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Ania (she/they) | Thirty-Something. Queer. Married. ⚢ Autistic. OCD. PTSD. Homemaker. Caretaker. Reveling in Queer Domestic Bliss. I do not have to choose between being gentle and being fierce.

[haxhustru]

📌: I am grim and fatalistic. Getting you into bed is merely an enjoyable side benefit.

Ania (she/her): Queer. Biracial (White Mom + Black Dad). Married. ⚢. Autistic. Homemaker. Caretaker. Absolutely not a Tradwife. Former Teacher. Professional Card Reader. Cat Mum. Needlecrafter. Fantasy Lover. Pursuer of Many Hobbies. Cake Decorator. Gamer (Medieval + Fantasy). Roleplayer (D&D). Casual Vintage Enthusiast. I like and follow from @slewfootwitch.

Anon messages are on temporarily disabled. Please note, however, that I will not engage with messages that are upsetting to myself or may be upsetting to others; I do not “do drama”, even if it comes to my own inbox to find me; and I don’t respond to those acting in obvious bad faith.  I do not tolerate racism, sexism, antisemitism, homophobia, transphobia, any other form of bigotry, bullying, harassment, or targeted cruelty toward others. That said, I make liberal use of the block button as a tool to curate my online experience. If you find yourself blocked, it doesn’t necessarily mean I believe you’re guilty of any of the above. Tradwives/tradfems DNI.

[a-state-of-bliss]

Magdalena Frackowiak @ Ralph Lauren Spr/Sum 2012

[izzyapricot]

"wya" my limit bro. im at my limit

[sunsbleeding]

[haxhustru]

𝓹𝓱𝔂𝓼𝓲𝓬𝓪𝓵 𝓪𝓬𝓽𝓲𝓿𝓲𝓽𝔂 𝓽𝓸 𝓪𝓭𝓭 𝓽𝓸 𝓶𝔂 𝓭𝓪𝓲𝓵𝔂 𝓻𝓸𝓾𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓮

Stretches for Neck Pain:

Chin Tucks - 2x a day, 10 reps

Upper Trapezius Stretches - 2x a day, 3 times each side

Standing Y-Stretch with Resistance - 2x a day, 10 reps

General, at Home:

3-5 20-45 minute walks a week

2-3 days of yoga or pilates

adding an extra 3,000 steps to my current daily average

General, at Gym (once I am able to drive again):

Exercise bike with resistance

Rowing machine

[wetheurban]

You are not lazy. Everything costs more, requires more, and gives less back.

You’re recovering. You’re surviving.

And you’re doing better than you think.

[haxhustru]

Cleaned up after dinner. Changed the laundry loads. Wiped down the cabinets and walls in the kitchen. Started the dishwasher. Wiped down the vanity and mirror. Did a tidy walkthrough.

[pakistaniheaux]

heart: randomly starts beating faster me: what is it what do you see

[what-marsha-eats]

[haxhustru]

I just saw my vintage coffee pot on the Dick Van Dyke Show. 😂

[haxhustru]

Glad that I wrote that recipe down for my tin. It was amazing.

[haxhustru]

Everyone has been beating me to the laundry machines this week. Which is fine. I'm not the master of the machines. But people keep sneaking small personal loads in instead of waiting until Friday night and Saturday (when I don't do any laundry) and pushing the household laundry way back until dinner time so that I'm still doing laundry until 10 and 11 pm instead of being able to let the machines run while I'm doing other chores and just fold the laundry after dinner. It's not a huge deal but it's a minor pain.

[haxhustru]

Leek and potato soup is simmering away. Yeast rolls are ready to go into the oven. Flat is clean, happy, blessed, and protected. Peace beyond measure, love beyond description.

[tordenvejr]

i don't even find perfection that interesting, like if you polish and prune something too much it can lose its soul and charm. art and people need to be a bit imperfect in order to be captivating

[divorcedzukka]

hope isn’t something you just have, it’s something you sink your teeth into like an animal so it doesn’t get away

[peachy-faery]

you are my peach, you are my plum

[haxhustru]

So, the kitchen deep clean held up all week so all I had to was tidy the bedroom and stay on top of keeping the sink clean. In a lot of pain today (but not as much as yesterday), so I ordered a few little groceries to make leek and potato soup for dinner. And now I just have to get through dinner and then wipe down the cabinets.

If it was another day and I was feeling better, I would take this chance to give the closets some attention (which they need). But it's not and I don't. So this is the best I can do.