[gynpie-deactivated20230725]

Does someone have a link or a picture of that thing that describes how a woman in pornography in an anal scene bled internally and passed out, then the scene won a porn award?

[gynpie-deactivated20230725]

found it

[butch-reidentified]

Fuck every single person who supports this industry.

[antiporn-activist]

This is what you support when you defend porn.

[heringstuff]

Curious, does anyone know what's going on with the woman quoted here? I was looking for more about her and found a bunch of posts accusing her of being a scammer and saying that her stories had a lot of inconsistencies and that she has refused to provide proof for any of her stories. For example, this post and this post.

[heringstuff]

I hate Republicans

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[heringstuff]

And for men:

[heringstuff]

Here is a more detailed version of the chart for both, which includes links where you can see exactly where the data came from and download it yourself. This data is all from 2021-22 and depicts how people answered the question based on their year of birth, not how people have answered the question through the years.

Women: https://www.datawrapper.de/_/dra1x/

Men: https://www.datawrapper.de/_/JwCdS/

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[terfic]

Because gay people know who they are we aren’t chasing a personality like everyone else who feels like they need to be some kind of queer so they’re not seen as generic.

[girlsmoonsandstars]

i would love to see this chart extended but does anybody know what was happening in 1997-2000?

nevermind lol

[chaispice96]

Would love to see 2003 to 2022

[lizardly-speaking]

The gender identities especially have skyrocketed in that time, it really would be interesting to compare.

[maitrebee]

ok, there’s no fucking way that many women identify as bisexual. and how the fuck are you supposed to trust 1930s data on lesbians? the term “lesbian” was barely even in use!

and that source is absolute bullshit. why would a set of pulse census data only a few weeks long establish statistics going back 100 years?

Y'all, I am fucking begging you, think critically. PLEASE think critically.

[seeuspacelesbian-deactivated202]

I’m confused, i thought the data was based on birth years?

[maitrebee]

You’re right; it would have you believe that of 80 year-olds in the sample, there are more trans men and “other” than bisexuals.

This graph is being memed to hell and one on reddit has it broken down by years. Oy vey.

For the life of me, I CANNOT find the data set they used, and this graph has never been posted on the Ryan Radia twitter account. The Census Bureau simply doesn’t do this kind of data.

[heringstuff]

Here’s a link where you can see more detail and download the data yourself if you wish: https://www.datawrapper.de/_/dra1x/

It’s directly from the US Census Bureau, which does collect this data. You can see the questionnaires they are currently using right here: https://www.census.gov/data/experimental-data-products/household-pulse-survey.html

Here is the first place I saw it on twitter, where Ryan Radia responds to questions about the data: https://twitter.com/mattyglesias/status/1533957693295173637

Edit: Here’s where Ryan Radia first posted it on twitter: https://twitter.com/RyanRadia/status/1533914904201244675

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[terfic]

Because gay people know who they are we aren’t chasing a personality like everyone else who feels like they need to be some kind of queer so they’re not seen as generic.

[girlsmoonsandstars]

i would love to see this chart extended but does anybody know what was happening in 1997-2000?

nevermind lol

[chaispice96]

Would love to see 2003 to 2022

[lizardly-speaking]

The gender identities especially have skyrocketed in that time, it really would be interesting to compare.

[maitrebee]

ok, there’s no fucking way that many women identify as bisexual. and how the fuck are you supposed to trust 1930s data on lesbians? the term “lesbian” was barely even in use!

and that source is absolute bullshit. why would a set of pulse census data only a few weeks long establish statistics going back 100 years?

Y'all, I am fucking begging you, think critically. PLEASE think critically.

[maitrebee]

The source on this graph is fake, Ryan Radia is an economics twitter, y'all are fuckin bots.

[heringstuff]

He’s a guy who likes to go through data and do a bunch of charts. I would keep in mind that this isn’t going to be 100% accurate because there can be sampling errors, etc. (I think the dip in women born in 2000 identifying as bisexual is probably just a quirk in the data), but it’s a real source and real data from the US Census Bureau. Here’s the link to the chart where you can look at it in more detail: https://www.datawrapper.de/_/dra1x/

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[terfic]

Because gay people know who they are we aren’t chasing a personality like everyone else who feels like they need to be some kind of queer so they’re not seen as generic.

