♥︎HisSweetDarling

❝ You are artwork I could admire forever❞ Ana - she/her - 25 - multifandom

[hissweetdarling]

❛❛She wants to be loved with an honest tongue ,devoted heart and exclusive eyes. ❜❜

ꔛ 𓈒 *🌷🖇˚  ᦃ ･ call me Ana • 25 years old • she/her • straight • single like a Pringle • Romanian • BA in Romanian & English literature -> currently pursuing a MA in multilingual and cultural studies & a pedagogy programme

ꔛ 𓈒 *🌷🖇˚  ᦃ ･blogging since 2021 • asks open for chatting if you'd like and if you want me to write an analysis ✒️ • blog contains sfw and occasionally nsfw(18+) content!!

currently: not going to be on Tumblr for a while!!

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ꔛ 𓈒 *🌷🖇˚ ᦃ ･Multifandom • selfshipper • coffee/tea lover • I love analysing stuff I'm watching • fanfiction writer(I started writing again & I might post my old fanfics again too) • chronic anxiety,overthinker also physically disabled (I kind of explain here a little bit about my disability) • a hopeless romantic • literature/psychology/art/fashion/makeup lover • lots of art on my blog and lots of posts about disability issues • I also post my thoughts/experiences sometimes • sometimes I make GIFs

ꔛ 𓈒 *🌷🖇˚  ᦃ ･ Some of my fandoms: Black Butler; Dr. Stone ; JJK ; Haikyuu! ; Demon Slayer; Kpop; Kpop Demon Hunters;Murdoch Mysteries; BBC!Sherlock; Marvel ( currently not updated with everything they've been releasing these days)

ꔛ 𓈒 *🌷🖇˚  ᦃ ･ Mini masterlist

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ꔛ 𓈒 *🌷🖇˚  ᦃ ･I don't post a DNI cuz people ignore these things anyway so just be kind and if you're not...well I block freely • Bio by me ; pictures from Pinterest • Have a lovely day!!

[wizzardhat]

Chronic pain is like: I'm in pain. "Well, you really shouldn't let that stop you from doing things." Ok, I guess I'll keep doing this even though I'm in pain. "Well, if the pain was really that bad, then it would stop you from doing things, so it's probably not that bad." Actually, it got worse because I kept doing things. "Well, why would you overdo it and hurt yourself? You should know your limits." Ok, fine. I know my limit, and I have reached it. I need to rest. "Okay, but last week you did all this other stuff, so I know you CAN do more, so I think you're just making excuses?" Ok.

[tothechaos]

the thing they dont tell you about learning to "trust the process" is that you forget and relearn it every single time you make a new piece of art. unfortunately there is no cure either

[tothechaos]

a chart of what i mean for the visual learners in the audience

[veitstanz]

[digitalresistance88]

Nat 🖤

[kvover]

ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ

[girlballs]

god it would be awesome if the human brain could just ignore an upsetting thing instead of constantly wandering back to it for no fucking reason

[closet-keys]

I think at bare minimum all medical professionals need to make sure they are treating patients with more kindness and respect than grifters. if you go to a doctor and they treat you like shit, humiliate you, and send you home without any information on your body or access to treatment, then health-grifters' offers will start to feel more tempting by simply giving the most basic performance of taking you seriously and caring about your well-being. grifters should be condemned for manipulating and exploiting sick people, and doctors also play a role in whether grifts thrive or are successfully identified and rejected. genuine baseline human respect, and beginning a relationship with a patient by earning (rather than demanding) trust, goes a long way.

[kilncreatures]

forest dogy

[fragiledate]

the strongest bond is probably pad wings to themselves. the weakest is probably pad wings to your underwear

[dizzyghoast]

every so often i remember how awesome the modern interconnected multicultural world is. i grew up getting to hear fairy tales from all over the world. africa, asia, europe, america. everywhere in between. i can have bagels for breakfast, curry for lunch, and ramen for dinner without even leaving the city limits. music and art and philosophy and technology that originated thousands of miles and years apart from eachother have come together and interwoven into something greater than the sum of its parts. its hard not fall into despair when thinking about the horrors but god. god the wonders.

