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my therapist: “you need to unlearn the belief that failing to completely explain every statement you make will cause people to misinterpret and hate you. that’s generally not how people think, and it’s just your OCD talking.”

tumblr when you word a post slightly vaguely/poorly:

headoverheelsdownhill

if i don’t like a piece of media but it has one hard ass line i’m gonna start saying it and claim i came up with it until everyone forgets about the original

headoverheelsdownhill

i forgot about plagiarism

if i don’t like a piece of media but it has one hard ass line i’m gonna start saying it and claim i came up with it until everyone forgets about the original

#finn.txt

dorothylarouge

Holy shit lol

ezzied

NO FUCKING WAY.

the sabrina carpenter rant is somewhere deep within me and i can’t properly express it

#finn.txt

i'm back baby

#finn.txt #yes it's been 2 months. whatever

t00thpasteface

when cishet guy friends tease me about being a lesbian and ask how i "know" i'm gay i like to go "well have YOU ever had sex with a man?" and when they say no (they always say no) i go "then how do you know you're not into men?" and like... what IS it with how insecure cishet men who are scared of gay thoughts always assume they would bottom. like they talk like that's the inevitable outcome if they were to ever get bicurious. today i hit these two guys at work with a "what, are you scared?" and they frantically described to the most detailed prophetic visions of the biggest burliest bear topping them to death. which could mean nothing

t00thpasteface

guy who is confident in his hetreosexuality and/or masculinity: "i don't wanna have sex with a man because i'm not attracted to men"

guy who maybe has some things to work out somewhere in his psyche: "i don't wanna have sex with a man because i don't want some big beefy hairy gay guy to pound me and make me his bitch... i know it's gonna hurt"

untitledgoosegay

putting my killjoy voice on:

those "surprisingly graphic, do you have something to say to the class? 🧐" responses usually don't come from a place of repressed eroticism but of overt horror

The lurid, obsessive quality comes from fear and disgust. These things aren't necessarily unrelated -- the link between horror and fetish is well-documented -- but neither are they always connected.

Getting violently dominated by a caricature of a powerful gay men is something that straight men are taught to fear as the worst thing that could possibly happen to them. It's a threat to their existence and identity. These narratives are fantasies -- detailed emotionally-charged imaginings -- but they're not erotic fantasies. They're violent fantasies, in which any and all brutality is justified self-defense against an imagined possibility. And it's those fantasies, that logic, that leads to gay and trans panic murders being legally defensible.

I get that it can be funny to take these graphic fantasies as implicit admission of desire -- certainly they're easily eroticized; take a glance at PornHub -- but I think it's shortsighted to overlook that these are basically admissions of a hate crime in waiting.

willgrahamscock

you can't be 5'2 and a top

JUSTICE FOR SHORT TOPS

willgrahamscock

AND JUSTICE FOR TALL BOTTOMS

willgrahamscock

so fucking done with my graceless heart honestly i’m probably gonna cut it out and then restart

#florence and the machine #ceremonials #finn.txt

oliviawebsite

you have to be able to defend people who are receiving unjust treatment even if they annoy you even if you personally find them extremely annoying you still have to be able to stand up and say "well thats fucked up"

pusheenthenerdcat

the moral willpower required for "i hate their guts but my personal ethical standard is no xyz and i cannot set the precedent of making an exception for them" is imennse but important work

theblackparadeisdead

Does anyone else remember her

#yeah i’ll believe that

immersive experience (eating ice cream while repeating the margaret atwood quote about devouring without guilt)

#margaret atwood #finn.txt

she thinks she’s pajamas

#finn.txt #catposting

cikero

they had some of yall on zoloft at 14. man. SUE

cikero

like it’s crazy let me just alter the brain chemistry of this still developing child with drugs we don’t even have full understandings of. psychiatric patients are treated mostly by quacks judging by the way these people just prescribe anything to anybody

#i’ve uh. i’ve been on sertraline since i was 12 #and it has recently occurred to me that this may in fact be a problem

person at my school who believes themselves to be leftist said yesterday “i don’t believe in the death penalty, because death is a release, and people who commit certain crimes deserve to suffer.” and i was just like. you are a tar pit

#finn.txt #like. what?