remina.

autistic lesbian feminist. not a radfem. use whatever pronouns you want. anon is turned off. i'm tired of arguing, you're not going to change my mind. carrd @ hellstarremina.crd.co

[hellstarremina-blog]

psh i should make a pinned post but i’m just gonna make this one pretty quick, pretty snappy, mostly to lead into my carrd

remina; you can call me tomie if you knew me from my older blogs too

formerly radicaltomie, so technically an active radfem since about 2018, but have been lurking for much longer

female, lesbian; i expect she/her pronouns, but i also prefer he/him pronouns

gendercrit, rad-leaning; i don’t call myself a radfem, though i do follow radfem blogs

autistic, depressed, anxious; i think i might have adhd too, but i don’t claim it due to not being diagnosed, it’s just a “hm, i think i might be” thing

white

as you’d expect, i’m a fan of horror and surrealism, although i do like other genres and topics.

my carrd’s at hellstarremina.crd.co, i explain some other stuff there

i’m not the greatest at speaking, although i’m going to try avoiding being an active participant in discourse besides reblogging it.

even so, if i say something iffy or even terrible, feel free to let me know, because i probably need to clarify it (if it’s only something i phrased in a weird way) or review and make sure i didn’t overstep or fuck up on (if it’s something terrible).

don’t follow if you espouse ableist, lesbophobic, racist, or homophobic beliefs. i have a few people in my carrd i’d rather avoid seeing as well, mostly due to the fact they participate in at least one of these things.

update (12/16/20)

if you stan jk rowling uncritically, or attempt to shout down people who are critical of what she’s written/done in the past, then i’m going to block you. there’s no reason to pretend she’s a perfect person, no matter if she partakes in our causes.

i personally agree with her opinions about trans people, and her manifesto was written in a way that makes a lot of people peak. i’m grateful for that. she has the visibility that not a lot of radical women have and is able to peak more people thanks to the influence of her name.

however, pretending that we can then ignore what jk rowling has written, said, or done previously makes us no better than TRAs who ignore what their trans idols have done before their new self-IDs. this includes the centaurs/umbridge thing, the alias “robert galbraith” being dangerously close to “robert galbraith heath”, etc.

[hellstarremina-blog]

hello ladies and gyns, i’ve returned over at @hellstarremina, so i’ll be chilling there.

[hellstarremina-blog]

do i make a second discord so i can separate out my terfy shit from my non-terfy shit or

[hellstarremina-blog]

as soon as “TERFs” started trending, i just marked it off my Explore page. rip to the TRAs who think we’d be mad about it tho.

[spidergwen-real-notclickbait]

ppl being banned permanently for misgendering???? oh my god

[lesbian-lizards]

something tells me they don’t go that hard for homo/lesbophobia...

[ms-gay-frogs]

reddit literally has rape porn but this is where they draw the line

[hellstarremina-blog]

they never go this hard on misogyny, racism, etc. in other threads, either. just trans women.

[hellstarremina-blog]

TRAs be like ''my picrew says trans rights'' and call it a day huh. it's all about being performative and showing off instead of trying to do actual help

but that's probably an essay someone more eloquent could write

[ratically]

make yourself using this picrew and reblog with your picture! here’s me 🪴

[xollii]

OP did you airbrush out the trans rights watermark on this picrew

[ratically]

No this was before the artist added that watermark lmao

[hellstarremina-blog]

i actually had to look at the picrew and yep. “trans rights” watermark was added on later, because i used this before privately.

it’s silly, won’t stop the “terven” from using it, maybe someone using the element editor in their browser will figure out a way to remove it, it’s only there to signal that the creator supports trans rights (as if including the trans flag didn’t already do that).

[hellstarremina-blog]

broke: he/him lesbian headcanons for a male character but saying they’re trans so that way they keep their penises

woke: he/him lesbian headcanons for a male character with the understanding that, actually, it’s for fun. also he’s female. has a vagina. no penis.

bespoke: he/him lesbian ocs. no penises anywhere.

