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brittney | 27 | well, I guess this is growing up

[texashippiecowboy]

i’m in true shock x

[h0ezi3r]

The worst part about Liam Payne dying is that people are posting about “the switch up is crazy”

Like no. He was an abuser and made horrible decisions, but nobody wanted him to die. He was getting hate for an INCREDIBLY valid reason, but we all recognized that he needed mental and physical help. He needed to go to rehab. He needed to get away from drugs and alcohol and improve upon himself away from the public. No one wanted him to die.

We’re not mourning the life of an abuser, we are mourning the part of him that we adored and looked up to for a massive part of our childhood/ teenage years. He was a huge part of how I was introduced to my love of music. And yes, he did horrible things and made horrible decisions and over the last few years has been anything but admirable, but none of us wanted this.

Maya didn’t want this. And everyone saying that it’s her fault can actually go burn in hell. She likely already blames herself enough. She likely already wishes she hadn’t spoken up about it out of the guilt that she likely feels. You guys commenting all over the socials about how this is her fault and “are you happy now?” Are actually horrible people.

A 7 year old boy just lost his father. A woman just lost her long term boyfriend. Two parents just lost their son. Several young children just lost their uncle. Show some fucking respect. Joking about it and hating on people who had nothing to do with what happened is not doing anything but twist the knife for the people who this has ACTUALLY effected.

[skyfullofstars714]

[hoesidon]

Logging back into say Liam Payne is dead?!?!?!

[hoesidon]

Life update if anyone's wondering before I delete my account: I have a baby now. That's it. That's the post.

[in-a-slanted-outhouse]

I haven’t seen a single piece of tua fan art made after the release of s4 and that is saying something

[fanandsword]

You either die a hero (get unfairly cancelled after 1-2 seasons) or live long enough to become the villain (the last season/final is a shit show)

[gourmet-trash]

umbrella academy season 4 spoilers without context

[hoesidon]

Y'know, for someone who is nervous and hates talking to people due to a speech impediment, I sure did pick a work field that requires me to talk to people an awful lot. Really didn't think that one through.

[hoesidon]

So now that Hamilton sounds are going viral on TikTok, specifically Burr's opening in Your Obedient Servant. I've been seeing a lot of people being like "Burr apologist until I die" "Burr just like me fr" Nah, not me, bro. In every song Burr calls Hamilton 'bastard, son of a whore,' ran against his FIL just for power, and also sided with Jefferson and Madison. Granted, Jefferson was Hamilton's enemy, but it's not like you're that good of a friend either lmao.

[glittergluekintsugi]

a second case of cancer has hit the royal family

[hoesidon]

Kate Middleton having cancer was not on my bingo card

[hoesidon]

Kate Middleton having cancer was not on my bingo card

[hoesidon]

Any updates on your cat? :(

Yes! He came home tonight about 10 minutes ago. I went outside to bring my dog outside and he was sitting on top of my air conditioner watching me. I turned around to go back inside and there he was!! He's home safe now. No idea where he went but I'm gonna bring him to the vet tomorrow to get chipped and a wellness check up just in case. Other than that he's fine!!

[libraford]

It was kind of interesting to me that out of all the people in our training group, the ones that were the quickest to form social bonds were the people from way out in the country and the city people just kind of quietly kept to themselves.

But I was definitely accepted as one of the bumpkins.

[gallusrostromegalus]

Oh! This is actually an example of Rural vs Urban manners.

In rural/less densely populated areas, the polite thing is to offer people your time and social energy which is why country people will talk your ear off at the slightest acquaintence- it’s kind of lonely when you have to make an effort to see people, so you Make An Effort ™

In Urban/Densely populated areas, you’re meeting people whether you want to or not, because you are physically close to each other constantly. So the Polite Thing there is to kind of ignore other people and keep strictly to business, so you’re not imposing upon thier (probably already drained) soical spoons.

The city folks will warm right up to you once they get to know you well enough to know that talking to you won’t piss you off.

[longdogsinc]

I grew up rural and live in the SF Bay Area now, and this is exactly how it is.

Appropriate city behavior is about *efficiency*, creating the least friction possible in every interaction because everyone has somewhere to be and is trying to pretend they don’t have strangers in their personal bubble *all day long*.

In SF, chatting with the bank teller a second longer than necessary is rude AF because there are 10 people in line and the teller is running behind and you are inconviencing *everyone*. They will deal with 1000 customers today and they genuinely don’t have it in them to form a friendly relationship with you.

In the little forest where I grew up you could stop your car in the middle of a one lane street to chat up a friend on the sidewalk. Any other cars would just go around you. There wasn’t much traffic, it was fine. If you’re one of 50 people the bank teller is gonna see today and there’s no line, it’s actually nice to ask how their day has been and commiserate about the roadwork at the single downtown traffic light.

City & country folks are operating under very different pressures and both are “right”, but it can be hard for city people to remember how to just…shoot the shit with strangers.

[open-sketchbook]

the thing about modern suburbia is that it is the worst of both worlds in this regard

[hoesidon]

I grew up in a very rural area, and yes, people will talk your ear off. Especially if they know your family. I also lived in the city for a short time and everybody just sort of minds their business. I now live in a small town and the people are somewhat talkative. They'll try and make small talk with you. But unless they know you they won't hold a conversation for long.

[hoesidon]

So I put my cat's litter box and some cat food outside for my cat and left the curtains open so I can see if he returns. Every time I go to the back door or to the window to look, my other cat, Doja, follows me back there to watch. Every time I go outside with my dog she watches us through the window🥹😭. She's never really been real cuddly with my husband, but since my cat snuck out, she's been cuddling him and rubbing herself against him.

[hoesidon]

I know this is probably a long shot, but does ANYONE have any tips on how to find an indoor cat that snuck outside? My indoor cat is sneaky and adventurous, he snuck outside behind us the other night and we haven't been able to find him since. My other indoor cat is extra clingy to my husband now and is looking for him. Any advice is helpful. Thank you!!