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You really fucked up this time old man!

#that new Control Resonant trailer am I right #oh we are really in for it now #oh we are so back #not that we ever left #myart #control remedy #remedy entertainment #dr. darling #casper darling #control resonant

duckbunny

your twenties are not "late" to start hrt. that is a normal time to start hrt. your thirties are also a normal time to start hrt. your seventies are pretty late to start hrt, but not too late. like, statistically, that's at the end of the curve. but if you are not dead, it is not too late for hrt.

#i transitioned when i was 36 and i can tell you. it is NEVER to late #and i have met poeple that didnt transistion till they where 60 #it is never to late to live your best life #and to my people that just started HRT. give it time at first it will seem that nothing happens.#it might feel like you are falling behind or going to slow but there is no such thing as to slow #trust the process and enjoy the process. because it can be a wild ride of new firsts and wonderfull discoveries

testure-1988

Spit Mask - You May Feel Some Pressure LP

#oh damn #this is some neat photography #i love how soft and almost gentle this bondage looks #it's almost soothing #in the weighted blanket type of way #it's art

fbczine

As one of our artists, @hes-a-phantom's wonderful artworks will leave you charmed! 🎂

hes-a-phantom

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#fbc zine #video game zine #fbc zine 2026 #oh would you look at that #it's me

tboy-cock

one of my biggest gripes with the trans community and the discussion of transandrophobia is that its really fucking hard to explain to, without offending/triggering, someone who cant get pregnant, who has never had the ability to get pregnant, and would REALLY LIKE the ability to get pregnant, how pregnancy can be used as an act of violence, ESPECIALLY against trans men, and that its not the same as being forced to impregnate someone, both dysphoria wise or otherwise. like they have wildly different implications. a trans man who is forcibly impregnated is forced to stop testosterone for the duration of the pregnancy, and are often barred from legal abortion more frequently than cis women. his body is changed permanently from the pregnancy, the pregnancy can out him as trans if he is stealth, pregnant people are often times physically dependent on other people after a certain point of the pregnancy which leaves them vunerable to being trapped with an abuser, and a trans man who is dysphoric about pregnancy is going to have to live with that for the duration of the pregnancy, while watching the pregnancy that he did not want permanently change his body. on top of that, it is SO HARD to rebuild a life/career after pregnancy FOR ANYONE, AND ESPECIALLY trans men. theres a reason that forced marriage/pregnancy is such a common and effective detransition tactic against trans men, both in non-western countries but everywhere else too. theres a reason we worry about it so much. these implications simply do not exist for someone who is forced to impregnate someone. its obviously sexual assault and is horrible and it is permanently life ruining but not to the extent that actually being the pregnant party is, and pretending like theyre the same or even comparable is like. its not even transandrophobia its just ridiculous

sawthatmountainburn

also even if it's a wanted pregnancy there's various complications that can arise and threaten the birthing parent's life, especially when they don't have access to proper medical care whether that's due to poverty or doctors ignoring their pain as they tend to do for marginalized patients

shamebats

The medical misogyny & abuse is a big one. Part of the reason why the "freebirth" movement exists is that way too many people who have given birth or just have been to the gynecologist before have massive medical trauma because they were mistreated, didn't have their pain and concerns taken seriously and things explained to them, had decisions made for them without being consulted first, and often were straight up lied to — and marginalized people tend to have the worst experiences. Mind you, childbirth is a scenario where if your doctors are bigoted against you, your chances of dying will be much higher.

melonmemes

shamebats

Transmasculine identities are, for many of us, deeply rooted in feminism and also an expression of it.

(Internalized) misogyny taught us that we were, by nature of our biology, inferior and limited as to what we would be able to do in life. That our brains were just wired differently, our bodies too small and weak, our minds too fragile to even be able to be equal to men, much else be men/embody masculinity.

Not only that, many of us were also taught things like that body hair makes us look unhygienic and disgusting when we naturally grew it on our bodies, or at a certain age that we should be terrified to leave the home without make-up on and with as much as a little patch of leg or armpit or facial hair visible. Some of us were even taught that our worth as a human being was stored in our attractiveness to straight men and if they didn't want to fuck us, we were nothing.

To be able to overcome that and prove that you are indeed just as capable of being masculine/a man as any cis man and to make the decision to make yourself big, strong, hairy and unfuckable in the eyes of straight men and to be confident and take up space, that takes courage, and a lot of unlearning.

We're taking full advantage of all the freedoms and rights feminists in the past have fought for and shaping our own lives unrestrained by which reproductive organs we happen (not) to have, freeing ourselves from the restraints of society and fighting to be taken seriously and exercise our autonomy regardless of what people will think. It's feminist as fuck. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

shamebats

In your life, women who hate their bodies and spend most of their money and time on products and services to alter them will tell you that you're being unfeminist by transitioning and should just learn to accept your body as it is. It's important that you don't listen to them.

Here, have a bunch of shitty meme redraws i did poorly to get me out of artblock. Enjoy🫡

#just make art shitty apparently does work when you are in art block #but yeah artblock has been kicking my ass lately #meme redraw #control remedy #jesse faden #emily pope #mr scratch #alan wake american nightmare #myart #remedy games

spirulin4

honestly like in all truth and sincerity

bituin-describes

ID: Platters of salmon sashimi and roe. ED

#oof #that is some good looking food #damn and now i am homesick to japan again #had plenty of these kinds of meals when backpacking there #i miss it #photography #finally some delicious fucking food

shamebats

"I don't want to be on meds for the rest of my life" couldn't be me. I will offer to personally suck off any team of scientists that manages to come up with a singular new medication for my condition that works and has no side effects I can't live with.

#as someon with cronic lung disease that will kill me if i dont take the medication this is such a wild take #that and next to my adhd medication that actually changed my live for the better #even my ace ass will suck off any and all scientist that worked on making these medications #“i dont want to take medication my whole life” is such a wild take #bitch i like to be alive and live my live somewhat normally and i'm willing to swallow and entire bags of dick and/or pussy for that #and the medication ofcourse