I thought about publishing it for some time because usually it triggers the “experts” to judge with their uncalled advices how their dogs “aren’t scared”. Well, Yoma always have been that relaxed, he didn’t even notice it. What did I do to achieve that? Nothing, he just didn’t care.
For Akuma it’s different. Not only he has some serious issues and was abused, there were some people out there who found it funny to throw crackers at him when he was 1 year old (got him when he was 2,5 years old).
So for him it’s definitely a trauma. This is, by the way, a better reaction to fireworks than a few years ago. He’s still showing severe signs of stress: heavy shaking, constant panting, sweating paws, losing hair, freezing, etc.
“Don’t pet your dog or you will reinforce fear!”
Ever heard that? Yes? But it’s untrue. You can’t reinforce a negative feeling by adding a positive stimulus. Being touched by someone a dog trusts, is releasing oxytocin; that makes them feel good and protected. However, don’t force your dog to be touched if they don’t like it or petting will be received as negative stimulus. That will make them feel worse. Don’t pet their heads, usually dogs prefer other spots likes cheeks or neck. Akuma, whenever I touched him, calmed himself (licking his nose, stopping to pant), while he was leaning himself against my hand.
If the dog is able to eat something, feed them. Not only it’s another positive stimulus, chewing releases endorphins that may reduce stress. It does not reinforce fear. In that state of course, Akuma won’t accept food.
Never ever leave your dog alone with their fear. Grant them your social support. Fear is irrational. They won’t think, “Oh, my human is not scared, so there’s no need to be scared for me.” – I’m 100% not scared of fireworks but Akuma obviously feels different. Are you scared of snakes maybe? Other people telling you they’re not dangerous won’t take away your fear. Other people not being scared of them won’t help you. However, if they support you, you might be less scared. Positive stimulus again. Being left alone might be a negative one.
Last but not least. Medication. I considered it years ago of course, but as he was aggressive and bit people, he is not allowed to take it. Benzodiazepines (don’t confuse it with Acepromazine! Don’t use that!) may relieve anxiety, but it can trigger his aggression.
Edit: of course you can use homeopathy. Although it’s nonsense (not sorry), it might increase the social support for your dog and has a positive effect (placebo by proxy).
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