I'm thinking about becoming a trans woman but there's 2 fears I keep having....
I'm worried about 1. Being accused of trying to trick lesbian women and
2. Being accused of trying to trick straight men.
Do you know anyone with similar fears pre their transition I could talk with or picked up anything from a trans friend that might help me get over this fear?
Sorry it took me a while to respond to this, I wanted to think it over in the best way possible. As for your two fears, I believe the best way to avoid such a thing is to just be honest. When I was on OkCupid for a bit, any girl I matched up with who was trans would tell me right off the bat. Is it daunting? God yeah it is, but it solves several problems when it comes to finding love:
1: If they're transphobic, you will find out VERY quickly, and you dont need that shit in your life anyway. Best to find out early before you get emotionally invested.
2: If they're cool with you being trans, great! A loving relationship should be built on trust and honesty anyway, so its great to start off the bat with something like that anyway.
BUT, remember: Terfs will accuse you of these things anyway. Because that's what they do. They're terfs, they will say things about you without even knowing your name or character. At the end of the day, You are a beautiful woman who, like every other beautiful woman, will have people talking shit simply to talk shit. As for help, I encourage any transwomen to please respond/reblog this so anon can hit you up and talk to you.
(And a last note, from someone who is not cis themselves:)
You are not tricking anyone. If the intent is not there, there is no "tricking." You are a woman, be it without surgery, E, or anything of the matter. You can not trick people because you *are* a woman. Feel free to dm me if you need any support, but I promise you this is a safe space.
Also if you are a terf and you are thinking of posting something negative: eat shit and die.
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