What happens to an INTJ if they've never had someone they trust not betray them? (including family) What happens to an INTJ who doesn't have anybody they trust?
Iâll tell you from experience what happens. You feel very alone in the world. You become cold, hard. You lose all faith in people. Stoic on the outside, depressed on the inside.
The worst is when you start to believe that nobody in the entire world can be trusted. That human nature itself cannot be trusted. That because of the innate immorality of human nature, anyone at any given moment can easily betray you, and you do not have the power to stop it. That thereâs no one on this entire planet that can be relied on indefinitely not to break you. Itâs at that moment when you lose all hope. Itâs at that moment you realize you canât form any meaningful connections with anyone. Because when you form a relationship, youâre investing in a future, not just the moment. And if betrayal is a definite outcome, then why form relationships with people? You feel infinitely alone in the world.
And then someone says âHey, I feel exactly the same wayâ. Someone going through the same thing. And you realize youâre not alone. And you gain a small bit of hope back.
And if that person has not shown up in your life yet, then allow that person be me, and I will tell you that Iâve experiencedâ and still experienceâ the same thing. Youâre not alone. Itâs difficultâ sometimes seemingly impossibleâ to place your trust in people, but if you have even one person, you can keep going.
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