I want to speak from a perspective that isn't new: abuse victim who's abuse is heavily romanticised by proshitters.
It's not hot, it's not cool, it's not anything good to sexualise horrible abuse. I don't care if it's "just roleplay" or "just a fic". I've come across so much of it while having their tags blocked. It's normalised too much.
tw mentions of incest / discussion for this next bit
I avoid talking about my trauma because these types always will sexualise it. I've seen comments on other incest victims posts that are proshitters calling them lucky. I still have to interact with my abuser a lot, because no one in my family believed me when I told them about it. And then I go online to vent, or to avoid the reality of my trauma, and there's untagged & disgusting proshitters shipping this shit, and I've annoyingly seen so many that had characters around the age I was × their sibling who's around the age my abuser was at the incident I remember.
I cannot try and find others experiences or help for it, because it's become normalized to sexualise this stuff. It's mainly the proshitters who do this about VERY UNDERAGE characters that is untagged & triggers me.
These same people typically sexualise transfems (especially as the "initiator" of those things, which is transmisogynistic as fuck), so I can't talk about the fact my abuser FITS their stupid stereotypes.
It pisses me off so much. I can't get help for my trauma, yet these assholes continue to sexualise it. I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT WAS WRONG BECAUSE THE DEFAULT THING ONLINE IS ROMANTICISING/SEXUALISING THESE THINGS.
I don't care if I sound mean anymore. I'm done having people sexualise my trauma over and over and over again. I hope people who sexualise it & make disgusting ships like this actually get hit by multiple trains.