PROSHIPPERS AND LOLICONS DNI

[sincerely-aaliyah]

ts genuinely BAFFLES me.

they’re making no sense. firstly, I, myself AM a minor. it is not dehumanizing to say “hey maybe 15 year olds on tumblr shouldn’t be engaging in sexual activities with adults.” secondly, the fact that this specifically is coming from THEM, an admitted MAP… you’re not making your case any better.

saying someone is taking away agency from minors when all they’re saying is it’s inappropriate, not to mention ILLEGAL, for an adult to ask a minor what’s the freakiest thing they masturbated to is the weirdest thing ever, HELLO? someone check their hard drive.

[hearts4ayame]

if self reporting was a person:

[anti-rq-batman-deactivated20260]

very interesting reddit ama about treating pedophiles i thought yall would be interested in

[sincerely-aaliyah]

this nigga…..

THIS YOU? THIS WAS JUST THE REBLOG BEFORE 😭😭🙏🏽💔💔

[hearts4ayame]

“you being a minor is irrelevant as i am not being inappropriate towards you”

“oh and btw i like reading and writing rape and torture” wtf are we doing here 😭

[sincerely-aaliyah]

“why don’t you like kamisama kiss?! you love romance anime’s but you hate on that?!”

the entire plot is 3 centuries old yokai falling in love with a human HIGH SCHOOL girl who suddenly becomes a land god…

[hearts4ayame]

i used to love that show until i actually started thinking about it 😭🥀

[sincerely-aaliyah]

ARE WE BEING FR?? 😭😭

[hearts4ayame]

“the most anti minor spaces out there”……. let’s use our thinking heads!!

[hearts4ayame]

“well the age of consent was 13 back in the taishō era so giyuu x tanjiro is okay and makes sense”

go ahead and leave.

[hearts4ayame]

btw, proship does not = anti harassment over fiction. that’s just one of their beliefs. anti proship does not = pro harassment. you can be anti harassment while being anti proship.

it’s like telling a democrat “you’re a republican” if they share one belief with republicans.

[hearts4ayame]

why are yall weirdos so interested in muichiro?? if you’re around his age i can understand that. but wtf are you making “aged up” nsfw fanfics of the fourteen year old boy?

there are SO much attractive adult kny characters. you can’t even name one who isn’t. unless they’re a demon. and even then, a LOT of the demons are attractive 😭 yet, seeing all of that… y’all STILL go for the underaged ones! and muichiro, the youngest demon slayer we know, is the main victim for this.

if you don’t think this says a lot about you and your character, you’re entirely wrong 😭

[hearts4ayame]

THIS ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽

[sleep-king-ao3]

Proshipper's sources: every single reputable professional ever

Anti's sources: vibes

[sleep-king-ao3]

This isn't true btw! Art therapy doesn't have to be all about suffering and misery.

There's a reason why some fetishes are formed because of trauma.

The point of "fetishizing" your own trauma is to explore it in a safe and harmless way (fiction is safe and harmless, no matter what the puritans cry), in a scenario where you are the one in control (you are in control because you are the one making up the fantasy and can stop thinking about it whenever you want)

This puritan's claim has absolutely no proof for a reason: they're making it up based on THEIR feelings, not YOURS. THEY feel uncomfortable with the idea of survivors coping in ways they don't enjoy, so they're trying to convince YOU to stop your healthy coping mechanism. It's gross.

Of course, art therapy isn't for everyone. Some people WOULD get hurt by it! But that goes with every kinds of healthy coping mechanisms.

Talk to a professional, not to some random prude on Discord. A therapist will guide you through good, healthy coping mechanisms, whether it involves making up noncon fantasies or not.

[hearts4ayame]

before i answer, just letting you know that i have a clear dni against you things. so maybe DON’T use proship tags which will attract more on my account?

and to answer, was it included in the so healthy coping mechanism to spread your romanticized incest fics online in your community that encourages minors to interact? did your therapist tell you to encourage minors to read and create your glorified pedo fics? did your therapist tell you to spread your nasty fics to ANYONE?

[sleep-king-ao3]

Yup! It's recommanded to share your art to find community and support. Obviously.

Not even mentioning the fact that not everyone can draw/write and a lot of people use other people's art to cope, again, obviously.

Ah, and proshippers don't encourage minors to interact with nsfw. Please stop making shit up, thanks! ^^

[hearts4ayame]

finding community and support by seeing drawings of kiddie porn! so wholesome and most definitely healing! (๑>◡<๑)

and yes, many of them do. don’t be one of those “well if i haven’t seen it happen, it doesn’t happen!” guys.