[girlsmoonsandstars]

i would love to see this chart extended but does anybody know what was happening in 1997-2000?

nevermind lol

[chaispice96]

Would love to see 2003 to 2022

[lizardly-speaking]

The gender identities especially have skyrocketed in that time, it really would be interesting to compare.

[maitrebee]

ok, there’s no fucking way that many women identify as bisexual. and how the fuck are you supposed to trust 1930s data on lesbians? the term “lesbian” was barely even in use!

and that source is absolute bullshit. why would a set of pulse census data only a few weeks long establish statistics going back 100 years?

Y'all, I am fucking begging you, think critically. PLEASE think critically.

[heringstuff]

A lot of people are missing that it says on the chart that it’s by year of birth, not data throughout the years. The data is only from 2021-2022. So about 25% of 18-22-year-old women identify as bisexual, not women overall, which does line up with other polls.

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[terfic]

Because gay people know who they are we aren’t chasing a personality like everyone else who feels like they need to be some kind of queer so they’re not seen as generic.

[girlsmoonsandstars]

i would love to see this chart extended but does anybody know what was happening in 1997-2000?

nevermind lol

[chaispice96]

Would love to see 2003 to 2022

[lizardly-speaking]

The gender identities especially have skyrocketed in that time, it really would be interesting to compare.

[heringstuff]

It’s definitely not obvious, but this isn’t showing identification through the years, this is showing how women polled in 2021-2022 identify and charting it based on the year of their birth. 2003-2022 aren’t included because they’re not adults yet, although it definitely would be interesting to see teens included.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[etesienne]

[copypaste of the post]

Throwaway. Although my husband will probably see this here anyway. Maybe this can be the conversation starter?? I don’t know! I just need to get this out somewhere and have people validate that my feelings aren’t crazy!

I’m sorry if this is all over the place. I am a mess. My (F33) husband (M36) is the most wonderful and caring person I’ve ever met in my life. I thought. Almost overbearingly sweet. He’s always concerned with how I’m doing, how I’m feeling, how is my mental health. He’s an excellent father to our two children as well. I had a difficult birth with my first child. My hospital experience was bad. I felt traumatized afterwards. When I got pregnant with my second, I knew that, barring any issues, I wanted a homebirth. My husband was all for it. He’s a nurse, so I felt doubly safe with him plus my midwife to support me. The midwife filmed and we also had a professional photographer taking pictures. Everything went great. It was so emotional and beautiful. I’m trying not to give too many details away since it’s apparently available to ANYONE for their viewing pleasure right now.

I have been pretty possessive of that birth tape. I never uploaded it anywhere. After I downloaded it onto my computer from our camera’s sim card, I uploaded it to a USB, deleted it off my computer, and I keep it in a little “hope chest” to watch when I’m feeling sentimental. It is so beautiful and important to me, and I wasn’t interested in sharing it. I have several friends who put their whole birth on YouTube, but I wasn’t interested in doing that. My birth didn’t need to be shared with the world. It didn’t need to be a teaching moment. It didn’t need to exist to make others feel better. After my traumatic first birth, it was mine and i cherished it. My husband didn’t feel the same way and sometimes had light arguments with me about it. He was never pushy, but several times, when I would watch it, he would comment “this is such an excellent birth video! You are so happy and calm! I really think you should post this. Homebirths get such a bad rep and this could put so many women at ease.” I would tell him absolutely not. This is private. Stop pestering me about it. Its my body. He eventually dropped it and hasn’t brought it up since.

My husband and I have never been controlling. We don’t have the passwords to each other’s phones. I’ve never felt the need to check each other’s phones or computers. I trust him implicitly. Well. I did anyway. I know he has a reddit. We both reddit pretty often. But i don’t know his profile or what he does on here. Idk I’ve just never thought about it

A few days ago, I was in one of my parenting subreddits and came across a disturbing thread about birth videos getting posted nonconsenually in a birth fetish subreddit. I thought to myself, that is exactly the reason I didn’t want to post my birth video. The commenter posted the link to the fetish sub and I’ll admit curiosity got the better of me and I went to look. I wanted to know if any of my friends videos wound up there so that I could tell them.

