[alwayskeepingit100]

I will tell my daughter, don’t ever beg for someone’s time. Don’t ever beg for someone’s attention. And don’t ever beg for someone’s love.

[whatdayisitanyways]

People are all for trauma victims and Support You™️ if your scared meek and mild but the second you're mad and violent you are Toxic and Crazy

[13ghostz]

[deactivated-inactive-deactivate]

Lol can we please have one positivity post for cluster B disorders without some jackass in the comments adding in how much they hate narcissists? Tell it to your therapist, Karen, we don't care.

[bireaucracy-archived]

genuinely i hope that all the people who reblogged this fucking rot.

[bireaucracy-archived]

"wanting to fuck an ugly dude should land you in psych ward" fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck OFF you absolute waste of human skin, all the people who think they're cool and good and anti ableism and thought this post was funny should be slapped

[guiltyiove]

Not to psychoanalyze myself to hard, but lately I feel like the reason I spend so much time feeling anger towards people who disrespect people personality disorders I don’t have is because standing up for people with bpd means telling myself that I’m not a bad personality for having bpd, and I don’t feel ready to admit that. And that’s terrible. The last thing I want is to throw people with bpd under the bus because of my own insecurity. It’s not like I’m not insanely passionate about acceptance for all PDs because I am, but I know accepting myself is just as important. Theoretically at least.

[paintmybanistersblue-deactivate]

I just looked this up and..... guess what !

[dickssociation]

we feel it. we feel it all the time in our cores & never really stop feeling it... BUT we also feel the batshit crazy joy that borderlines alone can feel. if you haven't had those moments that feel like lyrics from a song that's too beautiful to be about real life, please keep looking for them. they will come. if you already have some stashed away, please keep looking for more. they will come and you'll be so very grateful, even just for right then, that you are able to feel happiness with such overwhelming intensity. the joy will come too - please keep looking for it.

[animatedtext]

[cheaphalloweencostume]

not to get too deep on main but did anyone else have such deeply rooted issues with their self worth for so long that they thought as a kid/teen that their only redeeming feature was being “low maintenance” and now as an adult you give yourself guilt pangs asking for any more than the barest minimum in virtually any relationship because asking for things might negate your only good quality which is just “doesn’t ask for things”

[splickedylit]

#you don’t believe you can be liked so you settle for being useful 

[steampowerednightvaler]

Haha ow.

[lyjerria]

as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

[satanhaus-deactivated20220217]

yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

[why-am-i-even-on-here]

Yes, and I’ve spoken to my therapist about it, who offered an explanation:

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

People for whom guilt is the default emotional response are also more likely to have low self-esteem, doubt their own experiences, and experience impostor syndrome. So, watch out for that too guys

[scribblehooves]

Daily reminder that boundaries are healthy.

[shit-im-bpd-too-now]

🎶 You are valid 🎶

[animatedtext]

[walkingdisaster02-blog]

TW Don’t kill yourself today

Don’t kill yourself today

Because your Netflix trial still has a week left

Don’t kill yourself today

Because no one else will finish off the chicken in the fridge

Don’t kill yourself today

Because I know for a fact that Starbucks is releasing a new Frappuccino sometime next month

Yes, your mother will miss you

Yes your bully will make a sappy Facebook post about how what a a wonderful person you were

And yes

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

You know that

You’ve known that

Everyone and anyone has been shoving that down your throat since they first learned what the word suicide meant

So don’t kill yourself

Until you finish your shampoo and conditioner at the same time

Don’t kill yourself

Until Doctor Who is finally cancelled

Don’t kill yourself

Until you tell someone your best pasta recipe 

Don’t kill yourself 

Because I will keep coming up with reasons for you not to

And I need you

To hear all of them

Don’t kill yourself

I love you

You’re important

It’s a bad day

Not a bad life

There is more to this

The world will keep spinning on its axis without you

But

Think of all the sunrises you’d miss

I know this sounds pointless

But when you’re sitting in front of everything deadly you own

Revising your goodbyes

There will be too much darkness 

To see anything else

But this is not about seeing anything else

This is about turning off the lights

This is about finding the bed instead of the noose

This is about giving yourself one more day

Even if it takes ten thousand of those

One more morning’s

Until

“I can’t wait for tomorrow”

This is about staying alive

Because there’s gonna be a new Marvel movie

No one should miss that

This is about staying alive

Because the future is coming 

And it’s ready for you

I don’ t need you to see it

I just need you to believe you can make it 

Until then

- Hannah Dains

[soft-robbie-vibes-deactivated20]

Everyone needs to see this. I dont care what kind of blog you run or what kind of person you are. You can take the few seconds to reblog this. I know some of my followers will need to see this, and so i will reblog for them. Even if its just one or two, they deserve to see this, and to be happy. Always reblog. Always.

[coffeeandanxiety2]

Always reblog

Someone may need this

I could have used it earlier

I repeat

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

[iguessablog]

this is really important

[cas-sauntered-vaguely-downwards]

Your cat loves you with all their little heart even if they don’t show it because they have an image to maintain as a cryptid from Hell, and they will miss you.

[johnnyjoestarrelatable]

you weren’t a “well behaved” child you had anxiety and were terrified of conflict

[johnnyjoestarrelatable]

“a pleasure to teach” on the report card meant obedient to a fault, a constant need to be perfect to keep “a pleasure to teach” on the report card, realizing you weren’t as perfect a student as you thought when school got tough, and your perfectionism and paralyzing fear of “getting in trouble” is so deeply ingrained in you that you procrastinate everything because if it isn’t perfect, you shouldn’t try at all

[adhdisgay]