Mosaicing My Musings

[templodeafrodite]

“I am constantly trying to communicate something incommunicable, to explain something inexplicable, to tell about something I only feel in my bones…”

— Franz Kafka

[the-chosen-half-of-one]

Me: *goes to bookstore to pet the books like a petting zoo*

[just-shower-thoughts]

You’re not supposed to win or lose arguments. You’re supposed to reach a mutual understanding and agreement. Otherwise, you both lose.

[anxietyproblem]

[feministism]

[jheselbraum]

You don’t even have to be a lady, there are several

My last name is culturally important to me

His last name is something like Cox or Boner and it’s just not worth it

I got a doctorate before I met him and don’t want to change it

I don’t want to change my name on all my documents and have people assume I’m stealing my own identity in the early months of our marriage

I would rather keep my own last name out of personal preference

I would rather keep my own last name to make a political statement

I want my husband to take MY name

[squirrellygirlart]

It’s 2018 and people ARENT PROPERTY

[rambrosius]

•my last name sounds better with my first name than your last name does

•”tradition” is a silly reason to do anything (imo)

•why would I take my husband’s last name?

[spinningrims]

i’m seeing a lot of people reblogging suicide hotlines and this is just a reminder that this is a suicide help line that works like a text-based instant messenger for people who may need to talk to someone but have trouble/are uncomfortable making phone calls

[groovian-whovian]

Never don’t reblog this. There are so many people who have such bad anxiety about phone calls. This can save so many lives

[eastegg-deactivated20200528]

like… the overwhelming embarrassment of having a physical form

[metamemory]

[existential-esfp]

When I Joined MBTIblr: The Types As Literally Everything, Sensors SUCK, MBTI AESTHETICS, Wild to Mild Misinformation, INFJs are the purest and best and only valid MBTI types, and so much more!

MBTIblr Now: MBTI is Dead and Ennea 8s killed it. Sensors have their issues, but the stereotype of dumb sensors come from elitist iNtuitives who can barely exist in this world as a human person. Correct information? I think? We've ascended beyond broad MBTI theory and are discussing niches of specific theories stemming from psychoanalysts you'd only know if you've done your homework. INFJs are the unhealthiest, worst, and least valid MBTI Type.

[infj-love]

INFJ #thoughtstruggles

INFJ: Words are so beautiful! Language is such a wonderful playground. Is there a more joyously human way to connect to others? Give me your poetry! Give me your puns! Give me your grammar! Give me your etymology!

INFJ: Words cannot adequately describe anything. There is no point trying to be articulate. When I speak, I don’t know if I’m not being heard or if I’m just not saying it right. Ugh, I hate everything that comes out of my mouth.

*insert an implosion of emotion*

INFJ: I wish I had the words for all this.

[dolores-hazy]

“Am I crazy? I mean, I know I am. But like, crazy crazy? Wait, what even does that mean? Do I keep it real or am I just telling people what they want to hear? Am I really a horrible person and just in denial of it? Was it all my fault? Could I have handled it better? Would it be eating crow to say I was wrong or would it be me just taking the fall for it all? Wait, what is this? Stop it! I did my best to repair things and when I couldn’t, I did what was best for me. And that was the right thing Right?”

— Why must my brain overthink everything?!

[life-as-infj]

[life-as-infj]

[unconventional-infj]

I feel like I should be at least 200 by now

INFJ: In all my long years of life…

ENTJ: You’re 20.

INFJ: THAT’S IT?!?!

[books-n-quotes]

“Dreams are always crushing when they don’t come true. But it’s the simple dreams that are often the most painful because they seem so personal, so reasonable, so attainable. You’re always close enough to touch, but never quite close enough to hold and it’s enough to break your heart.”

— Nicholas Sparks, Three Weeks With My Brother (via books-n-quotes)

[ham4harrypotter-blog]

Way too many parents need to learn the difference between “a child being disrespectful” and “a human person expressing an opinion that differs from theirs”

[thoughtkick]

“Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to. It’s not for them.”

—

Joubert Botha