to get off. I want them to be a completely desperate.fucking.mess. while still being the dom and being in charge. I just want them to be needy about it.

[forsapphics]

Original poster for Le frisson des vampires (The Shiver of the Vampires) (1971)

[manicpixievamipre]

by Alessandro Biffignandi

[tooesoteric2tboy]

wow, your tits are so cute. You should show em to me. I mean if you want, yeah just pull down your top, that’s so hot. Can I touch them, don’t worry I’ll be gentle. How’s that feel, good ? I can tell, you’re fucking humping my leg like a dog, no it’s okay, it’s just that now I’m gonna wanna see you cum now. You’re leaking right through your panties oh my god, what’s even the point of wearing them then ? Oh you like the way they feel against your hole ? What are you a slut ? Yeah, say it then, say you wanna be a slutty girl for me. God you’re easy.

[desperatedyke]

study date but my cunt is stuffed with a remote control vibrator u turn on whenever i try to talk so u can laugh at how i’m such a dumb pathetic slut who can’t even answer easy questions because my brain is leaking out my cunt

[sinister-femme]

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[collectivenothingness]

the only grind I respect is girls grinding against each other or something. like whatever the mortar and pestle get up to

[blue-willow-tree-deactivated202]

In the mood to bully someone in a "I know this is making you wet" way

[goredaddytext]

getting her so worked up that she can't control herself anymore and starts dry humping your thigh.