know that life has a hopeful undertone

Thirty Dirty and Thriving | Straight Dom-Leaning Switch | Yearning, horniness, etc.| 18+ | Free Palestine | Taken

[chokemedaddyy]

[himbosforgaza]

miss doing this with her

[2000s-fall-vibes]

[depsidase]

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[the-joyous-work-continues]

Reblogging because I don’t see people talking about Dom drop nearly enough!

[babiexmilk]

more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs

[freeusefox]

YES! Omg aftercare is so important you guys. In 100% complete seriousness take care of your doms. Remind them they are okay and you are okay and that whatever they did, you wanted it too. Please Dom mental health is important too

[dolutufegiterstut]

[pissmamiii]

like literally what’s the point of having a girl if you aren’t unconditionally obsessed and in love with her

[v-cvte-x]

[urlocaltwinkrey]

[ruesdeluxe]

[telltaletypist]

the real reason behind the success of dune is that it's the most autism cozy book series ever written. it's a world where the most exotic and awe-inspiring powers in existence are hyper-awareness of body language and social cues. the bulk of the prose is just spent on laying out the meaning of every verbal tick and facial expression in exhaustive detail

[depsidase]

[card-of-the-day]

Today's Card Is: Fidough

[fatefuly]

[kiwilikethefruittt]

you don’t have to delay your happiness until after everything in your life is perfect or fixed or whatever. you can enjoy it now, no matter how imperfect it may be.

[wellbruised]

[luv4greti]

mood.

[segamascott]