"Be excellent to each other." -Ted Theodore Logan

My name's Dan. B positive is my blood type and that's my attitude. If you like the stuff I post follow me, ask me questions, and whatever other stuff people do on tumblr.

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Anybody want to chat?

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Anybody feel like talking?

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Does anyone else have the desire to tell the people they love how much they love them but are scared? Well don't be scared, be courageous. No one knows when their time is up and the thought of not having told the amazing people in my life I love them would be my greatest regret.

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I'm really having a hard time lately and don't want to tell the people I love because in all my 42 years I never wanted to be a burden but I'm getting to a breaking point and am not sure I can keep it up. If anyone out there reads this, I love you because you're a person who deserves to be loved and if you're having a hard time too I understand and give you love.n

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I still just love the relationship between Rand and Nynaeve.

Who does Rand think of as a role model? Nynaeve.

Who does Rand think of when he needs a grounding focus? Nynaeve.

Who is the one person who isn't one of his wives that he allows to heal him? Nynaeve.

Who does Rand trust unquestioningly to have his best interests in mind even in the midst of his mental anguish and trauma from other channelers? Nynaeve.

Who does Rand immediately think of inviting to help him *do the impossible*? No, not one or more of his wives, but NYNAEVE.

Theirs is a fantastic, but notably platonic, relationship of mutual trust and respect and I absolutely adore it. She's essentially the big sister of all the Edmond's Fielders but to Rand the most. Her entire arc is about her coming to accept that she won't always be needed to guide others - but she's wrong. There is one person who always needs her.

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I know I've already commented on this post but I just opened up Tumblr and saw this again and can't help but express again how fucking awesome this take is. Nyneave is so annoying at times but you're absolutely right. She's the rock of the Emmonds Field crew. Even with every argument or disagreement with Mat, Perrin, Rand, or Egwene she is always there for any and all of them. She continues to be the Wisdom even league's away from her town because she cares. And her growth from The Eye Of The World up to A Memory of Light might make her the best character even though she can drive me crazy sometimes.

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What do you do when you miss something so important in your life? I guess just appreciate what it is you miss but it doesn't make it too much easier. I lost my cat last year and it might seem like a silly thing but I loved that cat with all my heart and her dying in my arms on the way to the animal hospital was one of the saddest moments in my life. She was just the best cat and honestly one of the only beings I had a truly honest relationship with. She understood me like nobody else really did. I miss her so much and don't think I'll ever have that kind of connection again. I'm rambling but if anyone out there has had a similar experience and has any advice, I would love to hear it. I'm just really sad that she's gone and I'll never feel her on my lap again and it breaks my heart. I have an almost unbelievable amount of supportive and loving people in my life but Minora, my sweet cat, is almost certainly the most true relationship I have ever had. We just understood eachother. I miss you so much. She was from the moment I met her just the absolute best. She could be a bit of a bitch sometimes but she was the right kind of bitch. So strong but loving at the same time. She was an independent little lady but also just the sweetest cat. I'm crying thinking about my sweet kitten who never stopped being herself and loving all the people in her life.

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Anybody want to talk? I'm a good listener and am lonely

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𝑰 𝒘𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝑰 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 - 𝑨𝒅𝒂𝒎 💫

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I still just love the relationship between Rand and Nynaeve.

Who does Rand think of as a role model? Nynaeve.

Who does Rand think of when he needs a grounding focus? Nynaeve.

Who is the one person who isn't one of his wives that he allows to heal him? Nynaeve.

Who does Rand trust unquestioningly to have his best interests in mind even in the midst of his mental anguish and trauma from other channelers? Nynaeve.

Who does Rand immediately think of inviting to help him *do the impossible*? No, not one or more of his wives, but NYNAEVE.

Theirs is a fantastic, but notably platonic, relationship of mutual trust and respect and I absolutely adore it. She's essentially the big sister of all the Edmond's Fielders but to Rand the most. Her entire arc is about her coming to accept that she won't always be needed to guide others - but she's wrong. There is one person who always needs her.

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This is so amazing. I've read these books almost more times than I can count and while somewhere in me knew what you wrote is true, I've never really realized how true it is. Well said.

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Do you ever feel like you have no excuse to be sad but still are?

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Hope anyone out there knows that quitting something that isn't good for you is hard but well worth it. If you need to talk I'm definitely here and can't offer wisdom because I'm still struggling but I can at least understand what you're going through a little bit. Love you all. Happy 2022.

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Anybody wanna talk? I'm real down and would like a compa to talk to.

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I feel sad all the time and then I feel worse for being sad

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