[hearts4ayame]

btw, saying “if it really helps you out, keep your romanticized pedophilia fanfics to yourself” doesn’t mean “don’t tell anyone what happened to you. don’t share your stories online. keep it all to yourself.”

[hearts4ayame]

THIS ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽

[sleep-king-ao3]

Proshipper's sources: every single reputable professional ever

Anti's sources: vibes

[sleep-king-ao3]

This isn't true btw! Art therapy doesn't have to be all about suffering and misery.

There's a reason why some fetishes are formed because of trauma.

The point of "fetishizing" your own trauma is to explore it in a safe and harmless way (fiction is safe and harmless, no matter what the puritans cry), in a scenario where you are the one in control (you are in control because you are the one making up the fantasy and can stop thinking about it whenever you want)

This puritan's claim has absolutely no proof for a reason: they're making it up based on THEIR feelings, not YOURS. THEY feel uncomfortable with the idea of survivors coping in ways they don't enjoy, so they're trying to convince YOU to stop your healthy coping mechanism. It's gross.

Of course, art therapy isn't for everyone. Some people WOULD get hurt by it! But that goes with every kinds of healthy coping mechanisms.

Talk to a professional, not to some random prude on Discord. A therapist will guide you through good, healthy coping mechanisms, whether it involves making up noncon fantasies or not.

[hearts4ayame]

before i answer, just letting you know that i have a clear dni against you things. so maybe DON’T use proship tags which will attract more on my account?

and to answer, was it included in the so healthy coping mechanism to spread your romanticized incest fics online in your community that encourages minors to interact? did your therapist tell you to encourage minors to read and create your glorified pedo fics? did your therapist tell you to spread your nasty fics to ANYONE?

[sincerely-aaliyah]

I hate proshippers.

I want to speak from a perspective that isn't new: abuse victim who's abuse is heavily romanticised by proshitters.

It's not hot, it's not cool, it's not anything good to sexualise horrible abuse. I don't care if it's "just roleplay" or "just a fic". I've come across so much of it while having their tags blocked. It's normalised too much.

tw mentions of incest / discussion for this next bit

I avoid talking about my trauma because these types always will sexualise it. I've seen comments on other incest victims posts that are proshitters calling them lucky. I still have to interact with my abuser a lot, because no one in my family believed me when I told them about it. And then I go online to vent, or to avoid the reality of my trauma, and there's untagged & disgusting proshitters shipping this shit, and I've annoyingly seen so many that had characters around the age I was × their sibling who's around the age my abuser was at the incident I remember.

I cannot try and find others experiences or help for it, because it's become normalized to sexualise this stuff. It's mainly the proshitters who do this about VERY UNDERAGE characters that is untagged & triggers me.

These same people typically sexualise transfems (especially as the "initiator" of those things, which is transmisogynistic as fuck), so I can't talk about the fact my abuser FITS their stupid stereotypes.

It pisses me off so much. I can't get help for my trauma, yet these assholes continue to sexualise it. I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IT WAS WRONG BECAUSE THE DEFAULT THING ONLINE IS ROMANTICISING/SEXUALISING THESE THINGS.

I don't care if I sound mean anymore. I'm done having people sexualise my trauma over and over and over again. I hope people who sexualise it & make disgusting ships like this actually get hit by multiple trains.

this is way too real.

[hearts4ayame]

do proshippers honestly think they’re winning an argument when saying “you wanna fuck us so bad” or “mmmm i just love lolisho” to antis with a dni against them?

[just-someone-whos-bi-deactivate]

Proshippers be like "You're just against my coping mechanisms!!!" and the coping mechanisms are writing rape fanfiction of a child character and their father

[ciel-rants-moved-deactivated202]

Why is the pro/anti debate even a debate?? You'd think it would be common sense not to treat pedophilia, incest or abuse in general like some cute sexy thing but here we are.

[hearts4ayame]

can proshippers stop using queer people to excuse their actions?

"well actually if you don't like me shipping siblings and pedophilic ships you hate gay people" ???😭😭💔💔

[rabiesbites]

When are proshippers going to realize that Antishippers aren't against depictions of harsh topics in media? As an antishipper I am totally okay if a story mentions S/A, pedophilia, and things like that. I probably won't read it because I am uncomfortable with descriptions of topics like that, but it's good that stories that expose awful things exist. It can help victims feel represented and understood, and expose the evil that is paraphila. Antishippers just dislike when things such as S/A are portrayed in positive ways or sexualized/fetishized. And it astounds me that this isn't a belief shared by everyone.