[dizzyghoast]

you can have friends on the other side of the planet! neither of you even has to travel!!!!! you can just talk to them whenever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[wifegideonnav]

gonna be honest i don’t know how many more ‘enter the 6 digit code we sent to your phone’s i got left in me

[immaplatypus]

“so this week my town made the news for—” nope

“there’s a restaurant two miles from my house called—” nope

“today I learned [celeb] went to my high school—” nope nope nope nope nope

these are all real posts I’ve seen on the internet that allowed me to identify a user’s hometown instantly. if it’s a small town, that’s doubly dangerous, because a bad actor could trace you just by a unique first name or selfie you once posted. in an age where doxxing and stalking are some of the worst I’ve ever seen it, you HAVE to think twice about what you’re posting online.

i once saw a 13-year old post an image they noted as being “a few miles from their house.” it had a theater in the shot with a unique enough name to be local. one google maps search, now everyone knew not only what city they lived in, but the possible neighborhoods in that radius too. and they had a HUGE following…who all knew this was a 13-year-old child.

so yeah. not to sound like a 90s internet safety PSA…but I’m gonna be that PSA for a minute.

if you’re posting an image, there is NO need to say that you live there. you could just be traveling. “saw this in Montana” is better than “saw this by my house!”

before you post about a venue, especially a restaurant or small store, check and see if it’s local—CRUCIALLY if it has only one or two locations. people might travel to arenas or convention centers, but they’re far less likely to be traveling to Bartleby’s Fish and Chips. if it’s an anecdote and you still live nearby, you can honestly just leave the name out entirely.

if you’re sharing a news story, it can just be a story you found and wanted to share. you don’t have to clarify “it happened in my town,” because even if you don’t mention your town name, an easily-googled news article will.

if you’re seeing a concert or meeting a celebrity on a tour that’s stopped locally, wait until they’ve hit a few more venues before you post about it, or at the very least wait until you get home. this is honestly a smart move for any event you attend: unless you’re marketing yourself, there’s no need to advertise your location in real time.

check your selfie backgrounds for anything identifying. this includes city names on venues, school names, street signs, and house numbers.

this stuff is flexible if you no longer live in your hometown, or if your city is particularly big, but there’s STILL no reason to tie yourself to your school, your workplace, or your street. you can call it paranoid, but as someone who’s seen my friends get literal death threats over fictional characters before, the last thing I want is someone willing to act on those threats finding out where they live.

anyway. PSA over. does a kickflip or whatever

[cannibalthoughts]

Please also be aware that your posts also provide information about anyone you're with.

I once had a friend post a photo while visiting me with both a unique local business and a set of street signs in the background, while they knew I was being stalked by someone who knew and potentially followed their account. I wasn't in that photo, but other posts from that weekend made it obvious they were staying with me. They hadn't yet been in a position where they regretted having that information publicly available, so it didn't occur to them to avoid sharing it.

Even if you don't (yet) care about your own right to privacy, you're often not the only person you're doxxing

[witchesversuspatriarchy]

me whenever the stars are visible

[hissweetdarling]

I'm trying to download my pins before I end up with a banned account (+ other reasons) and man I get so many fanfiction ideas heeelp heeeeelp!!! this might cure my writer block though??? So a win is a win

[weepingwidar]

Yezi Lou (Chinese, 1997) - Hi From a Random Mop Bucket (2021)

[artsludge]

high-5!

[plaguedocboi]

I remember when I was younger, anytime I watched a movie where the characters have to kill a scary monster/alien, I always thought the act of killing it was intended to be part of the horror. Like there’s this amazing creature that we’ve never seen before, and maybe under different circumstances we could’ve coexisted with it, but it’s trying to attack you and you have to defend yourself, but by destroying it you also destroy the ability to ever understand it and that’s sad and is supposed to make you feel conflicted.

It was not until well into my adulthood that I realized most people do not have complicated feelings about movies where people have to kill a scary alien monster, nor is that necessarily meant to be part of the narrative (unless it very obviously is). They just want the scary thing to die because it’s scary. I don’t have a real conclusion to this I just started thinking about it for some reason.

[hissweetdarling]

[catmat]

I feel that when you're not able to get treatment for your chronic illness or disability, it adds to the feeling of losing control over your body.

Not only do you struggle to manage your symptoms but you have no choice but to watch yourself decline if you're unable to access proper care, especially in a timely manner. The control over your health and your body feels out of your hands. We are only as healthy as the resources and treatments that are available to us.

And this makes me question, whose body is this?

Because the less treatment you get, the more you lose control of your health, and the more power doctors hold over your body.

This body gives me life and I need help and treatment to live. I deserve care. I deserve autonomy over my own body. And I deserve control over my fate.