[suspiciouslyhomosexual]

FKDN CB DJALAKAK???

GOOGLE SWITCHED HOMOSEXUAL WITH GAY??? i wonder what made them do that

[illalwaysbehere]

Could it be... because of the straight people who are offended by the word homosexual?

[hellstarremina-blog]

Thankfully they haven’t taken gay yet, but christ.

[howls-moving-pwussy]

good evening to all real women, terfs y’all are cis men now <3

[thatkindoffeminist]

These tags are… so horrific.

[femalepersistence]

I can’t believe someone really thinks they can go out and say “fuck abuse/rape survivors” if you slap the good old “terf” after it. OP, you absolutely vile, and I hope no survivor ever has to interact with you.

[terfinesse]

I absolutely genuinely hope op has an extremely painful death <3

[absoluteunitpussy]

reminder that tras are mras 2.0

[illalwaysbehere]

So, yeah, trans activists are literally evil and nothing will change my mind.

Like Trump levels of evil.

[shinhati]

@ all the responses to Vanessa Vokey calling her he/him/sir

So you agree? Being referred to by preferred pronouns is not a human right? You don't have to use preferred pronouns for someone you don't respect?

[dukeofdelirium]

Yknow... terfs are pretty damn illogical. They say shit like “youll never be a man” or “youll never be a woman” blah blah blah but it’s just so funny. No one is saying you can change DNA or go back in time when u were a fetus and magically develop as the opposite sex. What we are saying is you can change SO MUCH to the point where it really doesn’t fucking matter, does it? I don’t have hormone levels like a cisgender woman; my brain literally operates differently, fuck even my balance is different after transition. It’s almost like taking synthetic hormones and having sex changes alters your body. Wanna get into how hormones affect you? Here’s something: hormone replacement therapy goes so far as to actually change the way you experience a damn orgasm lmfao! So what if I’ll never be a biological man? I made my peace with that a LONG time ago, 7 fucking years ago. But guess what? I can get as close as medically possible to male through transitioning, and that has to be good enough.

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

what type of brain does a woman have, exactly?

[dukeofdelirium]

bro at this point I literally don’t even know how else to phrase to u that u shouldn’t even need a reason to treat people with basic human decency and respect lmfao. like y’all rlly think you’re feminists or something but you’re far more focused on transsexual people and it’s cause y’all just for some reason feel extremely attacked by trans people existing. the fact you’re just going out of your way to call me a woman is funny as fuck. I don’t sound like a woman, and I certainly don’t look like one, but go off queen! you can call me whatever you want, it doesn’t change the fact that I’m still transsexual and will be until the day I die lol. it also doesn’t change the fact that medically and legally speaking, my government views me as male. do you think that trans men are like... bullied into transitioning to male cause of society or because of oppression from men? lmfao! please explain to me how I was telling my parents that I was a boy when I was like 5. please explain to me how my own mother knew something was wrong with me when I was like 3. is everyone in your eyes delusional for holding the belief that transsexual people deserve human decency and respect and the ability to live happy and fulfilling lives? if so I guess you’d think all the cisgender women in my life are crazy. even if you don’t believe there’s any sort of scientific backing behind being transsexual, and that all transsexual people have a mental illness, does that somehow automatically mean we should be treated badly and that we shouldn’t be allowed to live a happy life the way we desire to? it’s not like me transitioning impacts your life in any way whatsoever. I think it’s funny that you are going out of your way to call me what I’m not, because if you were to see me in public somewhere you wouldn’t think twice about me being male. so again, socially speaking, why the fuck does it matter whether someone is “biologically” this or that? biology is not black and white; you are oversimplifying something that is extremely complicated to fuel your own ideology. well, not ideology; hatred.

