[holediggingclubs]

main is @homemates and my rentry

[one-nice-shimeji-per-day]

[prokkoli]

finished reading trc earlier this year and i adored blue and ronan's friendship

[mr0atmeal]

🦊🦊🦊

[glorious-spoon]

the thing about d/s is that for virtually any ship i can be sold on either character in either role. arguments about whether a given character could or would dom are virtually always deeply silly and tend, when they lean into the idea that a given character could never dom because they're just too weak-willed, incompetent, naive, or helpless, to be the product of unexamined biases percolating up.

would this character dom (or sub) is almost never an interesting question. how would this character dom (or sub) is much more interesting. what do they get out of it? how do they feel about it? how experienced are they? are they confident or awkward? what kinks do they enjoy? what are their limits and how do they communicate them? what is the dynamic with their partner like? does it shift in the bedroom, or does it stay the same? et cetera. the same as any good erotica, it's got to be about these specific people, not faceless automatons filling the prescribed roles, or it's boring

[holediggingclubs]

speaking my truth i think kevin should also have the unshed teary shane hollander eyes. he feels so much but just can’t be loud about it

[birdmans]

#LIKED #RETWEETED

[birdmans]

a shane hollander career ending injury would be brutal but i can’t stop thinking about it like im sorry but the concept of ilya saying this to shane as not only his husband but his previous rival…. someone please pull up the googledoc

[therealrashid]

not to paraphrase my own post but ilya “likes to cause a hurt then soothe it to know his impact was felt” rozanov and shane “it has to hurt a bit to feel real” hollander. most sexually compatible people ALIVE. AND THEY ARE ALIVE. TO ME

[skiptoyuri]

[adiabat]

i’m not aromantic but i believe in their beliefs

[adiabat]

for me being bi has contributed a huge amount to noticing all the ways in which romance and friendship run together and i think in general people would benefit from recognizing that romance and friendship are socially constructed categories used to describe a vast, nebulous, and often overlapping range of feelings

[asteroidtroglodyte]

My way of parsing it:

Every Relationship is actually a specific, unique thing. We invented Shorthands, such as Friend or Husband, to help describe recurring motifs in Relationships. But. The labels are simplifications. They will always fail to adequately contain the entirety of the Relationship.

[drivestraight]

when people don’t care about the sports part of the sports yaoi ☹️ It’s the Whole Point.

[glazedcecilia]

anyone else wonder if kevin had crazy intrusive thoughts at riko’s funeral like crawling into the casket with him

[vilalyra]

let's astral merge our souls together ok?

[versatileversion]

I see your “Kevin Day fumbled 4 baddies” and I raise you “4 people had the chance to get Kevin Day on his knees for them, and didn’t.”

[linhzard]

nothing bonds two guys better than hole

[jetsjunkdrawer]

something something kevin has been playing sports since he could walk but has been in intense training since he was nine. he has been living off 4 hours a night of sleep for over ten years and almost every waking moment working out, training or playing a heavily brutal sport. at one point he was playing for four teams at once, extra training at edgar allan, little to no sleep, while maintaining perfect academics. (all while on a restricted diet. and physical abuse. and he is now self medicating with alcohol because of his trauma. not the point.) how much chronic pain does he have? what toll has been put on his body? what has this done to his brain health as well? does he wake up sometimes and feel like he can barely move without absolute agony? does he ignore it? does it ever occur to him to stop night practices because his body is reaching a limit of too little sleep?

kevin... what is happening to your body babes?

[anonbeadraws]

today's warm up: Too many missing posters in this town.