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she/her

[technicoloryuri]

If you're dating a trans girl, there's a good chance she's going to ask you to not throw her away or abandon her. Depending on the girl she may say it outright, or she may talk about her lowest lows and ask for affirmation, she may also frame it as kink, wanting to be owned, or kept as a pet.

If you are to love trans women, you need to say you're in it for the long haul, because otherwise you're simply a timer waiting to ring.

[ickiyurimum]

I didn't realize this was so common with trans girls. The abandonment fears have not diminished as I've gotten older, because I've experienced more abandonment. I've started trying to let people know this about me up front, because I want some sense of commitment, especially the longer a relationship goes. These are some of the things I've said to people I've been interested in.

I just have this gut fear of abandonment.

I tend to hide when I’m emotional, have my whole life. I’m not sure the last time I felt safe enough to let all my sadness out in front of someone. I think because of worries over abandonment. Like who would want to stay with me?

I have a dumb fear that anytime I share something with you, it will be one weird thing too many for you to want to date me (I have issues with abandonment)

I have a history of having stronger feelings than the other person, and if I mention my fears they seem more likely to leave me. So I usually try to not. I really do have abandonment fears, based on past experiences.

I can feel myself falling for you and it scares me, because I worry you won’t feel the same way (thanks fear of abandonment).

I’m avoiding saying the thing I’m not saying also because once I do, it will increase my attachment to you.

A lot of my blog is hornyposting, but underneath I'm a trans girl with a lot reinforced fears of people leaving me.

[memeuplift]

[the-real-seebs]

A person I know decided to push really hard for “no hitting the kids, at all”, and his wife agreed, although she’d been raised with Some Hitting and thought it was normal. And then she discovered that her child wasn’t afraid of her at all, and she could pull a hand back and the child would just giggle because that wasn’t a threat, and she suddenly realized that actually it had fucked her up so deeply that she couldn’t even see it.

Anyway, good job parenting.

[rodina3]

Some people don’t realize just how much parental abuse affects someone. Even decades later, children or not. There’s so much psychological damage and emotional damage that is so hard to undo because you were hit and yelled at when you needed love and compassion. Fuck child abusers and good on those who break that pattern.

[andewitt]

night creature

[c0denamedelta]

OC doodle dump

[dozydawn]

[boybeetles]

Someone in Glasgow please go see this for me pls. I will be there in spirit 🙏

[tinyglowingsharks]

Brief report from the flute accompaniment:

It went well! At least 100 people attended, families dogs a solid portion of Glasgow's trans community. There was a really lovely atmosphere, nice weather and a very cheerful celebratory vibe.

After short speeches from the ballhaver and the large dyke (my wife), the ballhaver was given a chupa chup and blindfolded (execution style). The balls were then duly kicked; it made a surprisingly loud dull thumping sound. She fell to the ground to loud cheers and there was a moment of silence while Taps played on the flute. The large dyke wore solovair urban hikers.

[butch-bear-arcadia]

Account from the Large Dyke.

Arrived early to find the crowd already gathering, so the kick got off to a prompt start. Following some introductions from everybody and some cheery folk music from our flautist (my wife!) we got on with the kick.

I think we got good contact, the top of my boot making a good solid noise on impact. Very good atmosphere all round, people stayed to chat for a while. Were it not January it would have been an excellent opportunity for a picnic.

10/10 queer event, would happily kick anybody in the balls in the name of community.

[noisepuppy]

Account from the ball haver

7am: the pressure is getting to me; I wake up and drink half a bottle of diet iron bru from my bedside table; roll out of bed, and psych myself up in the mirror - "you can do this my little pogchamp" I say to myself over and over until I decend into a stupor.

8am: I play an hour of Okami on steam to replenish my chi levels

9am: I look at my balls for a while

10am: I spend 20 or so minutes trying to decide what to wear before realising it's the subartic in midwinter and I'm going to have to dress for -2C° regardless of what I choose and opt of my trusty black Schott thermal padded winter flight jacket and a pair of loose, warm Uniqlo trousers to give my testicles room to breathe.

11am: crashing out, texting my friends to arange a substitute kickee, an understudy, anybody so I can just become one with the crowd and not go through with it

12am: the homies have arrived, I'm drinking redbush tea in a small cafe by the park; god is in his heaven and all is right with the world

12.15: "you must be here to watch me get kicked in the balls?"