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

damn ok I know you can't answer my question but you didn't have to overcompensate that hard

[dukeofdelirium]

I’m not overcompensating, I’m asking you serious and genuine questions, lmfao. If gender dysphoria is a mental illness, what is your stance? How do you believe transsexual people deserve to be treated? Can you not answer my questions? I’d love to know, unless you have nothing to fucking say. like I was asking your friend as well, please explain to me how a child at the age of around 4-5 would express to his parents that he is a boy in the wrong body, and then going on to ask his parents where his dick is at? Where would the desire come from for that same child to want to be the opposite sex? Where would the idea come from? What causes it? Clearly something is wrong with my brain, so what is it and what is your stance on it? You’re quick to reply but not quick to provide any real answer. I would love for you to debate the psychologists and doctors and surgeons that have overseen my transition. If you’d like, I can provide their contact info? Because surely you know so much, what with your quick remarks. I can only assume your brain must be so massive and that your meat must be huge 🤣

[godh8er-deactivated20220626]

im crine bro you made a simple claim and cant back it up at ALL

[hellstarremina-blog]

please, for the love of god, at least learn to use paragraph breaks. the enter key is RIGHT THERE.

[hellstarremina-blog]

I was going to reblog a haha funneh post with this information, but you know what? Nah. But here’s this.

Christine Love was the one who made a game called Ladykiller in a Bind, which involved a route involving a corrective rape scene (skip to "The Ugly” on this article; most other articles talking about this scene, like the one from Polygon that is the first on the search for “ladykiller in a bind rape”, becomes apologist about it or skims over the fact there’s a rape scene in a game that touts itself as “explicitly consensual”).

Also a trans woman, you can see a picture of him on Wikipedia, but the article doesn’t say that he’s trans. However, you can find that information elsewhere online, namely in lists of top trans creators and such.

He even had the nerve to put up an update post and snivel about how “clearly a lot of players were uncomfortable with this scene”. This was after he put a content warning (the game originally didn’t have any! for corrective rape!) and sniveled around about how “nobody plays that scene :(”.

There’s obviously the obvious issue of “kink” and BDSM in the game, too, but those were advertised. The man advertised a lesbian game with consensual sex and put in corrective rape.

[dykemind]

sorry for the bad screenshots lol but this book was published in 1976!!! So interesting to see what evolves and carries over. GLF = gay liberation front (Karla Jay, After You’re Out)

[cowardly-bisexual]

i’m gonna say it

having teenages and ppl in their early 20s with little to no experience with irl sex, dating and LGBT communities lead online discourse on what is sexual orientation and what labels mean has done incredible damage to our community

so much of the shit that has come out of twitter and tumblr in the recent years literally sounds like a homophobic fever dream but if you dare point that out you will be sent death threats by a swarm of teenagers who have never talked to a lesbian offline

[cowardly-bisexual]

me: online-only LGBT communities end up developing really out of touch and homophobic mentalities 

online-only LGBT communities:

[witchlingmother]

“How can you be SO suspicious of all religions??”

I am a Woman.

[thesweetscentofbooks]

If centuries of misogyny and cruelty sanctioned by all religions doesn’t make us women skeptics, idk what does

[lostelvenqueen-deactivated20240]

No TERFs trans isn’t “NEW” it’s always been here and always a factor of outness. 1950′s that older than conventional 2nd wave.

You gyns need to stop and leave folks alone and not make everything worse.

[licensed-radfem-deactivated2023]

These are literally just drag queens. While I couldn’t find the original sources for the other two pictures I did manage to cite this one:

It was taken in the year 1961 and it’s a group of drag queens hanging out with actress Tallulah Bankhead who is the woman with the pushed up sleeves and arm on the table, likely at Finocchio’s, a club that was famous for it’s drag.

According to one source I found, these are the drag queens in the image:

Left to Right, are Elton Paris; Ray de Young; Lucian; a man who looks like Earl ‘Father’ Hines, jazz pianist; someone behind Tallulah; Jackie Phillips; Kara Montez; and Tanya de Malina.

Source: https://www.queermusicheritage.com/drag.html