Well their videos DID wind up there. Every single one. The sub has several vast g drives linked to birth videos. But then I saw it. MY FUCKING BIRTH VIDEO. It looked like it had been a YouTube video at one point?? Idk I don’t understand how this works. I cant find it on youtube anywhere, so idk. I’m so fucking ashamed and horrified. There is a closeup of…well EVERYTHING down there in a fucking fetish site. My baby taking his first breaths. Me breastfeeding. It doesn’t even cut off after the birth. It shows my baby getting weighed, and just…held. If this is a birth fetish sub, why does it feature so much of just…my CHILD. This seems like waaayyyy more than just a birth fetish thing. Idek how to report the video. I reported the post and reddit says it doesn’t violate anything. I am bawling as I type this. Like wtf. Only ONE person knows where that tape is: my fucking husband. I don’t even know how to broach this subject with him.

“Hey did you fucking violate my privacy and post OUR BABY’S BIRTH ONLINE, or did you submit it straight to a fetish site, because that’s where it is right now.”

I don’t know what to do. I can’t believe I even have to have this discussion. Wtf even if he didn’t submit that video straight to the fetish site, he uploaded it somewhere else where they found it, and now his actions have led to THIS situation. He exposed ME to perverts online. He exposed our newborn infant to perverts online!!! Our marriage will NOT survive this and I am a wreck. I should have known he had SICK intentions when he was being so weird about wanting me to post this. WHY? WHY WOULD HE DO THIS?? I’m not even that angry about those sickos seeing me, but every time I think of my sweet little baby’s face in there…I feel like I’m going to throw up. Surely this is illegal?? Surely newborn babies can’t be featured in content that people are…sexualizing!!! Can they?? I’m also just….absolutely gutted by the fact that so many other women have had this special moment bastardized by that sub. How many of them are in my shoes? Or my friends shoes. I’m horrified. Do I press charges against my husband?? I can’t believe this is how my family is going to end. What will I even tell people. What will I tell my kids!!? Idek what to do!!

TLDR: Husband posted birth video online and it wound up on a fetish site. I don’t know what to do.

[heringstuff]

The update is infuriating. The men running the sub are complaining about the “Karens” trying to get their birth videos/children off a fetish site

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[terfic]

Because gay people know who they are we aren’t chasing a personality like everyone else who feels like they need to be some kind of queer so they’re not seen as generic.

[girlsmoonsandstars]

i would love to see this chart extended but does anybody know what was happening in 1997-2000?

nevermind lol

[chaispice96]

Would love to see 2003 to 2022

[heringstuff]

It’s birth years, so it’s the percent of women born in each year who currently identify as LGBT (the survey was taken in 2021-2022). I'd be interested to see the data for girls born in 2003 onward (although no one born in 2022 is identifying as anything yet!), but the survey only included adults.

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

[heringstuff]

And for men:

[heringstuff]

Fascinating to see how stable the number of women identifying as “lesbian” is based on year of birth.

Edit: I’ve made a bunch of replies trying to clarify but I don’t think people are seeing them? So I’ll try this

First, this is data from the US Census Bureau that was collected in 2021-2022. It shows how women born in those years CURRENTLY identify, not how women identified through the years.

Here is the link where you can see this in more detail as well as see where the data came from and download it yourself if you wish: https://www.datawrapper.de/_/dra1x/

[tockthewatchdog]

love her

[heringstuff]

I saw this on twitter where a bunch of people were very upset about her saying that, even calling it “abuse,” as if they weren’t cheering Depp on for saying much worse about Amber.

[heringstuff]

When Female Birds Are Overlooked, Conservation Suffers

Ornithologists are trying to correct biases and misguided assumptions that can undermine environmental efforts and scientific knowledge.

[killtheteendream]

[zalimaaa]

this is the title of the op-ed she got sued over & she was 100% right

[heringstuff]

I hate everything right now, but mostly Johnny Depp. I’m just going to try to avoid all the news for a while.