12.40: a circle emerges, from within the circle a palpable energy focuses like a lens down unto me and I feel like I'm gonna pee my pants a little

12.50: cheers begin, several complete families with dogs arrive - more friends appear and assort themselves into a gathering of 'real heads' ready to watch my groin be dessicated by the firm lace of a women for woman woman with a foot loosed through the gates of war as Augustus saw fit the dispatch and return of his troops from far corners through the blessings of Janus.

12.55: I think I left the stove on

1pm: Short introductions are made, grace is shown, beautiful flute music accompanies the gathering

1.03pm: what is left of my dignity disappears up my inguinal canal; I fall to the ground and languish a moment. I can feel it more in my lower chest than I can in my groin but the humour and adrenaline lift me and I'm laughing on my feet again soon. I kneel for the last post.

[liberalsarecool]

The Trump administration wants it both ways.

On Saturday, it tells us that Nicolás Maduro is such a uniquely dangerous despot — so criminal, so destabilizing, so irredeemable — that the United States had no choice but to remove him from power by force. Maduro, we are told, is a narco-dictator, a human rights abuser, a menace to his own people and to regional stability.

On Sunday, the same administration will continue putting Venezuelan asylum seekers on planes and deports them back to the country that, according to its own rhetoric, was so dangerous it required regime change.

This is not just hypocrisy. It is a logical impossibility masquerading as policy.

Julie Roginsky

[3starjammies]

Sometimes the accidental trans allegory is so on the nose it's hard to believe it wasn't intentional.

There's really no other way to read this, Nano is transfem.

[sata-cable]

Visit Original Link

[glozirina]

[bass-borot]

[officialmacgyver2-deactivated20]

Some ya’ll who are younger need to google Frank Serpico and read about his time in the NYPD and what the cops did to him and attempted to do to him up until the late 90′s. He literally had to go into hiding in Italy and Switzerland and multiple times people tried to kill him. He only came back to America after the mafia (who hated the NYPD a lot, obviously) said “you’re under our protection.”

[seriously-though-wtf]

Damn, NYPD is so bad, Mafia started protecting good cops

[helila]

Confessions of a Former Bastard Cop

I was a police officer for nearly ten years and I was a bastard. We all were.

[anobeko]

👆Really really good article by the way. Feels like a good piece to show to folks you know who are still on the fence about things like police or prison abolition. Plus the pseudonym the author uses is hysterical, and he's really quite a good writer.

[subsequentlysilly]

extremely good article, please read it. at the very least read the "how to be a bastard" section, it outlines a lot of the ways cops will try to trick you

[thelostmoongazer]

The Upids <4

[beesyjimwax]

Highlights from a spur-of-the-moment braindumped aperture crossover. "The time periods do not line up at all" shhhhhhh. shhhhhhhhhh you're gonna be okay shhhhhhhhhhh

[wingeddonkey]

what if,,, what if gordon rattmann???????

[sophios-draws]

@portal-secret-santa gift for @wildyfoe! a comic set after glados saves chell. enjoy!

[onlyloversleftonline]

screenshots from my big sad GLaDOS amv so you can see them now

[glenbot]

Happy holidays @pennamepersona!! I was your pinch-hitter for @portal-secret-santa, I decided to try to do something with Chell returning to aperture!

A quick summary of what I think is happening here: After a few years on the surface, Chell goes back to aperture to find the facility experienced a critical power failure. She goes to look for a power source. She finds potatoes

"I thought I asked you not to bring those things back into my facility." "I couldn't find lemons"

She's like a compost <3

[fortunelowtier]

til that the "Cara Mia Addio" in Portal 2 (better known as the "Turret Opera"), when translated, is a full on love song in which Glados refers to Chell as "beautiful" and "dear" throughout, with Ellen Mclain saying in an interview afterwards that the song is meant to essentially be taken as "I'm going to miss you, goodbye, my beloved"

I like to think then that Cara Mia Addio was a song created by Glados in a foreign language that Chell wouldn't understand so that way she could tell her how much she meant/means to her without being too direct because she's scared of attachment

In conclusion, happy pride month to whatever the fuck they had going on