[skinsandotherthings]

[whatisajanis]

[holidaazee]

“it’s funny because the last time i saw you, you told me that you needed me in your life, and then you just disappear so how do you think that makes me feel?”

[no1knowz]

[tonguefirstyeh]

You have to accept that some people are not made for deep conversations, or for holding you together when you’re about to fall apart, or for keeping you from unzipping your skin, or for talking you out of suicide, or to love you through the worst moments of your life. Some people are made for shallow exchanges, and ridiculous banter, and nothing more. And that’s okay. That doesn’t make them horrible people because they simply aren’t able to handle a storm like you. It doesn’t make you a bad person because you won’t divulge all the gritty details of your horror show. It makes you smart. You have to accept that there will be people that cannot give you what you need. It doesn’t mean they are not worth keeping in your life. You just have to figure out who these ones are before you’re disappointed. And you have to keep them at arm’s length. You cannot expect everyone in your life to understand, to be nonjudgmental, to get it. But that’s okay, because not everyone was made to impart wisdom, or wax-poetic, or speak on politics and the depravity of society, or discuss how crucial it is that the stigma of mental illness be abolished. There are times when you have to get away from all that heaviness. You have to. And you will need superficial conversation about Kim Kardashian’s arse, or a debate on the colour of The Dress. You will need those ones. So don’t go round cutting people off and dropping your friends. You need people for all your seasons. You need people or you won’t survive this.

What my therapist told me this morning (via crushed-bythe-heaviness-of-air)

[wnq-movies]

The (500) Days of Summer attitude of ‘He wants you so bad’ seems attractive to some women and men, especially younger ones, but I would encourage anyone who has a crush on my character to watch it again and examine how selfish he is. He develops a mildly delusional obsession over a girl onto whom he projects all these fantasies. He thinks she’ll give his life meaning because he doesn’t care about much else going on in his life. A lot of boys and girls think their lives will have meaning if they find a partner who wants nothing else in life but them. That’s not healthy. That’s falling in love with the idea of a person, not the actual person.

Joseph Gordon-Levitt (via wnq-movies)

[drag0nair]

te amo?? more like te quila

[exeunt-pursued-by-a-bear]

So this is excellent because it’s a play on “tequila” AND a correct conjugation of “quilar” meaning “to fuck”

[nizariat]

You are very lucky if you have someone to whom you can tell about your bad behaviours without them thinking that you are a bad person, but because they know that what is inside you is purer and more beautiful. أنت محظوظ جدا إن كنت تملك شخصا تحكي له تصرفاتك السئة دون أن يفكر بأنك شخص سيء، لأنه يعرف جيدا أن الذي بداخلك أنقى و أجمل

Nizar Qabbani (via nizariat)

[holidaazee]

find you a man that waits til 3am for you to get home so y'all can play video games 😍

[thelovejournals]

Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave. Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready. There is more extraordinary love, more love that you have never seen, out here in this wide and wild universe. And there is the love that will be ready.

Nayyirah Waheed

(via

thelovejournals

)

I receive this😌💫

(via addictionsandpoetry)

[mi-ki-ki-m]

[britneyspearsatmcdonalds]

bye

[zoomerbro]

2016 is cursed, if i could survive just one more day and make it to 2017, I’m going 2 live for fucking ever… 

[the-greek-god-sol]

2016= 666+666+666+6+6+6 2017= 420+420+420+69+69+69

[zoomerbro]

yeeee

[gabbyzvolt25]

??????????????????

[zoomerbro]

i dont care about math i care about 420 and 69

[zoomerbro]

2017 = 420 +420 +420 + 420 + 69 + 69 + 69 + 69 + 4.20  + 4.20  + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + 4.20 + .69 + .69 + .69 + .420

[theotherbut]

Holy shit. It checks out

[goddessofidiocy-deactivated2019]

january 1st 2017

[bitxh-ass-aliens]

MEMEST YEAR EVER

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

I am thankful for the difficult people in my life. They have shown me exactly who I don’t want to be.

Unknown (via ek-p)

[holidaazee]

(2016)

Detachment applies to everything: people, memories, words, etc. not just tangible items.

Mental illness is very real.

The most cliche phrases hold the most truth.

Blood is thicker than water however you'll have friends that will become family.

Focus your energy on positivity cause frankly, being negative is exhausting and not fun being around.

Social media is very construed.

Do not settle for the one that says “you look good for someone who doesn’t work out”. There is a person out there that loves everything about you including your insecurities and you deserve that type of love.

When hopeless, find the silver lining.

Being busy and heartbreak is heavily romanticized.

Vulnerability is a strength.

Ask for help when needed. Everyone has a different headspace and by allowing some else to help, you can learn so much.

The answer isn't always black and white.

Apply, apply, apply. Practice makes you better.

No matter how much you overanalyze, some predicaments will never change. Quit breaking your spine over it and apply what you learned from it.

Turn off useless notifications.

Constantly practice how to be present.

Spend more time on hobbies than on petty thoughts.

Having a work ethic based on diligence than motivation is better.

Perspective changes everything. “Be thankful for a lawn that needs to be mowed, windows that need washing and gutters that need fixing because that means you have a home.”

Some things will never be the same.

Each person serves a purpose in your life. "Be strong enough to not give seasonal people lifetime expectations."

Actively listen instead of listening to reply.

Keep people who let you ramble in your life forever (!!!) A lot is happening in the world and if they're willing to put everything on halt to listen, they really care about you.

As upsetting as it is, privilege plays a big role in life and it's unfortunate to know I have the short stick on it.

The way someone walks out of your life speaks volumes.

Head pats are the best thing ever.

[holidaazee]

"There's a time when I woke up crying thinking, "why did I wake up again?" and now that time passed, I wake up thinking "it's good to be in the dark because now I see the light."

[milkeu]