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every one I know, goes away, in the end.

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'Why does everyone have adhd and autism now?'

We spent the last 20 years de-stigmatising mental health issues and have encouraged people to get support, there's more access to literature and real world accounts, we have better representation in media and in public spaces, we've legalised more healthy coping mechanisms and stigmatised bad and unhealthy coping mechanisms, fuck we've even legalised gay marriage and become more accepting of the queer community and sexuality on a whole, we've changed the lighting and design in shops and stores and in general there's more population and more draining stimulation around us, not to mention the electic doom boxes designed to hack people's brain chemistry and increase stimulation. It's always been here, we just didn't know what to look for and even if we did they'd hide themselves to be 'normal'.

The world has never been better and worse for neurodiverse people.

it’s okay to have clumsy and awkward sex and it’s actually really common

the ability to laugh while you’re lying tangled and naked together bc you realize just how silly something is is really really intimate and trusting, and it’s the best feeling to be like that with someone and to be relaxed

it happens with long-term partners, it happens on hookups, and it’s rarely as bad as it’s always made out to be, except we usually think it’s bad we're told that’s not how sex is supposed to go. but that’s not true.

it can still be passionate and intimate while being messy and clumsy, absolutely. you don’t need to “perform well.” sex isn’t a show: it’s about feeling good. sometimes it takes experimenting to figure out what feels good, and fumbles and awkward moments and laughter is all just part of it. sometimes that’s a huge part of the fun.